I promise myself that I will not bring kids into this cruel world

[Deleted member 120487]

What a weak soylent you are
Grow up and spam kids with Slavic whore with big titties

 

[Deleted member 46404]

is this a copypasta man

 

[Nameless King]

You think that social media gives an inflated view of how much suffering there really is ? I think that could be very true tbh. All the upsetting stories I hear about are 95% from social media. It still shows that it happens though , but maybe it's not as common as I make it out to be.

how do I train my brain to find joy in simple things? I am going to try and start practicing gratitude

yea for sure, the algorithm incentivises videos that draw strong emotions, including bad ones

practising gratitude is a great idea, try to notice something unremarkable that you found joy in every day, like how you enjoyed a certain conversation or how the night sky looked really beautiful

 

[looks>books]

Do you think the joy outweighs the suffering though ? I think in a lot of the cases it's the opposite unfortunately. That's why I am very hesitant to bring kids into this world, I don't want to be responsible for someone's demise

I think yes. And despite the problems you can always find joy. There will ALWAYS be another problem, therefore; there is never a problem.

What country do you live in? If its a first world country I think you are overreacting, but no one can force you to procreate. If you truly believe its not worth it, you don’t have to. But you’re still a kid, and I have a good feeling you will change your mind.

Also a kid is also to pass down your knowledge, to help him be better than you and do better things within the world, to hopefully fix it with the knowledge you are trying so hard to find right now. Maybe he will be the one to solve it all, you never know.

 

[134applesauce456]

is this a copypasta man

nah i'm going through it rn

 

[134applesauce456]

What a weak soylent you are
Grow up and spam kids with Slavic whore with big titties

"spam kids" leads to neglect which CAN lead to corrupted mindsets/mental illness
hurt people hurt so you can imagine the things that would go wrong from there

there is a reason having 5+ kids is more common in 3rd world countries and in 1st world countries 1-3 kids only is the norm

quality > quantity. not saying that you can't have many kids and make them all prosper but it's much harder to do so, no denying that

 

[looks>books]

"spam kids" leads to neglect which CAN lead to corrupted mindsets/mental illness
hurt people hurt so you can imagine the things that would go wrong from there

there is a reason having 5+ kids is more common in 3rd world countries and in 1st world countries 1-3 kids only is the norm

quality > quantity. not saying they you can't have many kids and make them all prosper but it's much harder no denying that

Yes I do think in china and india and poor countries they should stop having kids

 

[Deleted member 46404]

nah i'm going through it rn

nigga have 1 kid atleast

 

[134applesauce456]

nigga have 1 kid atleast

maybe, but it's not the amount of kids that I am conflicted about

I just genuinely don't know if it's worth bringing a kid into the world at the state it is right now, suffering is damn near guaranteed

but some people have convinced me that the overall experience with trials + triumphs in life makes life what it is. So all the bad is worth it due to the experience. I personally don't feel that way , and Id choose peace with death , but maybe I am an anomaly. So maybe I will bring a kid into life

 

[Deleted member 46404]

maybe, but it's not the amount of kids that I am conflicted about

I just genuinely don't know if it's worth bringing a kid into the world at the state it is right now, suffering is damn near guaranteed

but some people have convinced me that the overall experience with trials + triumphs in life makes life what it is. So all the bad is worth it due to the experience. I personally don't feel that way , and Id choose peace with death , but maybe I am an anomaly. So maybe I will bring a kid into life

the world is not that evil

ur kid isnt gonna be raped, kidnapped, killed etc unless you live in chicago or something

just raise your kid in a rural town, give him or her a good diet, exercise them etc

its not hard to entertain/raise kids or keep their attention

 

[134applesauce456]

the world is not that evil

ur kid isnt gonna be raped, kidnapped, killed etc unless you live in chicago or something

just raise your kid in a rural town, give him or her a good diet, exercise them etc

its not hard to entertain/raise kids or keep their attention

Maybe I am just being pessimistic but I feel like the world is decently evil

crime takes place in any corner of the globe, no escaping

 

[Deleted member 46404]

Maybe I am just being pessimistic but I feel like the world is decently evil

crime takes place in any corner of the globe, no escaping

then stop it

become batman

jokes aside, relax bro

 

[Deleted member 115294]

When I look around I see so much suffering, so much families grieving , the worst things in life happening to people.

I see people getting murdered, kidnapped, tortured, left with traumatic brain injuries, paralysis, debilitating illness, the list goes on and on

I also see people simply being born into a worse quality of living , people being born with severe mental illness or severe disabilities , people being born with no limbs or deformity, complete body paralysis, unable to function without a machine, the horrors can go on and on and on and on

Families have to deal and grieve with seeing their loved ones like this (if it isn't them, themselves in that condition)

I honestly don't know I got so lucky to not have those things happen to me, I deserve it way more than the people it happens to.

I am scared of the future, I know the worse is yet to come.

I honestly believe no one in this life has it lucky, this world is hellish. You might have a good life now but the life you are living is far from guaranteed. You can have everything ripped away from you in a second. I am scared


Sorry for this long rant but I have been feeling very nihilistic today idk why.

Anyways to sum it up basically i'm scared and I don't like this world and I don't want to bring people into , they will just suffer inevitably

Please let's discuss in the replies, I am still a Christian but obviously I struggle with faith, I don't want to stop believing because it gives me so much hope

my mom used to tell me yes life is shit and it sucks very much, then is it not selfish to bring me into this world while being aware of that?

 

[Deleted member 118389]

When I look around I see so much suffering, so much families grieving , the worst things in life happening to people.

I see people getting murdered, kidnapped, tortured, left with traumatic brain injuries, paralysis, debilitating illness, the list goes on and on

I also see people simply being born into a worse quality of living , people being born with severe mental illness or severe disabilities , people being born with no limbs or deformity, complete body paralysis, unable to function without a machine, the horrors can go on and on and on and on

Families have to deal and grieve with seeing their loved ones like this (if it isn't them, themselves in that condition)

I honestly don't know I got so lucky to not have those things happen to me, I deserve it way more than the people it happens to.

I am scared of the future, I know the worse is yet to come.

I honestly believe no one in this life has it lucky, this world is hellish. You might have a good life now but the life you are living is far from guaranteed. You can have everything ripped away from you in a second. I am scared


Sorry for this long rant but I have been feeling very nihilistic today idk why.

Anyways to sum it up basically i'm scared and I don't like this world and I don't want to bring people into , they will just suffer inevitably

Please let's discuss in the replies, I am still a Christian but obviously I struggle with faith, I don't want to stop believing because it gives me so much hope

wtf didnt read this shit