I invited a lovely girl to my house

[PubertyMaxxer]

1. Deeptalk with food / joints / music on my veranda in the dark
2. Watch movies
3. Hard sex (choke her)

Is that really a good plan?

 

[NonChadSlayer]

We're minors so no wine. Also i hate wine.

What about joints? Do they have the same effect?


The massage thing is weird IRL. Stretching is better and more NT imo.

I wear a Dior Sauvage replica so I'm good and will shower right before meeting.

What if she rejects my massage approach?

Ok ditch the wine. stick to the joints a bit later in the night. If it's your first time getting high, you run the risk of freaking out and losing your sex drive

Stretching is more NT than massaging? wtf are you talking about? 2 teens that are attracted to each other and sexually inexperinced hanging out for the first time - massaging each other is THE most NT thing I can think of and the oldest trick in the book.

"Oh babe, you look so hot, let's do some stretches."A girl will think youre weird.

Look, you're thinking about it from a position where you don't want her to know that you're keen to get sexual with her. This is being a pussy and the wrong mindset.

What she would prefer is if youre obvous about your intentions to make things physical and for her to be the one to pump the brakes, and eventually give in.

You gotta play to win.


But then again you're just a kid, so dont freak her out. Just chill with her but be upfront about the fact that you want to hook up with her, just never say it outright. Youll be fine.

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

We only met 4 times IRL at our common sport club. We also write on WhatsApp almost daily and play online chess together.

What fun activities should i do with her and how can i escalate to sex?

Wish me luck

 

[Deleted member 15698]

Wait, aren't you the same guy I told to just ask her to chill? & you said that felt weird? Same poster, same girl? Hahahahahahaha let's go nigga

 

[Htobrother]

Yoga is cucked if a man does it but do it just for sex tbh

as long as you arent doing it fr in your head and just for sex ur good

Gurumaxxed yogi
I can do every asana tbh

 

[BearBoy]

Gurumaxxed yogi
I can do every asana tbh

what is asana

 

[Htobrother]

what is asana

Positions
There are 84 in Hatha yoga
Basically aligning with the cosmic geometry
As Sadhguru says
Yoga is not just exercise or stretching is union godmode

 

[BearBoy]

Positions
There are 84 in Hatha yoga
Basically aligning with the cosmic geometry
As Sadhguru says
Yoga is not just exercise or stretching is union godmode

 

[Htobrother]

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[Deleted member 15338]

Yeah i actually considered doing some Stretching / Yoga with her and escalate from there

Good idea?

Very good idea i am sure you would look hot

 

[PubertyMaxxer]

Wait, aren't you the same guy I told to just ask her to chill? & you said that felt weird? Same poster, same girl? Hahahahahahaha let's go nigga

No i think you're mistaking me for someone else

 

[Deleted member 6963]

Best advice for the first "date" in this thread:

1. Invite her to a bubble bath with you
2. Ask her to step in the shower with you
3. Wrestling
4. Yoga / Stretching

 

[PubertyMaxxer]

Best advice for the first "date" in this thread:

1. Invite her to a bubble bath with you
2. Ask her to step in the shower with you
3. Wrestling
4. Yoga / Stretching

It's difficult for me to discover irony


Is that seriously the best advice?

 

[LaChancla]

We play online chess together.

What's ur rating ?

 

[PubertyMaxxer]

What's ur rating ?

Don't know

 

[Deleted member 15698]

No i think you're mistaking me for someone else

Fuck

Gl anyway

 

[PubertyMaxxer]

Fuck

Gl anyway

Update : it went well, i took @noprogressno advice and not escalate to sex. I will at the next meeting though because the time will be right then and i can be sure that she consents then!

Overall it was great to be honest

 

[Deleted member 15698]

Update : it went well, i took @noprogressno advice and not escalate to sex. I will at the next meeting though because the time will be right then and i can be sure that she consents then!

Overall it was great to be honest

Cool man. Nothing wrong with escalating to sex on first encounter, but if she's down to come over again it's nbd. Did you at least kiss?

 

[PubertyMaxxer]

Cool man. Nothing wrong with escalating to sex on first encounter, but if she's down to come over again it's nbd. Did you at least kiss?

No, first kiss should be during first sex imho.

However we touched alot while watching the series, did some touch sport and overall were really close.

When she went i hugged her and told her i enjoyed the time with her and she reciprocated.

 

[Deleted member 15698]

No, first kiss should be during first sex imho.

However we touched alot while watching the series, did some touch sport and overall were really close.

When she went i hugged her and told her i enjoyed the time with her and she reciprocated.

Hmm, not true, generally should kiss first time. But it's no big deal. Based on how you describe it sounds like it went well and you're in

 

[PubertyMaxxer]

Hmm, not true, generally should kiss first time. But it's no big deal. Based on how you describe it sounds like it went well and you're in

lifefuel because she is as tall as me and could give me non-manlet sons.

Overall taller girls mog short pathetic femlet girls to suicide.

 

[Deleted member 15698]

lifefuel because she is as tall as me and could give me non-manlet sons.

Overall taller girls mog short pathetic femlet girls to suicide.

Haha I'm 6'3 and love short girls, my main chicks are 4'11 & 5'. But if you wanna have kids go tall no doubt

 

[PubertyMaxxer]

Haha I'm 6'3 and love short girls, my main chicks are 4'11 & 5'. But if you wanna have kids go tall no doubt

I am 5'7 and she is 5'7, possibly even 5'8 tbh

Cute face, White and good body aswell. Damn I'm honestly very impressed by how attractive she is IRL.

I will ask her to be my girlfriend when i invite her the next time. Then i will kiss her and have sex at the same time.

 

[Deleted member 15698]

I am 5'7 and she is 5'7, possibly even 5'8 tbh

Cute face, White and good body aswell. Damn I'm honestly very impressed by how attractive she is IRL.

I will ask her to be my girlfriend when i invite her the next time. Then i will kiss her and have sex at the same time.

Consider trying to fuck before you ask. Girls typically do not like to commit to a relationship before sex. But idk how old y'all are, if you're both young high school age it may not apply

 

[noprogressno]

Update : it went well, i took @noprogressno advice and not escalate to sex. I will at the next meeting though because the time will be right then and i can be sure that she consents then!

Overall it was great to be honest

Good. Hopefully things will be even better in the future meetingS

No, first kiss should be during first sex imho.

Not true. Generally kissing will show how much comfortable she is being in a ''that'' kind of way of closeness level

However we touched alot while watching the series, did some touch sport and overall were really close

Thats good too.

 

[sun21]

We only met 4 times IRL at our common sport club. We also write on WhatsApp almost daily and play online chess together.

What fun activities should i do with her and how can i escalate to sex?

Wish me luck

Broski you know I care for you bro, don’t use lovely women for sex, doing this creates these toxic females y’all hate so much,

 

[Deleted member 11388]

We only met 4 times IRL at our common sport club. We also write on WhatsApp almost daily and play online chess together.

What fun activities should i do with her and how can i escalate to sex?

Wish me luck

4 times met and didnt fuck, cuck detected.

Invite to watch movies, cuddle and grab her face and stick your toung in her mouth.Thats what i usually do and it works most of the time.

I am Gl tho

 

[Deleted member 11388]

considering my slay count, i know what thebfuck im talking about and most of slays were in 1-3 h facetime. You need to escalate FAST or you iwll friendzone yourself to oblivion

 

[PubertyMaxxer]

Broski you know I care for you bro, don’t use lovely women for sex, doing this creates these toxic females y’all hate so much,

Can you elaborate? I actually want to LTR her

 

[PubertyMaxxer]

4 times met and didnt fuck, cuck detected.

Bruh that wasn't like an official meeting. We just happen to be in the same sport club.

Invite to watch movies, cuddle and grab her face and stick your toung in her mouth.Thats what i usually do and it works most of the time.

I am Gl tho

See i am average thus i can only do this on the 2nd meeting

 

[PubertyMaxxer]

considering my slay count, i know what thebfuck im talking about and most of slays were in 1-3 h facetime. You need to escalate FAST or you iwll friendzone yourself to oblivion

Not true necessarily

 

[Deleted member 15338]

Bruh that wasn't like an official meeting. We just happen to be in the same sport club.

See i am average thus i can only do this on the 2nd meeting

You are stacy at worst not average at all

 

[PubertyMaxxer]

You are stacy at worst not average at all

Stfu faggot

 

[Deleted member 15338]

Stfu faggot

Why angry ?

 

[Deleted member 11388]

Not true necessarily

not true in every case but most cases is it

 

[PubertyMaxxer]

not true in every case but most cases is it

I'll invite her again and then make the first kiss and sex in one

She will consent if she already agrees to come over again

 

[noprogressno]

I'll invite her again and then make the first kiss and sex in one

She will consent if she already agrees to come over again

bad idea...

 

[PubertyMaxxer]

bad idea...

Why???

 

[PubertyMaxxer]

Why???

bad idea...

 

[noprogressno]

Why???

I'll invite her again and then make the first kiss and sex in one

She will consent if she already agrees to come over again

Bruh that wasn't like an official meeting. We just happen to be in the same sport club.

See i am average thus i can only do this on the 2nd meeting

You are trying to go jet fast. Most people have sex after dating for a while. This applies for people in their mid twenties and you are even younger than that. Second ''meeting'' is still not the time otherwise you might get rejected completely
In my opinion this should be the events that should take place between some time in them
ask her to be your girlfrind-------> kiss --------> then sex. So that you can see how comfortable she is with you in an increasing closeness level.
Try doing these things too fast and you might even scare her off because both of you are young
And trust me most women only consider it a ''date'' after they confirm that you are a couple. And yes, meeting 4 times at the gym is not considered a ''date'' in their mind either

Can you elaborate? I actually want to LTR her

If you want to LTR her you need to be patient and think with your brain, not with your dick. You can't just skip steps and try to do them at the same time. Think of it like a videogame, that level of closeness is not available unless you unlock the other ones first.You have to get her emotionally attached to you before you want something sexual. To me it also doesn't make sense to wait when 2 people know that they are going to get close sexually after a time, so why wait to become more emotionally attached, just have sex, and both parties gets that need covered and the emotional parts are going to get resolved with time right???
Right. But women don't work like that. It doesn't make any sense to us but they just don't work like that. This is especially the case with the ''lovely'' ones we are talking about. Sure, there are some women who just want sex and not a relationship but 2 things in your case:
1. To my understanding you don't want just sex, you just want a normal proper relationship like normal people
2. You both are young so encountering a women who just wants sex and not a relationship at your age group would be as rare as a meteor falling at your head when you are walking in the street(I'm just exaggerating it, hope you get what I mean...).

Or, either there is a very big cultural difference between where you are living and where I am living, or I just live in a dry dessert away from the sexual attention from females without getting their emotional ''needs'' resolved...

 

[PubertyMaxxer]

You are trying to go jet fast. Most people have sex after dating for a while. This applies for people in their mid twenties and you are even younger than that. Second ''meeting'' is still not the time otherwise you might get rejected completely
In my opinion this should be the events that should take place between some time in them
ask her to be your girlfrind-------> kiss --------> then sex. So that you can see how comfortable she is with you in an increasing closeness level.
Try doing these things too fast and you might even scare her off because both of you are young
And trust me most women only consider it a ''date'' after they confirm that you are a couple. And yes, meeting 4 times at the gym is not considered a ''date'' in their mind either

If you want to LTR her you need to be patient and think with your brain, not with your dick. You can't just skip steps and try to do them at the same time. Think of it like a videogame, that level of closeness is not available unless you unlock the other ones first.You have to get her emotionally attached to you before you want something sexual. To me it also doesn't make sense to wait when 2 people know that they are going to get close sexually after a time, so why wait to become more emotionally attached, just have sex, and both parties gets that need covered and the emotional parts are going to get resolved with time right???
Right. But women don't work like that. It doesn't make any sense to us but they just don't work like that. This is especially the case with the ''lovely'' ones we are talking about. Sure, there are some women who just want sex and not a relationship but 2 things in your case:
1. To my understanding you don't want just sex, you just want a normal proper relationship like normal people
2. You both are young so encountering a women who just wants sex and not a relationship at your age group would be as rare as a meteor falling at your head when you are walking in the street(I'm just exaggerating it, hope you get what I mean...).

Or, either there is a very big cultural difference between where you are living and where I am living, or I just live in a dry dessert away from the sexual attention from females without getting their emotional ''needs'' resolved...

Okay but asking her to be my gf, cuddling + kissing after 2 weeks of talking is not "too jet fast" at all imo.


Do you live in a very strict religious region?

 

[noprogressno]

Okay but asking her to be my gf, cuddling + kissing after 2 weeks of talking is not "too jet fast" at all imo.


Do you live in a very strict religious region?

Turkey. Not so strict but not so free either...

 

[PubertyMaxxer]

Turkey. Not so strict but not so free either...

We met for the 2nd time at my house and when she left i asked her whether we should start dating. I had an enormous boner in that moment.

She said okay and i went for the kiss. I grabbed her ass while kissing her lips.

Then she went to the door and I told her we should meet soon again.

 

[PubertyMaxxer]

We met for the 2nd time at my house and when she left i asked her whether we should start dating. I had an enormous boner in that moment.

She said okay and i went for the kiss. I grabbed her ass while kissing her lips.

Then she went to the door and I told her we should meet soon again.

@noprogressno @Yolosweg

 

[Deleted member 11388]

We met for the 2nd time at my house and when she left i asked her whether we should start dating. I had an enormous boner in that moment.

She said okay and i went for the kiss. I grabbed her ass while kissing her lips.

Then she went to the door and I told her we should meet soon again.

you being a huge beta cuck, how old are you bro ?

You never ask a girl if you should start dating, you fuck her first then you proceed to fuck her then you see if you wanna date her while fucking other girls jeez, kids these days

 

[Deleted member 11388]

@noprogressno @Yolosweg

the girl im smashing RN, we went on the first date from tinder, 1and half hour date in a bar with hot chocolate then to my place and makeout(she didnt wanna fuck tho), 2nd date at my place and fuck after 30 minutes of talking and cuddling.

So yea you should be able to fuck girls on the 3rd time you meet them(latest)

 

[Deleted member 15698]

Don't listen to ANY of these virgins. You must fuck her

 

[noprogressno]

Nah, you are doing the correct thing. Here is another example of a dude who tried that and see what happened:

Should i message a girl after 9 months

Met a girl from bumble like 9 months ago and we went on a date, it went really well she even said she wanted to hang out more, but then i was way too low inhib and cringe tried to bring her to a hotel to fuck immediately :lul: (It worked on another girl i went on a date with before) She however...

looksmax.org

 

[PubertyMaxxer]

Nah, you are doing the correct thing. Here is another example of a dude who tried that and see what happened:

Should i message a girl after 9 months

Met a girl from bumble like 9 months ago and we went on a date, it went really well she even said she wanted to hang out more, but then i was way too low inhib and cringe tried to bring her to a hotel to fuck immediately :lul: (It worked on another girl i went on a date with before) She however...

looksmax.org

Thanks bro

the girl im smashing RN, we went on the first date from tinder, 1and half hour date in a bar with hot chocolate then to my place and makeout(she didnt wanna fuck tho), 2nd date at my place and fuck after 30 minutes of talking and cuddling.

So yea you should be able to fuck girls on the 3rd time you meet them(latest)

I will fuck her in our third meeting which will be friday afternoon. This is not too early for her to be creeped out, she already reciprocated the first kiss, Signalling she is okay with even more intimacy. But also not too late like you said.

Any tips on fucking? Forward/Backward Cowgirl, missionary w pillow , lazy doggystyle

Anything else to know about first time sex?

 

[Deleted member 11388]

Thanks bro

I will fuck her in our third meeting which will be friday afternoon. This is not too early for her to be creeped out, she already reciprocated the first kiss, Signalling she is okay with even more intimacy. But also not too late like you said.

Any tips on fucking? Forward/Backward Cowgirl, missionary w pillow , lazy doggystyle

Anything else to know about first time sex?

make her cum if you know, ask her if she likes it rough(they usually do).
If you show dominance during sex she will be even more attracted imo.

If you make her cum everytime you fuck she will come back for more for sure