vinn98
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Last night was my first time going clubbing sober, and it was a failure. I was also hungover.
So tonight I decide to go for round 2 completely sober and see what happens. I was walking down the street and I see a little club so I just walk inside. It's pretty busy down there. The first thing I do when I enter the club is cold approach guys. I just started chatting up random guys at the bar. While talking to those guys with the loud music playing something in my brain just snapped and the anxiety was gone. I knew at that moment that I was in state.
Then I see a cute girl at the bar ordering drinks, so I say "Hey are you sure you can handle all that alcohol?". She just looks at me and smiles meekly, I think she's drunk.
I didn't find her that gl so I walk to the other side of the bar. I approached some more girls at the bar.
Then I see a cute slim elven girl with long brown hair walking my way. I didn't have much time so I just yell out to her "Hey where are you from?". She responded just with the name of her country, and my brain kind of froze. She wasn't showing enthusiasm but it wasn't a harsh rejection either. I then tell her I speak her language and she just responds "Super!". Her friend next to her was giving me a weird look and I didn't pursue it further. I need some indicator of interest from a girl to keep going.
At that point I head to the dance floor and I'm just pretending to be drunk to get me more in state.
Then I walk back to to the bar and I see a thick blonde girl walking by. I'm about to approach her but then another guy gets to her first. You can see her in the background here.
I've only been in there like 20 minutes and I've already approached multiple women while completely sober. I feel like that's enough accomplishment for one night so I head out. As I'm walking home I suddenly think no, the night can't be over yet. I start walking back to another popular bar. I go down the stairs and head to the bar. I immediately spot my target, a cute slavic looking girl sitting at the bar. I go up to her and ask here where she's from because she has a very slavic face. I ask if she's from Ukraine. She responds yes, then I tell her I know some Ukrainian music. I start singing a Ukrainian song in her ear, then she says it's very sweet of me. Then I go up next to her and order a Sprite, I turn to her and ask if I get can her number. She says she's married and shows me the ring. I say ohhhh I'm so sorry, I didn't know.
Then I go to the dance floor. Some chubby girl is looking at me. Then I go to the other side and I see some older woman looking at me. Maybe I would have gone for it when in my younger days when I got completely drunk, but at this point I don't want to pursue anything with a woman unless I find her attractive enough to be in LTR with, so I ignore them both.
Then I make one more loop to the bar and I see a slim dark haired woman walking towards me. I do my craziest approach yet, I simply yell out to her "Hey can I get your number?". She just pointed to her friend behind her, the married Ukrainian girl. At that point I felt the night had reached its conclusion.
I leave and as I'm on the tram home I get a new message from a Tinder match.
Now I'm at home and reflecting on tonight, knowing it's possible to go out and mass approach without alcohol. I am ready for tomorrow night.
@Zelenskyiv
@MoggerGaston
@BrahminBoss
So tonight I decide to go for round 2 completely sober and see what happens. I was walking down the street and I see a little club so I just walk inside. It's pretty busy down there. The first thing I do when I enter the club is cold approach guys. I just started chatting up random guys at the bar. While talking to those guys with the loud music playing something in my brain just snapped and the anxiety was gone. I knew at that moment that I was in state.
Then I see a cute girl at the bar ordering drinks, so I say "Hey are you sure you can handle all that alcohol?". She just looks at me and smiles meekly, I think she's drunk.
I didn't find her that gl so I walk to the other side of the bar. I approached some more girls at the bar.
Then I see a cute slim elven girl with long brown hair walking my way. I didn't have much time so I just yell out to her "Hey where are you from?". She responded just with the name of her country, and my brain kind of froze. She wasn't showing enthusiasm but it wasn't a harsh rejection either. I then tell her I speak her language and she just responds "Super!". Her friend next to her was giving me a weird look and I didn't pursue it further. I need some indicator of interest from a girl to keep going.
At that point I head to the dance floor and I'm just pretending to be drunk to get me more in state.
Then I walk back to to the bar and I see a thick blonde girl walking by. I'm about to approach her but then another guy gets to her first. You can see her in the background here.
I've only been in there like 20 minutes and I've already approached multiple women while completely sober. I feel like that's enough accomplishment for one night so I head out. As I'm walking home I suddenly think no, the night can't be over yet. I start walking back to another popular bar. I go down the stairs and head to the bar. I immediately spot my target, a cute slavic looking girl sitting at the bar. I go up to her and ask here where she's from because she has a very slavic face. I ask if she's from Ukraine. She responds yes, then I tell her I know some Ukrainian music. I start singing a Ukrainian song in her ear, then she says it's very sweet of me. Then I go up next to her and order a Sprite, I turn to her and ask if I get can her number. She says she's married and shows me the ring. I say ohhhh I'm so sorry, I didn't know.
Then I go to the dance floor. Some chubby girl is looking at me. Then I go to the other side and I see some older woman looking at me. Maybe I would have gone for it when in my younger days when I got completely drunk, but at this point I don't want to pursue anything with a woman unless I find her attractive enough to be in LTR with, so I ignore them both.
Then I make one more loop to the bar and I see a slim dark haired woman walking towards me. I do my craziest approach yet, I simply yell out to her "Hey can I get your number?". She just pointed to her friend behind her, the married Ukrainian girl. At that point I felt the night had reached its conclusion.
I leave and as I'm on the tram home I get a new message from a Tinder match.
Now I'm at home and reflecting on tonight, knowing it's possible to go out and mass approach without alcohol. I am ready for tomorrow night.
@Zelenskyiv
@MoggerGaston
@BrahminBoss
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