i found my girlfriends old chat with her ex

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she gave me her pinterest account a while back to share a collection or whatever. for some reason today i decided to check the app. i didn’t realise i was still logged in to her account.

curiousity got over me and i checked her chats. there was nothing there. there was a pencil option (ive never used pinterest before this) and “create a new message” popped up.

i recognised her ex as one of the options. for some reason i clicked it, the chats were still there. they sent hearts to each other, “i love yous”, cute pins. she sent him love sonnets, planned their future etc. this was back when they were still dating (last msg was 2024) she deleted the chats but ig Pinterest doesn’t really delete them.

i think im gonna be sick. she doesn’t know ive seen this yet, but its genuinely the worst shit i’ve seen in my life. might break it off with her tbh, i don’t know how i can continue this. each time i look at her now, all ill think about is that garbage. permacucked
 
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Yeah nah fuck that dump her ass
 
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Kill and dump her
 
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Was this recent chats? Or back then?
 
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she gave me her pinterest account a while back to share a collection or whatever. for some reason today i decided to check the app. i didn’t realise i was still logged in to her account.

curiousity got over me and i checked her chats. there was nothing there. there was a pencil option (ive never used pinterest before this) and “create a new message” popped up.

i recognised her ex as one of the options. for some reason i clicked it, the chats were still there. they sent hearts to each other, “i love yous”, cute pins. she sent him love sonnets, planned their future etc.

i think im gonna be sick. she doesn’t know ive seen this yet, but its genuinely the worst shit i’ve seen in my life. might break it off with her tbh, i don’t know how i can continue this. each time i look at her now, all ill think about is that garbage. permacucked
Average oofty dooty relationship
 
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sorry to hear king

hope you get over her

you deserve better
 
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Who the fuck texts people on Pinterest?
 
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thats vulgar
 
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there is too many foids in the world js get another one
 
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Dump her nigga
she gotta go and you deserve better
 
she gave me her pinterest account a while back to share a collection or whatever. for some reason today i decided to check the app. i didn’t realise i was still logged in to her account.

curiousity got over me and i checked her chats. there was nothing there. there was a pencil option (ive never used pinterest before this) and “create a new message” popped up.

i recognised her ex as one of the options. for some reason i clicked it, the chats were still there. they sent hearts to each other, “i love yous”, cute pins. she sent him love sonnets, planned their future etc.

i think im gonna be sick. she doesn’t know ive seen this yet, but its genuinely the worst shit i’ve seen in my life. might break it off with her tbh, i don’t know how i can continue this. each time i look at her now, all ill think about is that garbage. permacucked
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i dont know how i can live knowing any girl i interact with has had these conversations with other men before

but seeing it is a different thing entirely
 
Cons of dating a woman in age of social media. Cortisol spike everyday
 
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This is why you dont date girls with previous partners/non virgins
 
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she gave me her pinterest account a while back to share a collection or whatever. for some reason today i decided to check the app. i didn’t realise i was still logged in to her account.

curiousity got over me and i checked her chats. there was nothing there. there was a pencil option (ive never used pinterest before this) and “create a new message” popped up.

i recognised her ex as one of the options. for some reason i clicked it, the chats were still there. they sent hearts to each other, “i love yous”, cute pins. she sent him love sonnets, planned their future etc. this was back when they were still dating (last msg was 2024) she deleted the chats but ig Pinterest doesn’t really delete them.

i think im gonna be sick. she doesn’t know ive seen this yet, but its genuinely the worst shit i’ve seen in my life. might break it off with her tbh, i don’t know how i can continue this. each time i look at her now, all ill think about is that garbage. permacucked
I don't see the problem here. ofc it is fucking disgusting and peak cuck to think about from your perspective but neither of yall did anything wrong tbh.
 
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This is why you dont date girls with previous partners/non virgins
i’ve made more posts about this than anyone on this website. but good luck finding finding one at my age
 
I don't see the problem here. ofc it is fucking disgusting and peak cuck to think about from your perspective but neither of yall did anything wrong tbh.
i know, i just don’t know if i can live with it
 
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well it was back from when they used to date after all, fuck were they supposed to talk to each other about? the weather?:lul:

either way, jfl @ dating foids with a past
 
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well it was back from when they used to date after all, fuck were they supposed to talk to each other about? the weather

either way, jfl @ dating foids with a past
i’ve made more posts about this than anyone on this website. but good luck finding finding one at my age
 
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Have fun trying to eat for the next few days :love:
 
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wait until bro realizes he can still date 18+
do you mean 18-? even 14yos have boyfriends these days, you just have to accept being cucked at some level
 
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do you mean 18-? even 14yos have boyfriends these days, you just have to accept being cucked at some level
the situation aint that bad bruh
 
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Have fun trying to eat for the next few days :love:
im gonna meet her day after, if im not utterly disgusted i’ll probably just forget about it
 
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im gonna meet her day after, if im not utterly disgusted i’ll probably just forget about it
Nah it’ll always be in the back of ur mind :feelsbadman:
 
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But she will say the same things to you, and then dump you and say that to another guy, it doesn’t matter, they like the emotions that are in it but it won’t happen probably it’s just nice to fantasise, they think differently than you, waste of time to care about all this
 
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wait until bro realizes he can still date 18+
Wait until bro realises that foids are losing it before legal age on a mass scale...
 
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But she will say the same things to you, and then dump you and say that to another guy, it doesn’t matter, they like the emotions that are in it but it won’t happen probably it’s just nice to fantasise, they think differently than you, waste of time to care about all this
you are right, i’ve pretty much come to the same conclusions after almost 6 years of obsessing over women’s pasts and spiking my cortisol over it. i’d still never marry these chicks but worrying about it is simply not worth it. thanks for the reminder
 
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she gave me her pinterest account a while back to share a collection or whatever. for some reason today i decided to check the app. i didn’t realise i was still logged in to her account.

curiousity got over me and i checked her chats. there was nothing there. there was a pencil option (ive never used pinterest before this) and “create a new message” popped up.

i recognised her ex as one of the options. for some reason i clicked it, the chats were still there. they sent hearts to each other, “i love yous”, cute pins. she sent him love sonnets, planned their future etc. this was back when they were still dating (last msg was 2024) she deleted the chats but ig Pinterest doesn’t really delete them.

i think im gonna be sick. she doesn’t know ive seen this yet, but its genuinely the worst shit i’ve seen in my life. might break it off with her tbh, i don’t know how i can continue this. each time i look at her now, all ill think about is that garbage. permacucked
My friend...

If you can find a virgin, on my life, get rid of this girl in a heartbeat.

A good-looking virgin* (had to clarify :forcedsmile:)

However, you know what age we live in. It's gonna come to it that it's more likely to win the lottery than find a virgin.

So don't let this get to you. Keep her around, keep her in line.

Otherwise, you're throwing her away for another bitch that's probably worse, and you're only getting older...
 
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I don’t see the issue here, you are looking at your girls dms with her ex when they were dating and are disgusted that they loved each other at one point? Bro get over it and forget about it
 
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to clarify, this was back from when they were still dating.
So you got mad because you saw her text some other guy i love you when they WERE together? Jfl
 
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My friend...

If you can find a virgin, on my life, get rid of this girl in a heartbeat.

A good-looking virgin* (had to clarify :forcedsmile:)

However, you know what age we live in. It's gonna come to it that it's more likely to win the lottery than find a virgin.

So don't let this get to you. Keep her around, keep her in line.

Otherwise, you're throwing her away for another bitch that's probably worse, and you're only getting older...
you’re right, she’s a good girl otherwise
 
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I don’t see the issue here, you are looking at your girls dms with her ex when they were dating and are disgusted that they loved each other at one point? Bro get over it and forget about it
So you got mad because you saw her text some other guy i love you when they WERE together? Jfl
yes i know it sounds retarded but it’s still disgusting to think about
 
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you’re right, she’s a good girl otherwise
I dunno what you mean by good girl.

If it's my understanding of that word, then don't let go of her.

Unless you find the aforementioned Madonna foid, give that bitch the immaculate conception :feelshehe:

On a more serious note, though, you gotta keep your frame.

You sound a little sensitive, no offense.

She has to be the one with anxiety about your past relationships and the possibility of you leaving, not vice versa.
 
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I dunno what you mean by good girl.

If it's my understanding of that word, then don't let go of her.

Unless you find the aforementioned Madonna foid, give that bitch the immaculate conception :feelshehe:

On a more serious note, though, you gotta keep your frame.

You sound a little sensitive, no offense.

She has to be the one with anxiety about your past relationships and the possibility of you leaving, not vice versa.
i am sensitive tbh, shit like this affects me a lot. more than it should
 
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i am sensitive tbh, shit like this affects me a lot. more than it should
Don't wanna teach you to suck eggs, but I'm sure you know that being sensitive is not advantageous as a guy.

Maybe you can find some narrow domain where being in your feelings helps you, something creative perhaps, but you don't wanna bring that into your social life.

BLACKPILL WARNING

At the same time, you were probably born like this. You know how in a litter of puppies, some are natural alphas whilst others are little pussies; the hierarchies emerge almost instantly.

It's not the end of the world, but you should always be mindful of that and do shit to kill the part of you that's 'sensitive', or at least learn to tame it.
 
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rape her
 
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Send her the same love sonnets that she sent to him, and she will be like, woah, this is fate.
 
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