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"you can DNR this thread if you want but i wanted to talk about it because i don't really have anyone to talk to about this"
i finally managed to get a girlfriend after 18 years without any girlfriend. i finally got one after, i think i wasn't making any effort to get one, i was insecure and i looked like shit, then i ascended etc
she's a girl from my gym, i saw her all the time at the gym and i found her really pretty but knowing what i looked like i knew i had zero chance
then the months passed and one day i got a notification on my phone, it was an instagram notification, i saw that someone had followed me, i look at the profile picture and see it's her, i was in shock, then i tried to follow back and i couldn't, normal, she had blocked me, she hadn't meant to follow me
but i had managed to remember a bit of her username and for weeks i searched for her instagram without success since she had blocked me
then one day her instagram appeared, she had unblocked me but i didn't do anything even though i really wanted to follow her so bad
i talked about it to my best friends who told me to do it but i couldn't bring myself to
then one day i was with one of my best friends and i had her instagram open on my phone and i showed it to my friend and just told him to click for me and he did
then in the end i waited 1 or 2 weeks before sending her the first message and then everything went perfectly, in 3 months i had become her boyfriend
i loved it and still love it and since then i've had time to keep ascending, i haven't finished ascending yet but it's going well, i'm handsome with a really good physique, i'm on gear btw which helps a lot btw i think i'll also make a thread on my stack etc
anyway the feeling of being in love and feeling loved is really nice
and actually the follow wasn't by accident because she had been stalking me for 1 year already which is crazy
and i also wanted to talk about the fact that because of my insecurities with my physique, because i find myself way less muscular than i actually am, and she tells me herself that i'm more muscular than average, even her friends told her that i was which boosts the ego a lot
it made me laugh when she told me that when she hugs me she feels the muscles in my back, which is obvious but still a little ego boost that feels good
anyway i love this girl and she loves me, in the end it was easier than i thought to get a girlfriend
i finally managed to get a girlfriend after 18 years without any girlfriend. i finally got one after, i think i wasn't making any effort to get one, i was insecure and i looked like shit, then i ascended etc
she's a girl from my gym, i saw her all the time at the gym and i found her really pretty but knowing what i looked like i knew i had zero chance
then the months passed and one day i got a notification on my phone, it was an instagram notification, i saw that someone had followed me, i look at the profile picture and see it's her, i was in shock, then i tried to follow back and i couldn't, normal, she had blocked me, she hadn't meant to follow me
but i had managed to remember a bit of her username and for weeks i searched for her instagram without success since she had blocked me
then one day her instagram appeared, she had unblocked me but i didn't do anything even though i really wanted to follow her so bad
i talked about it to my best friends who told me to do it but i couldn't bring myself to
then one day i was with one of my best friends and i had her instagram open on my phone and i showed it to my friend and just told him to click for me and he did
then in the end i waited 1 or 2 weeks before sending her the first message and then everything went perfectly, in 3 months i had become her boyfriend
i loved it and still love it and since then i've had time to keep ascending, i haven't finished ascending yet but it's going well, i'm handsome with a really good physique, i'm on gear btw which helps a lot btw i think i'll also make a thread on my stack etc
anyway the feeling of being in love and feeling loved is really nice
and actually the follow wasn't by accident because she had been stalking me for 1 year already which is crazy
and i also wanted to talk about the fact that because of my insecurities with my physique, because i find myself way less muscular than i actually am, and she tells me herself that i'm more muscular than average, even her friends told her that i was which boosts the ego a lot
it made me laugh when she told me that when she hugs me she feels the muscles in my back, which is obvious but still a little ego boost that feels good
anyway i love this girl and she loves me, in the end it was easier than i thought to get a girlfriend



