I noticed lookism before discovering this community

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I was around 13 years old, I remember reflecting on the way I and others perceive people.

I wondered why I seemed to automatically respect taller and/or attractive males more, and almost saw them as ‘cooler’ despite their words or attire. I remember thinking about how the “lower down” friend groups at school always seemed to be less physically attractive.

At one point I was in McDonalds after school with my friend group and some girls (uk boyos will know this used to be the motive); the girls started laughing at this guy who was unfortunate looking but didn’t do anything out of the ordinary. I think they justified it with something like “he’s just a weirdo”, I realised literally the only reason they saw him in a negative light was his appearance.

I started rearranging past scenarios in my head after that, how if you changed nothing about an individual but their face (same clothes, character, status…) the outcomes of interactions would be entirely different.

Myself and others would subconsciously create a narrative for someone before even hearing a syllable leave their mouth, or see a muscle move. This was something everyone seemed to do, what we saw dominated our subconscious mind but it was so normal to everyone that people didn’t give it a thought.

Obviously this wasn’t a ground breaking discovery, however it went against everything I had been told growing up, and I noticed it on my own accord.

I really wish I looked more into it at the time, if I would’ve stumbled upon looksmaxing at the age of 13 I would be a giga chad by now (if I found this forum I would also have a mogger join date lol).

Do any of you guys have similar experiences? I would be very interested to hear them.
@Saint @LTNUser @Fridx @CorinthianLOX @Ghost Philosophy
 
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Ive already found myself ugly at the ages of 10
 
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I was around 13 years old, I remember reflecting on the way I and others perceive people.

I wondered why I seemed to automatically respect taller and/or attractive males more, and almost saw them as ‘cooler’ despite their words or attire. I remember thinking about how the “lower down” friend groups at school always seemed to be less physically attractive.

At one point I was in McDonalds after school with my friend group and some girls (uk boyos will know this used to be the motive); the girls started laughing at this guy who was unfortunate looking but didn’t do anything out of the ordinary. I think they justified it with something like “he’s just a weirdo”, I realised literally the only reason they saw him in a negative light was his appearance.

I started rearranging past scenarios in my head after that, how if you changed nothing about an individual but their face (same clothes, character, status…) the outcomes of interactions would be entirely different.

Myself and others would subconsciously create a narrative for someone before even hearing a syllable leave their mouth, or see a muscle move. This was something everyone seemed to do, what we saw dominated our subconscious mind but it was so normal to everyone that people didn’t give it a thought.

Obviously this wasn’t a ground breaking discovery, however it went against everything I had been told growing up, and I noticed it on my own accord.

I really wish I looked more into it at the time, if I would’ve stumbled upon looksmaxing at the age of 13 I would be a giga chad by now (if I found this forum I would also have a mogger join date lol).

Do any of you guys have similar experiences? I would be very interested to hear them.
@Saint @LTNUser @Fridx @CorinthianLOX @Ghost Philosophy
What you’re experiencing isn’t a special case anyway most people are aware of everything before they even register here.
 
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I must clarify, the guy in macdonalds was not with us, so I knew it was nothing he said.

He was around our age from another school, none of us actually knew who he was.

This meant I could write off the idea that he had actually done weird stuff.
 
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I hated myself at 9
I attempted roping at 10
 
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What you’re experiencing isn’t a special case anyway most people are aware of everything before they even register here.
I didn’t think it would be.

I kind of assumed you already have to be open to them to understand blackpill ideas

People rarely challenge their worldview, someone isn’t going to go from a completely bluepilled mindset to a blackpilled mindset just because they read some stuff on a forum
 
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Pretty sure most people do at past the age of 10
 
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Pretty sure most people do at past the age of 10
I think most people in this community yes

Idk if that would go for most people in general tho
 
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I think most people in this community yes

Idk if that would go for most people in general tho
yuhs us neets are the exemption of individuals who are bp :HyperChikaCrazy:
 
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I was around 13 years old, I remember reflecting on the way I and others perceive people.

I wondered why I seemed to automatically respect taller and/or attractive males more, and almost saw them as ‘cooler’ despite their words or attire. I remember thinking about how the “lower down” friend groups at school always seemed to be less physically attractive.

At one point I was in McDonalds after school with my friend group and some girls (uk boyos will know this used to be the motive); the girls started laughing at this guy who was unfortunate looking but didn’t do anything out of the ordinary. I think they justified it with something like “he’s just a weirdo”, I realised literally the only reason they saw him in a negative light was his appearance.

I started rearranging past scenarios in my head after that, how if you changed nothing about an individual but their face (same clothes, character, status…) the outcomes of interactions would be entirely different.

Myself and others would subconsciously create a narrative for someone before even hearing a syllable leave their mouth, or see a muscle move. This was something everyone seemed to do, what we saw dominated our subconscious mind but it was so normal to everyone that people didn’t give it a thought.

Obviously this wasn’t a ground breaking discovery, however it went against everything I had been told growing up, and I noticed it on my own accord.

I really wish I looked more into it at the time, if I would’ve stumbled upon looksmaxing at the age of 13 I would be a giga chad by now (if I found this forum I would also have a mogger join date lol).

Do any of you guys have similar experiences? I would be very interested to hear them.
@Saint @LTNUser @Fridx @CorinthianLOX @Ghost Philosophy
I remember the first time I got into lookism (pushups and ab workouts) I was in year 4. I was sitting next to my crush and another guy and I was trying to tell her to play with me during lunch time. Then she said that I’d never be as good as the other guy sitting next to us and she hugged him. The guy mogged me too I was a fat loser at the time.

I haven’t talked to either in a long time but i stumbled across the guys ig page a few weeks ago and saw that hes still really gl. He’s super nt too and tall. It’s really over buddy boyos
 
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Well it's the obvious truth
If you didnt realise that what you say doesn't matter it's all about who, how and when that you might be retarded
 
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You might be einstein
 
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I was around 13 years old, I remember reflecting on the way I and others perceive people.

I wondered why I seemed to automatically respect taller and/or attractive males more, and almost saw them as ‘cooler’ despite their words or attire. I remember thinking about how the “lower down” friend groups at school always seemed to be less physically attractive.

At one point I was in McDonalds after school with my friend group and some girls (uk boyos will know this used to be the motive); the girls started laughing at this guy who was unfortunate looking but didn’t do anything out of the ordinary. I think they justified it with something like “he’s just a weirdo”, I realised literally the only reason they saw him in a negative light was his appearance.

I started rearranging past scenarios in my head after that, how if you changed nothing about an individual but their face (same clothes, character, status…) the outcomes of interactions would be entirely different.

Myself and others would subconsciously create a narrative for someone before even hearing a syllable leave their mouth, or see a muscle move. This was something everyone seemed to do, what we saw dominated our subconscious mind but it was so normal to everyone that people didn’t give it a thought.

Obviously this wasn’t a ground breaking discovery, however it went against everything I had been told growing up, and I noticed it on my own accord.

I really wish I looked more into it at the time, if I would’ve stumbled upon looksmaxing at the age of 13 I would be a giga chad by now (if I found this forum I would also have a mogger join date lol).

Do any of you guys have similar experiences? I would be very interested to hear them.
@Saint @LTNUser @Fridx @CorinthianLOX @Ghost Philosophy
I always wondered why is it that people can differentiate between "ugly" and "beautiful"
 
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I remember the first time I got into lookism (pushups and ab workouts) I was in year 4. I was sitting next to my crush and another guy and I was trying to tell her to play with me during lunch time. Then she said that I’d never be as good as the other guy sitting next to us and she hugged him. The guy mogged me too I was a fat loser at the time.

I haven’t talked to either in a long time but i stumbled across the guys ig page a few weeks ago and saw that hes still really gl. He’s super nt too and tall. It’s really over buddy boyos
I used to do those ab workouts back when I was in year 6

Wish I could slap my retarded 10 year old self and tell him it’s all about bodyfat percentage
 
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Well it's the obvious truth
If you didnt realise that what you say doesn't matter it's all about who, how and when that you might be retarded
Realising what you say doesn’t really matter is a pretty freeing feeling weirdly, those pua dudes probably spend a shit ton of time mentally masterbaiting over the exact wording of what they say
 
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Ffs why does everyone think that I thought I was smart for this😭

That wasn’t the point I was making nigga, pretty sure I implied that twice if you read the thread
u are bby
 
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I mean yeah, most people do experience that in a young age.
 
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Niggas think this is secret forbbiden knowledge 😂😂😂
 
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