I have no friends and talk to no one outside my family, but I’m okay with it?

[brotato78]

Is there something wrong with me?

I used to go to public school and switched to online and haven’t minded people blocking me or not reaching out

Or is this just a response to past trauma of loneliness or some sort of neurodivergence

 

[g4rlic]

I felt the same abt 2 years ago. I have complex feelings Abt that. I think you haven't really found your people yet as you sound like you're still in high school. its okay these ppl wont matter to you in a few years. don't throw away genuine connection when you come across it though.

 

[brotato78]

its okay these ppl wont matter to you in a few years.

Yea that’s how I thought abt it, I feel like I didn’t have any good friends and thought I’d be better off in online where I could focus on developing more

Also there aren’t much good women where I live but Igave up on that cuz I don’t think I’ll find a girl who cares abt me and isn’t hypergamous

 

[Matthias8272]

I'm the same but this isn't normal - when you do it too long it becomes normal and your new base line not realizing it's very unnatural

 

[g4rlic]

Yea that’s how I thought abt it, I feel like I didn’t have any good friends and thought I’d be better off in online where I could focus on developing more

Also there aren’t much good women where I live but Igave up on that cuz I don’t think I’ll find a girl who cares abt me and isn’t hypergamous

don't depend on people being good or worth it but don't let the fact that ppl can be unreliable destroy you.

 

[HundredManSlayer]

i did the same thing like a year ago, i just left school for online didn’t really care about maintaining relationships or anything

it’s been a boring, uneventful, but peaceful year

 

[brotato78]

I'm the same but this isn't normal - when you do it too long it becomes normal and your new base line not realizing it's very unnatural

It’s over for me ngl

don't depend on people being good or worth it but don't let the fact that ppl can be unreliable destroy you.

dam aight

it’s been a boring, uneventful, but peaceful year

this bro, I’m low stress now and get good sleep

 

[futureschizo]

im the same even though I go to school in person

 

[HundredManSlayer]

this bro, I’m low stress now and get good sleep

good to hear, as long as you are more nt than me you should get out once in a while. nothing crazy but just to maintain social skills, like work or something

 

[brotato78]

im the same even though I go to school in person

Truly getting the worst of both worlds

But maybe it’s good being in a social environment idk, going to work is the most social I get and I barely talk there

 

[brotato78]

good to hear, as long as you are more nt than me you should get out once in a while. nothing crazy but just to maintain social skills, like work or something

Yeah I go to work, I’m quiet and do my job mainly but I seem to be perceived well