avoidfoids_
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I used to consider myself aware and not insecure but now I realize that It's more insecurity then awareness. I've always known I wasnt the most attractive and when I first found about looksmaxxing It made me a lot more aware of my bad features. The deeper I dived into it the more I realized my bad features, even some features which I considered my "good" features turned out to be bad, or well at least to me. I know to some extent this was just awareness and although looksmaxxing helped me improve my looks it also made me extremely insecure. I have no acne, good hair, good style, and a VERY good personality despite using these forums but sometimes I feel like thats all I have. While I dont get much girls, I still do. I will at least talk to ONE girl a year but now Im talking to this really beautiful drop dead gorgoeus girl (she aint no stupid "foid" very contradictory to my name, what a fakecel I am!) and somehow she likes me, but I feel she likes me for my personality more than anything, she's also told me to not cut my hair and while I know I like here and she likes me back I am afraid to full on admit my feelings, not because of rejection but because I'm no good for her. Shes way out of my league and im not even average looking. I'm not ugly but im not attractive either, I know that but Its way more than awareness, any non insecure person would look up and praise whatever they think is out there and bag her. But im not normal, Im instead thinking on how I'm going to be the "ew your dating him guy" or how she is not emberassed to like someone who looks like me to the point where I'm willing to lose her to avoid the future heartbreak I know awaits. I know no one likes a crybaby and that surgery is the way to go, but I genuinely cant do that, Im 17, flat broke, loser parents who dont want to see me ascend. How do I get over this? Copes to avoid the rope?
