I feel like nobody likes me and idk why

[aolle]

I’ve talked about this before on here but I don’t know what it is that makes me so unlikable I just can’t seem to be able to keep friends
Like I’ll be invited to hangout with people and then after a couple weeks I find out that they’re all hanging out without me and I don’t know why
And I’ll try to make plans like I invited them all to my cabin pretty early on and they all cancelled 4 days prior citing things that I don’t really believe. I got bullied a lot for my appearance growing up and idk if that has anything to do with this now but I’ve been rated mtn-htn on here so I assume I’m not repulsive
And I don’t think I’m insufferable socially like there isn’t really anything I say that everyone makes me feel like I’m crazy for I just don’t know why they don’t like me
Maybe not having friends growing up stunted my social ability that bad and I just don’t know that they all don’t like my when we’re hanging out but I always fucking hate when these people hang out without me and I find out or they make dumb excuses when I propose something for why they can’t like I thought I was doing so well socially bc I was hanging out with 3 different groups of people only for me to find out all 3 groups will hang out without me most of the time I just don’t know why I can’t keep friends maybe this will double as a svicide note but I doubt it bc I’m going to college next year so at least I’ll have another chance but if that fails then I think I’ll just kms
All in all I just don’t understand why people don’t like hanging out with me I feel like I’m funny and interesting and not repulsive but I guess I’m wrong and that’s not how other people feel. I’ve kind of gotten into a cycle of coping with this by constantly talking to new girls so that I always have that to talk to and sometimes the girls are friends with girls who stopped hanging out with me as friends or they’ll have dated guys that stopped hanging out with me and I can use that to spite them but I just feel so fucking lonely about it all. I don’t understand why I’m not likable I fucking hate foids deep down but I also hate all these people who act like they like me and then slowly pull away and stop inviting me and subtly make it clear that I’m not liked but I never know why and if I knew why I would change but I might never know it just fucking sucks bc everytime I start hanging out with a new group of people it always ends the same way I’ll reply to this if I have anything else to add feel free to ask me any questions or words of consolation but thank you for reading this it’s the most seen I think I’ve been in my life

 

[xzylecrey]

Watch charismatic people and how they talk and interact. Maybe anyone you find funny aswell. Everyone wants to be around positive energy and a really funny guy. Aside from that im not really sure bro sorry to hear

 

[aolle]

Watch charismatic people and how they talk and interact. Maybe anyone you find funny aswell. Everyone wants to be around positive energy and a really funny guy. Aside from that im not really sure bro sorry to hear

Thank you man I don’t really get it a lot of people say that I’m funny like it’s probably that or saying that I’m confident that people tell me the most but maybe I can work on charisma. I just don’t know what I could do differently because they seem to want to hang out with me at first but then when they do ig I’m too much or something but I do appreciate what you’re saying and I can give it a try

 

[aolle]

Maybe it’s because for most of the groups they’ve been friends from before they knew me and they can look past me but idk why they do it or how they do it so easily and just stop caring

 

[aolle]

Like I feel like if I were to kms all these people would act like they couldn’t believe it and that they were such good friends with me but in reality they don’t actually care about me and don’t want to

 

[alpomer7]

Ugly face

 

[i love my frenchie]

dnr but ill rep u and dont kys theres always better things to come and new things to trust most people’s suffering is temporary

 

[aolle]

Ugly face

If you had read this I talk about being rated mtn-htn and coping with this by always talking to a new girl but you’re right man

 

[aolle]

dnr but ill rep u and dont kys theres always better things to come and new things to trust most people’s suffering is temporary

I hope so

 

[bloatfinalboss]

I’ve talked about this before on here but I don’t know what it is that makes me so unlikable I just can’t seem to be able to keep friends
Like I’ll be invited to hangout with people and then after a couple weeks I find out that they’re all hanging out without me and I don’t know why
And I’ll try to make plans like I invited them all to my cabin pretty early on and they all cancelled 4 days prior citing things that I don’t really believe. I got bullied a lot for my appearance growing up and idk if that has anything to do with this now but I’ve been rated mtn-htn on here so I assume I’m not repulsive
And I don’t think I’m insufferable socially like there isn’t really anything I say that everyone makes me feel like I’m crazy for I just don’t know why they don’t like me
Maybe not having friends growing up stunted my social ability that bad and I just don’t know that they all don’t like my when we’re hanging out but I always fucking hate when these people hang out without me and I find out or they make dumb excuses when I propose something for why they can’t like I thought I was doing so well socially bc I was hanging out with 3 different groups of people only for me to find out all 3 groups will hang out without me most of the time I just don’t know why I can’t keep friends maybe this will double as a svicide note but I doubt it bc I’m going to college next year so at least I’ll have another chance but if that fails then I think I’ll just kms
All in all I just don’t understand why people don’t like hanging out with me I feel like I’m funny and interesting and not repulsive but I guess I’m wrong and that’s not how other people feel. I’ve kind of gotten into a cycle of coping with this by constantly talking to new girls so that I always have that to talk to and sometimes the girls are friends with girls who stopped hanging out with me as friends or they’ll have dated guys that stopped hanging out with me and I can use that to spite them but I just feel so fucking lonely about it all. I don’t understand why I’m not likable I fucking hate foids deep down but I also hate all these people who act like they like me and then slowly pull away and stop inviting me and subtly make it clear that I’m not liked but I never know why and if I knew why I would change but I might never know it just fucking sucks bc everytime I start hanging out with a new group of people it always ends the same way I’ll reply to this if I have anything else to add feel free to ask me any questions or words of consolation but thank you for reading this it’s the most seen I think I’ve been in my life

It might be bc ur doing too much, had the same problem, if they know eachother then they probably have their own inside jokes, u should act more nonchalant and only make jokes that are actually really funny to not make it sound weirdly, status is also very important bc most foids don’t enjoy being around someone with no status bc they are selfish cunts but thats how is life nowadays

 

[i love my frenchie]

I hope so

i read some of the msg and finding a group u fit into can be difficult, when i was first in highschool i felt like this but finding people who accept u can be hard, worth it tho

 

[xzylecrey]

Tbf if u can just be that laid back cool reliable friend that might work too.

 

[gymcelld]

dnr hope it gets better tho

 

[small_solomon]

I’ve talked about this before on here but I don’t know what it is that makes me so unlikable I just can’t seem to be able to keep friends
Like I’ll be invited to hangout with people and then after a couple weeks I find out that they’re all hanging out without me and I don’t know why
And I’ll try to make plans like I invited them all to my cabin pretty early on and they all cancelled 4 days prior citing things that I don’t really believe. I got bullied a lot for my appearance growing up and idk if that has anything to do with this now but I’ve been rated mtn-htn on here so I assume I’m not repulsive
And I don’t think I’m insufferable socially like there isn’t really anything I say that everyone makes me feel like I’m crazy for I just don’t know why they don’t like me
Maybe not having friends growing up stunted my social ability that bad and I just don’t know that they all don’t like my when we’re hanging out but I always fucking hate when these people hang out without me and I find out or they make dumb excuses when I propose something for why they can’t like I thought I was doing so well socially bc I was hanging out with 3 different groups of people only for me to find out all 3 groups will hang out without me most of the time I just don’t know why I can’t keep friends maybe this will double as a svicide note but I doubt it bc I’m going to college next year so at least I’ll have another chance but if that fails then I think I’ll just kms
All in all I just don’t understand why people don’t like hanging out with me I feel like I’m funny and interesting and not repulsive but I guess I’m wrong and that’s not how other people feel. I’ve kind of gotten into a cycle of coping with this by constantly talking to new girls so that I always have that to talk to and sometimes the girls are friends with girls who stopped hanging out with me as friends or they’ll have dated guys that stopped hanging out with me and I can use that to spite them but I just feel so fucking lonely about it all. I don’t understand why I’m not likable I fucking hate foids deep down but I also hate all these people who act like they like me and then slowly pull away and stop inviting me and subtly make it clear that I’m not liked but I never know why and if I knew why I would change but I might never know it just fucking sucks bc everytime I start hanging out with a new group of people it always ends the same way I’ll reply to this if I have anything else to add feel free to ask me any questions or words of consolation but thank you for reading this it’s the most seen I think I’ve been in my life

It’s ok bro you got us

 

[aolle]

It might be bc ur doing too much, had the same problem, if they know eachother then they probably have their own inside jokes, u should act more nonchalant and only make jokes that are actually really funny to not make it sound weirdly, status is also very important bc most foids don’t enjoy being around someone with no status bc they are selfish cunts but thats how is life nowadays

I think so I’m gonna try to be more calm in the future bc I’m incredibly outgoing /low inhib to the point where I’ve been asked if I even get anxious but it might be to the point where people think I’m weird for it or don’t want to associate with it

 

[aolle]

Tbf if u can just be that laid back cool reliable friend that might work too.

I’m gonna try to be closer to this in the future

 

[xzylecrey]

I’m gonna try to be closer to this in the future

W small progress is better than no progress so take baby steps. Hopefully your desired outcome is at the end of the steps

 

[aolle]

W small progress is better than no progress so take baby steps. Hopefully your desired outcome is at the end of the steps

Thank you

 

[Gengar]

No offense but I think they all watched The Evil Dead and then you invited them to your cabin?

 

[aolle]

No offense but I think they all watched The Evil Dead and then you invited them to your cabin?

Lmao I’m sure that’s what changed it

 

[Gengar]

Lmao I’m sure that’s what changed it

My goal was to make you laugh because you seemed sad and it worked.

 

[fantamaxxer]

Truecell trait

 

[aolle]

My goal was to make you laugh because you seemed sad and it worked.

Thank you dude

 

[Gengar]

Thank you dude

No need to thank me.

 

[LTNUser]

Ratings on .org is useless
How girls perceive you IRL is what matters the most

No need to thank me.

 

[fantamaxxer]

I wanted to delete ts post but couldnt

 

[aolle]

Ratings on .org is useless
How girls perceive you IRL is what matters the most

Well if I’m also coping with this by talking to various different girls then I’m pretty sure the irl perception is still good