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Ritalincell

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I don't want to be adult and I don't know what I want to do and where I want to live. I don't know what would fullfill me since idc about anything.
 
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can relate. being 15-16 mogs
i didn't ask to be an adult
 
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i assumed you're around 23 since you complained this place is full of teens
how old are you prick?
 
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Are u NEET
 
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Watched a Jordan Peterson video once where he said you kinda just need to find a job/purpose that you'll say "yea I guess that would be an alright life" and then go for it, so thats what I'm doing. Better than nothing
 
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Create a vision board and get to work. Find the bare necessities and work your way up from there. What’s your dream life like? Use that as an end goal and create steps that would help you be able to turn it into your reality. Regardless of where that is, you need to start working on yourself and making money. Job, stocks, whatever just be productive
 
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Schon wieder vergessen wer du bist
 
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I don't want to be adult and I don't know what I want to do and where I want to live. I don't know what would fullfill me since idc about anything.
Zu relatable.
Aber finde das nicht besorgniserregend.
 
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I don't wanna think of my future if it's not with you
 
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what age would you say childhood ends?
 
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what age would you say childhood ends?
I stopped feeling like full immature kid more or less around the 20th birthday mark 1year ago. I would say 19 is the last year I was pretty much a kid mentally
 
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I stopped feeling like full immature kid more or less around the 20th birthday mark 1year ago. I would say 19 is the last year I was pretty much a kid mentally
i still havent reached 20 yet and i dont feel like a kid anymore, more like an adult. idk how to feel like a kid again. i want to tho.
 
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i still havent reached 20 yet and i dont feel like a kid anymore, more like an adult. idk how to feel like a kid again. i want to tho.
BigBoy
 
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I’m 19 so adult too and I’m completely lost. My only aspiration is to move and study in another country but then again my grades ain’t good and I pretty much have no life + autism, so I feel lost too, wonder how my 20th birthday will feel if I manage to continue that long
 
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I don't want to be adult and I don't know what I want to do and where I want to live. I don't know what would fullfill me since idc about anything.
That means you gotta get out there and figure out what works for you. You gotta throw yourself into it. Sink or swim.

Go work on an oil rig. Go do a couple months in an Alaska fishery. Go to Florida and do roofing for a year. Start hopping freight trains and survive for a year or two without any money.

All these things can be good learning experiences. The possibilities are endless if you know where to look.

Go out and make a man out of yourself. You'll figure out who you are, where you stand, and what you want pretty quickly.
 
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That means you gotta get out there and figure out what works for you. You gotta throw yourself into it. Sink or swim.

Go work on an oil rig. Go do a couple months in an Alaska fishery. Go to Florida and do roofing for a year. Start hopping freight trains and survive for a year or two without any money.

All these things can be good learning experiences. The possibilities are endless if you know where to look.

Go out and make a man out of yourself. You'll figure out who you are, where you stand, and what you want pretty quickly.
shut the fuck up redneck boomer dad
 
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I'm about the farthest thing from a redneck there is. You're just a pussy. Enjoy your comfortable lifestyle.
i know you're not fucking larper
you never did any of those things
they are way harder than you think and ruins your body
 
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That means you gotta get out there and figure out what works for you. You gotta throw yourself into it. Sink or swim.

Go work on an oil rig. Go do a couple months in an Alaska fishery. Go to Florida and do roofing for a year. Start hopping freight trains and survive for a year or two without any money.

All these things can be good learning experiences. The possibilities are endless if you know where to look.

Go out and make a man out of yourself. You'll figure out who you are, where you stand, and what you want pretty quickly.
That is a huge looksmin due to stress what you are suggesting
 
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No and no. I have a drivers license tho and can drive my parents car XD
gotta have a stable income, car, apartment, be able to pay taxes, and then you are basically adult
 
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I'm coping with trying to grow wings and breath underwater
 
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i know you're not fucking larper
you never did any of those things
they are way harder than you think and ruins your body
I never said I did those things numb nuts. They were suggestions. When I was 18 though I worked on a pipeline crew from Wyoming to Colarado.

I don't need to larp. My life experiences are rich enough. I'm here to help people. And trigger soft retarded folks like yourself, who's balls haven't dropped yet.

That is a huge looksmin due to stress what you are suggesting
It depends on what kind of perspective you have going into it. Personally I find public speaking, hosting events, and working in sales to be more stressful. Physical labor amongst other men is easy and builds character. You don't have to wear a mask, or worry about being a certain way in order to appeal to co-workers/customers. Everyone's very direct, and you never have to deal with any passive aggressive bullsh*t that comes with working in an office. You just simply do what you're told to do, and learn to deal with conflicts like a man.

You don't have to go and make a career out of it. Just do it for a spell. You can learn a lot about different walks of life, yourself.

Like I mentioned before, I've worked in construction. It was a good experience. When I was 19-20 I did a short 9 month stint in the military as well. I also lost more than a year and a half of my life to heavy drug use (crystal meth).

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One time, after blowing $8,000 on ice over a period of 6 months I found myself stuck in a 3rd world country (Cambodia) with no phone, no computer (I had broken my laptop in a meth rage), and 500 riel to my name (4,000 riel = $1). I spent 7 days without food, and one night on the streets, at one point before finally getting a job. It took six months before I finally earned enough money to get myself out of Cambodia. For the first three of those months I was constantly hungry, and working 16 hours a day. That was back when I was 26. After everything's said and done, it was one of the best experiences of my life. I wouldn't trade it for anything.

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I'm 33 years old.
 
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I never said I did those things numb nuts. They were suggestions. When I was 18 though I worked on a pipeline crew from Wyoming to Colarado.

I don't need to larp. My life experiences are rich enough. I'm here to help people. And trigger soft retarded folks like yourself, who's balls haven't dropped yet.


It depends on what kind of perspective you have going into it. Personally I find public speaking, hosting events, and working in sales to be more stressful. Physical labor amongst other men is easy and builds character. You don't have to wear a mask, or worry about being a certain way in order to appeal to co-workers/customers. Everyone's very direct, and you never have to deal with any passive aggressive bullsh*t that comes with working in an office. You just simply do what you're told to do, and learn to deal with conflicts like a man.

You don't have to go and make a career out of it. Just do it for a spell. You can learn a lot about different walks of life, yourself.

Like I mentioned before, I've worked in construction. It was a good experience. When I was 19-20 I did a short 9 month stint in the military as well. I also lost more than a year and a half of my life to heavy drug use (crystal meth).

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One time, after blowing $8,000 on ice over a period of 6 months I found myself stuck in a 3rd world country (Cambodia) with no phone, no computer (I had broken my laptop in a meth rage), and 500 riel to my name (4,000 riel = $1). I spent 7 days without food, and one night on the streets, at one point before finally getting a job. It took six months before I finally earned enough money to get myself out of Cambodia. For the first three of those months I was constantly hungry, and working 16 hours a day. That was back when I was 26. After everything's said and done, it was one of the best experiences of my life. I wouldn't trade it for anything.

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I'm 33 years old.
thats crazy ngl
i respect your journey but i wouldnt want to live like that where it would hurt my health. you can do those things when youre young but there are consequences
i guess your comfortable now?
 
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I never said I did those things numb nuts. They were suggestions. When I was 18 though I worked on a pipeline crew from Wyoming to Colarado.

I don't need to larp. My life experiences are rich enough. I'm here to help people. And trigger soft retarded folks like yourself, who's balls haven't dropped yet.


It depends on what kind of perspective you have going into it. Personally I find public speaking, hosting events, and working in sales to be more stressful. Physical labor amongst other men is easy and builds character. You don't have to wear a mask, or worry about being a certain way in order to appeal to co-workers/customers. Everyone's very direct, and you never have to deal with any passive aggressive bullsh*t that comes with working in an office. You just simply do what you're told to do, and learn to deal with conflicts like a man.

You don't have to go and make a career out of it. Just do it for a spell. You can learn a lot about different walks of life, yourself.

Like I mentioned before, I've worked in construction. It was a good experience. When I was 19-20 I did a short 9 month stint in the military as well. I also lost more than a year and a half of my life to heavy drug use (crystal meth).

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One time, after blowing $8,000 on ice over a period of 6 months I found myself stuck in a 3rd world country (Cambodia) with no phone, no computer (I had broken my laptop in a meth rage), and 500 riel to my name (4,000 riel = $1). I spent 7 days without food, and one night on the streets, at one point before finally getting a job. It took six months before I finally earned enough money to get myself out of Cambodia. For the first three of those months I was constantly hungry, and working 16 hours a day. That was back when I was 26. After everything's said and done, it was one of the best experiences of my life. I wouldn't trade it for anything.

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I'm 33 years old.
I did not ask but funny story ngl
 
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thats crazy ngl
i respect your journey but i wouldnt want to live like that where it would hurt my health. you can do those things when youre young but there are consequences
i guess your comfortable now?
Comfortable enough. Not stable though. Just waiting till this covid situation's over with so I can get on with the next chapter of my life.

Comfort's something I've learned to avoid. The best thing that ever happened to me was getting fired from my job when I was 23. I'd worked there 3 years, and it was the most comfortable job I'd ever had. I had a nice car, a decent apartment, a pretty nice income and excellent benefits. Sometimes I have nightmares that I'm still working there, comfortable but not going anywhere.
 
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Comfortable enough. Not stable though. Just waiting till this covid situation's over with so I can get on with the next chapter of my life.

Comfort's something I've learned to avoid. The best thing that ever happened to me was getting fired from my job when I was 23. I'd worked there 3 years, and it was the most comfortable job I'd ever had. I had a nice car, a decent apartment, a pretty nice income and excellent benefits. Sometimes I have nightmares that I'm still working there, comfortable but not going anywhere.
i get your feeling but at some point you have to call it quits. you are 33 now and your body can only take abuse for so many years. a minor hernia or fracture can hinder you for weeks. my opinion is you should prepare for the future of being comfortable

im in university and i have a goal for myself. succeed in my profession, work a decade, and retire. in my working years when the sun is still shining i will bust my ass off. but i will set a finish line
 
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I just want to be an electrician, make enough money to rot in an nice and comfortable apartment...
and then just LDAR on this forum listening to my favorite classical music, while eating some tasty food.
 
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i get your feeling but at some point you have to call it quits. you are 33 now and your body can only take abuse for so many years. a minor hernia or fracture can hinder you for weeks. my opinion is you should prepare for the future of being comfortable

im in university and i have a goal for myself. succeed in my profession, work a decade, and retire. in my working years when the sun is still shining i will bust my ass off. but i will set a finish line
Yeah, I plan to prepare for my future as soon as I can. I'm waiting to go back to the States. I've got a bit of money to invest when I get there. After that I want to get into long haul (OTR) trucking. I'll work that job two years tops, and try to invest at least 90% of what I make. The money's good and I won't have to waste my earnings on paying somebody rent. During that time I'm gonna also learn everything I can about personal finance/investing. After trucking I'll do three more years in different high paying jobs. Alaska fisheries is something I've always been interested in. After five years total, working hard and investing here and there, I'm gonna buy a cheap piece of property, as "off the grid" as possible, and build a small comfortable house on it. Then I might go back abroad for a few more years.

I just want to eventually live off of my investments, and maybe get a meager online income stream as well. I don't need too much to be happy.
 
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