i sometimes can’t

[TheGreatDetective]

kashmir women in general want a lot of kids to begin with, just dont wanna pass my genes on. don’t wanna get married.

the reason why im so against psychedelics at least if you’re not in a stable or somewhat normal headspace is because it isn’t actually fixing anything, it just forces your brain into a different mode where a lot of the negative or critical thoughts just get muted. it gives the illusion of ‘growth’ i suppose because suddenly you’re less harsh on yourself, less “hateful” more accepting of everything that doesn’t mean the underlying reality changed. it just means your perception got softened.

i know someone here who was a frequent psychedelic user who was a major bitch when he got pressed by his family about something serious. didn’t even fight back or anything. people call it “ego death” or “spiritual awakening” but a lot of the time it just sounds like your brain getting rewired to stop resisting things. you become more okay with everything, more passive, more “it is what it is” that can look like healing on the surface, but it can also just make you easier to influence, easier to mold, less likely to question stuff.

i’m not saying it can’t make someone feel better or help them break out of a loop temporarily, but that’s different from actually solving anything. it’s more like it changes your lens so the problems don’t hit as hard, rather than actually dealing with them.

it seems more like a temporary mental shift rather than something that actually fixes your problems, goes for just about anyone that’s considering it. it gives the illusion that you “fixed” something mentally but never really the underlying issue itself

You're right, it doesn't actually fix the underlying problem like loneliness and longing for acceptance like in your case. That's why I only recommended it as something to help you fix the negative reinforcement and prevent further looping into past thoughts in the future when you have already fixed the bottom issue. Like I said, it mainly helps you break out of the cycle mentally and prevents you from starting with doomer thoughts at the slightest problem, which is very common with people with depression. But you still need to fix the main problem.

Even if you don't wanna marry and have kids, do you still think it's possible to get a gf back home? Even if it's hard since most of them want to have kids and marry, it would still probably be 10x easier than in the west, no? But i can also see why going back to a shithole country just for that and sacrificing comfort and modern stuff could be hard

 

[partofPrussia]

my life is so shit

Feel u bro! Stay strong tho

 

[CD34]

my life is so shit

Type of karmic shit you get after you spam my pro pic to troll

 

[CD34]

kashmir women in general want a lot of kids to begin with, just dont wanna pass my genes on. don’t wanna get married.

the reason why im so against psychedelics at least if you’re not in a stable or somewhat normal headspace is because it isn’t actually fixing anything, it just forces your brain into a different mode where a lot of the negative or critical thoughts just get muted. it gives the illusion of ‘growth’ i suppose because suddenly you’re less harsh on yourself, less “hateful” more accepting of everything that doesn’t mean the underlying reality changed. it just means your perception got softened.

i know someone here who was a frequent psychedelic user who was a major bitch when he got pressed by his family about something serious. didn’t even fight back or anything. people call it “ego death” or “spiritual awakening” but a lot of the time it just sounds like your brain getting rewired to stop resisting things. you become more okay with everything, more passive, more “it is what it is” that can look like healing on the surface, but it can also just make you easier to influence, easier to mold, less likely to question stuff.

i’m not saying it can’t make someone feel better or help them break out of a loop temporarily, but that’s different from actually solving anything. it’s more like it changes your lens so the problems don’t hit as hard, rather than actually dealing with them.

it seems more like a temporary mental shift rather than something that actually fixes your problems, goes for just about anyone that’s considering it. it gives the illusion that you “fixed” something mentally but never really the underlying issue itself

HAHAHA !!! JUST LOL AT YOUR LIFE !!!!!

 

[XambosAg2]

one struggle