I have never seen a guy approach a girl in public

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Idk why tho I thought it was common.
 
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youve never seen a girl approach a guy either
 
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unfortunately this isint the 90s anymore.

dating apps are the new norm
 
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i never will:Chadge:

even if she's a 10 or my exact type i couldn't
 
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unfortunately this isint the 90s anymore.

dating apps are the new norm
and we know what the cutoff on datings apps are, HTN+
 
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and we know what the cutoff on datings apps are, HTN+
im lhtn and I do farily well, im at 1.4k matches rn, if you're hmtn and you have a social life you can present you'll also do well enough
 
im lhtn and I do farily well, im at 1.4k matches rn, if you're hmtn and you have a social life you can present you'll also do well enough
yea if ur a htn, thats like 5% of the male population
 
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totally bro girls are constantly approaching guys everywhere!! that sounds super legit and lines up with everything we know about the current dating market
im 23 and ive only been approached in person 3 times, if anything this reinforces your point? its literally nothing
 
Idk why tho I thought it was common.
Bcs they would not do it infront of everyone and shout "DO U WANT TO BE MY GF???", they will do that just by starting talk with her in a social setting like a club or bar or smth similar, and obv u did not see that bcs u wasn't in those places even once in ur life if ur on .org
 
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im lhtn and I do farily well, im at 1.4k matches rn, if you're hmtn and you have a social life you can present you'll also do well enough
Yeah, it is abt how often u go out to social places like bars or clubs
 
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Yeah, it is abt how often u go out to social places like bars or clubs
yeah lol I lowk got no social life rn so my tinder profile reflects that, I think id do a lot better if I was able to present a social life on my profile
 
Bcs they would not do it infront of everyone and shout "DO U WANT TO BE MY GF???", they will do that just by starting talk with her in a social setting like a club or bar or smth similar, and obv u did not see that bcs u wasn't in those places even once in ur life if ur on .org
People can still approach in public tho
 
yeah lol I lowk got no social life rn so my tinder profile reflects that, I think id do a lot better if I was able to present a social life on my profile
I have no social life and tinder either, the only social setting I've been in was my school and I had girls there approaching me and etc. Generally I think it happens a lot but gals wont do that in front of everyone mostly. Generally most of them give IOIs like stares and other stupid shit and the guy supposed to understand it
 
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People can still approach in public tho
Yes, but a random guy that walks won't probably even notice it. "Approaching" is mostly just a guy that comes up to a random gal and starts talking with her
 
Yes, but a random guy that walks won't probably even notice it. "Approaching" is mostly just a guy that comes up to a random gal and starts talking with her
But you would kinda understand it for example how they talk etc.
 
But you would kinda understand it from how they talk etc.
No u won't. U just casually walk and see some guy and girl have a convo, mb the guy came up to her earlier but u didn't see that.
It is really not smth outstanding that much it is just that most people dgaf and focus on other things rather just scanning everyone around them.
 
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No u won't. U just casually walk and see some guy and girl have a convo, mb the guy came up to her earlier but u didn't see that.
It is really not smth outstanding that much it is just that most people dgaf and focus on other things rather just scanning everyone around them.
I guess
 
the only people that cold approach are black guys harassing girls at the mall. It never works btw they run away
 
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U jst dont go out
I have a friend who cold approach at least 6 times
 
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Saw one guy approach like three girls on the same day at my gym a few weeks ago but yeah it rarely happens
 
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