I hate my hair

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Ngl, I have no clue what to do with my hair rn. I'm indecisive af, don't know if short hair is even the move for me. It’s been growing for like 10-12 months? I think. It’s 4a hair and honestly, I’m mad insecure about it. Should I keep letting it cook or just go for a short cut like Marlon Garcia? Lmk your tips, pls. (Btw, first post on this acc, not that it matters lol).
 
Ngl, I have no clue what to do with my hair rn. I'm indecisive af, don't know if short hair is even the move for me. It’s been growing for like 10-12 months? I think. It’s 4a hair and honestly, I’m mad insecure about it. Should I keep letting it cook or just go for a short cut like Marlon Garcia? Lmk your tips, pls. (Btw, first post on this acc, not that it matters lol).
Get yourself a leave in conditioner stick with medium-long hair
 
Ngl, I have no clue what to do with my hair rn. I'm indecisive af, don't know if short hair is even the move for me. It’s been growing for like 10-12 months? I think. It’s 4a hair and honestly, I’m mad insecure about it. Should I keep letting it cook or just go for a short cut like Marlon Garcia? Lmk your tips, pls. (Btw, first post on this acc, not that it matters lol).
Post a selfie and I will help you determine the best hairstyle that frames your hair in a manner that compliments your fwhr.

Also my suggestion would be to try out a relaxer, I have curly hair and it gave me straight hair within 10 minutes. Do note that this effect is permanent and the curls will lose their coiling to an extent based on how long you keep the relaxer in for good. New root growth is not affected however.
 
just take a picture of yourself and find some app that makes you edit hairstyles on you idk might be inaccurate but the hairdresser won't give you any better advice

also you don't need to be insecure about 4a hair coils and curls aren't ugly i don't recommend you to try anything big on it just learn how to take care of it and it can boost your looks but i cannot see your hair and i don't wanna pressure you to send a picture of yourself but the first step is understanding your hair and what it can do to boost your looks
 
Ngl, I have no clue what to do with my hair rn. I'm indecisive af, don't know if short hair is even the move for me. It’s been growing for like 10-12 months? I think. It’s 4a hair and honestly, I’m mad insecure about it. Should I keep letting it cook or just go for a short cut like Marlon Garcia? Lmk your tips, pls. (Btw, first post on this acc, not that it matters lol).
Thanks for the replies, everyone. Honestly, I'm going through some real life stuff right now and idk if I'm in the right headspace to stay active here for a bit. Massive thanks again to those who reached out
 

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