I need relationship advice.

[lemon67]

My girlfriend will see my messages but take like 10-50 mins to respond..You may be thinking “oh what if she’s just not online” but that’s not the case.. I know she sees them because on tiktok you can see when somebody reposted something.. today I sent her a message and like 10-20 minutes had past and I saw a video she reposted..I clicked on it and it said she reposted it 3-5 minutes ago. Then it rookery her another 15 minutes to actually respond to my message. What should I do. Or is this normal?

 

[Mai Sakurajima.]

My girlfriend will see my messages but take like 10-50 mins to respond..You may be thinking “oh what if she’s just not online” but that’s not the case.. I know she sees them because on tiktok you can see when somebody reposted something.. today I sent her a message and like 10-20 minutes had past and I saw a video she reposted..I clicked on it and it said she reposted it 3-5 minutes ago. Then it rookery her another 15 minutes to actually respond to my message. What should I do. Or is this normal?

girlfriendcel, get off this site. a piece of advice is to maybe ask her instead of us considering most of us are virgins with no experience in relationships

 

[moggedbyErda]

My girlfriend will see my messages but take like 10-50 mins to respond..You may be thinking “oh what if she’s just not online” but that’s not the case.. I know she sees them because on tiktok you can see when somebody reposted something.. today I sent her a message and like 10-20 minutes had past and I saw a video she reposted..I clicked on it and it said she reposted it 3-5 minutes ago. Then it rookery her another 15 minutes to actually respond to my message. What should I do. Or is this normal?

Just ask her nigga you can’t be scared to confront your girlfriend over something you don’t like stop being a bitch and man up or else your gonna get cucked in the future

 

[lemon67]

girlfriendcel, get off this site. a piece of advice is to maybe ask her instead of us considering most of us are virgins with no experience in relationships

I don’t want to randomly question her over something that might be considered small

 

[lemon67]

Just ask her nigga you can’t be scared to confront your girlfriend over something you don’t like stop being a bitch and man up or else your gonna get cucked in the future

Yea but if I question her it might seem like I’m too clingy also she’s one of those super shy girls who gets embarrassed easily, I don’t want to make it into a huge problem yk?

 

[iblamerickyd]

girlfriendcel, get off this site. a piece of advice is to maybe ask her instead of us considering most of us are virgins with no experience in relationships

chill this isn't .is

 

[IQmaxxedCHAD]

cuck in the making

 

[moggedbyErda]

Yea but if I question her it might seem like I’m too clingy also she’s one of those super shy girls who gets embarrassed easily, I don’t want to make it into a huge problem yk?

Would you rather have your girlfriend get destroyed by bbc behind your back and never talk to you unless she needs something, or speak up and find out why she’s being avoidant? It’s your call boyo at the end of the day don’t go on a forum asking incels for relationship advice because then you will just fuck everything up

 

[lemon67]

Would you rather have your girlfriend get destroyed by bbc behind your back and never talk to you unless she needs something, or speak up and find out why she’s being avoidant? It’s your call boyo at the end of the day don’t go on a forum asking incels for relationship advice because then you will just fuck everything up

I’m an over thinker though, so what if I’m just overthinking it

 

[moggedbyErda]

Trying to ignore it will only make the overthinking worse dumbass… if you really want to be close with your girlfriend and not stress over bullshit ask her why she’s taking forever to reply to you, if she gets defensive then it’s her not you. Simple as that

 

[lemon67]

Trying to ignore it will only make the overthinking worse dumbass… if you really want to be close with your girlfriend and not stress over bullshit ask her why she’s taking forever to reply to you, if she gets defensive then it’s her not you. Simple as that

This is my first girlfriend since elementary school, I just don’t want to ruin it.

 

[moggedbyErda]

You will live my nigga You need more respect for yourself to ask these questions to her and other future girls without feeling guilty. You can either confront her and fix this or let her possibly be putting you in a cuckold and keep hurting you more

 

[moggedbyErda]

This is my first girlfriend since elementary school, I just don’t want to ruin it.

Think of it like this, if you don’t ask her why and she’s secretly just not interested in you, then you keeping her with you is just selfish on your behalf. who the FUCK wants a girl that’s not into them at that point your giving her the opportunity to cheat on you for someone better and/or treat you like shit all because you don’t have the balls to be a man and ask her why.