AlexanderTheGreat
stacysexual | short face LDARing | to-be-GodChad
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This is more of a productivity related post.
Over the years I have realized that I have a legit problem with switching contexts quickly and instead becoming hyper focused on my current thing.
A lot of the times it has happened that I am in the mood to work, so I get completely engrossed in that... so much so that I have even filtered out attention from stacies when that happens. Like I am sitting in a cafe and totally focused on work, and then some foids would give me IOIs, I would recognize that but my brain would completely filter that out and I will continue to focus on my work. (And the obviously regret it the next day when I realize what happened)
Also happens the opposite way. When I am in the mood to have fun / be relaxed, I become too relaxed and start ignoring all work assignments, even those that are urgent and with a tight deadline.
This has caused me to fail in both work life and dating life, and I really need to understand why this happens and if there is a cure for this...
Over the years I have realized that I have a legit problem with switching contexts quickly and instead becoming hyper focused on my current thing.
A lot of the times it has happened that I am in the mood to work, so I get completely engrossed in that... so much so that I have even filtered out attention from stacies when that happens. Like I am sitting in a cafe and totally focused on work, and then some foids would give me IOIs, I would recognize that but my brain would completely filter that out and I will continue to focus on my work. (And the obviously regret it the next day when I realize what happened)
Also happens the opposite way. When I am in the mood to have fun / be relaxed, I become too relaxed and start ignoring all work assignments, even those that are urgent and with a tight deadline.
This has caused me to fail in both work life and dating life, and I really need to understand why this happens and if there is a cure for this...