i think about talking to my crush all the time

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i imagine that im in a conversation with her and like what i would say and all the possible responses and it rises my adrenaline just thinking about it
 
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AgedTimelyAfricanwildcat size restricted
 
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just kidnap her theory
 
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Blud think he @Crestfallen95
 
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Talk about looksmaxxing with her :blackpill:
 
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sounds like u are addicted to daydreaming, brutal stuff
 
sounds like u are addicted to daydreaming, brutal stuff
i literally think so much and get so invested that it makes me have phyiscal reactions
 
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I’ve had the same thing for the past 4 years. My brain just constantly comes up with scenarios of me acting cool in front of her, saying something funny, people praising me in front of her. I think it’s over jfl, I’ve never talked to this girl once :lul:
 
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i literally think so much and get so invested that it makes me have phyiscal reactions
yep, u got maladaptive daydreaming, fucking brutal. It will take a long time before you will live the present moment which you can achieve through meditation and paying attention to your thoughts.

I used to do that shit too, but now it's just a short daydreaming session at night.
 
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i literally think so much and get so invested that it makes me have phyiscal reactions
Same I feel anxious af thinking about the scenarios, like it’s raising my cortisol levels.
 
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I’ve had the same thing for the past 4 years. My brain just constantly comes up with scenarios of me acting cool in front of her, saying something funny, people praising me in front of her. I think it’s over jfl, I’ve never talked to this girl once :lul:
BRO LITERALLY. Just thinking all the time about either talking to her or doing smth in her that she would like
 
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Same I feel anxious af thinking about the scenarios, like it’s raising my cortisol levels.
@ascension he said cortisol… im getting a ptsd attack
 
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BRO LITERALLY. Just thinking all the time about either talking to her or doing smth in her that she would like
Yea dude, what is this? Like I literally can’t stop it even if I want to, my brain just keeps generating these scenarios.
 
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Same I feel anxious af thinking about the scenarios, like it’s raising my cortisol levels.
BRO LITERALLY. Just thinking all the time about either talking to her or doing smth in her that she would like
game over for y'all if you don't start to fix that shit asap. i know because i've been in ur position
 
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Same I feel anxious af thinking about the scenarios, like it’s raising my cortisol levels.
i literally thought about her so much in class my friend asked me why im blushing and smiling like an autist and i was thinking about ehat i would say if i approached her jfll
 
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Yea dude, what is this? Like I literally can’t stop it even if I want to, my brain just keeps generating these scenarios.
It's maladaptive daydreaming. Because you are an abused dog you live on survival mode 24/7 so your brain comes with distractions so it can calm itself.
 
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game over for y'all if you don't start to fix that shit asap. i know because i've been in ur position
how can it be fixed
 
actually schizomaxx.org lol
 
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@ascension he said cortisol… im getting a ptsd attack

Fuark, take a deep breath bro. Go to the doctor and get your cholesterol levels checked immediately
 
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Yea dude, what is this? Like I literally can’t stop it even if I want to, my brain just keeps generating these scenarios.
its brutal as fuck
 
i literally thought about her so much in class my friend asked me why im blushing and smiling like an autist and i was thinking about ehat i would say if i approached her jfll

Staring The Walking Dead GIF
 
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how can it be fixed
Meditation and Mindfulness.

2x meditation per day of 20 minutes, first in the morning when you wake up, second before you go to bed
mindfulness overall on the daily basis, watching your thoughts and observing them
TRE therapy for PTSD which you can do at home

these 3 changed my life for the better, but i still strugge sometimes with daydreaming at night
 
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Meditation and Mindfulness.

2x meditation per day of 20 minutes, first in the morning when you wake up, second before you got bed
mindfulness overall on the daily basis, watching your thoughts and observing them
TRE therapy for PTSD which you can do at home

these 3 changed my life for the better, but i still strugge sometimes with daydreaming at night
do you think if i got her the daydreaming would stop since its mostly about her
 
do you think if i got her the daydreaming would stop since its mostly about her
You would stop daydreaming overall.

Your brain just gives you these dreams about her because it knows that it releases chemical reactions that calms you and makes you happy in the moment, basically you are using a drug with your brain. So your brain knows whenever your stress or going through something traumatic it will just make you daydream like a robot and you can't do nothing about it.
 
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You would stop daydreaming overall.

Your brain just gives you these dreams about her because it knows that it releases chemical reactions that calms you and makes you happy in the moment, basically you are using a drug with your brain. So your brain knows whenever your stress or going through something traumatic it will just make you daydream like a robot and you can't do nothing about it.
i really need to approach her to keep my sanity, shit.
 
@prettyboyy do you daydream with music about scenarios with her where you are all happy and together and in a relationship? :forcedsmile:
 
im getting a ptsd attack
I dont get the joke tbh
i literally thought about her so much in class my friend asked me why im blushing and smiling like an autist and i was thinking about ehat i would say if i approached her jfll
My mom walked in on me performing what I was doing in my head and had the face of realization that raised a schizo.
Meditation and Mindfulness.

2x meditation per day of 20 minutes, first in the morning when you wake up, second before you go to bed
mindfulness overall on the daily basis, watching your thoughts and observing them
TRE therapy for PTSD which you can do at home

these 3 changed my life for the better, but i still strugge sometimes with daydreaming at night
I’ve struggled with daydreaming since I was a kid, I don’t think that’s ever gonna go away. But these scenarios are like effecting me in that I feel stressed thinking about them. They’re different from my typical daydreaming.
 
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Meanwhile she doesen’t even think about you
 
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@prettyboyy do you daydream with music about scenarios with her where you are all happy and together and in a relationship? :forcedsmile:
YES. sometimes happy sometimes sad songs like if i feel in my head that she rejected me or smth i put on a sad song and just imagine sad scenarios jfll fuck its so cringe
 
My mom walked in on me performing what I was doing in my head and had the face of realization that raised a schizo
its overrr jfl
 
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I dont get the joke tbh

My mom walked in on me performing what I was doing in my head and had the face of realization that raised a schizo.

I’ve struggled with daydreaming since I was a kid, I don’t think that’s ever gonna go away. But these scenarios are like effecting me in that I feel stressed thinking about them. They’re different from my typical daydreaming.
You struggled since you was a kid because you were never comfortable at home. You were never comfortable with the reality that you are living, so your brain came with the perfect dream world in your head so it can calm you and soothe you. Trust me I know what i'm talking about.

Also daydreaming means that you have a good imagination and good visualization technique which you can use to visualize things in First Person instead of the 3rd person weird daydreaming scenarios that you have, and get to your goals quickly.
 
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YES. sometimes happy sometimes sad songs like if i feel in my head that she rejected me or smth i put on a sad song and just imagine sad scenarios jfll fuck its so cringe
Yep, brutal stuff. Start meditating asap, and do the things that i've listed you in the previous reply especialy TRE RELEASE THERAPY, it's so easy you can do it at home 2 times per day, trust me when i say it's LIFE CHANGING.

If I did it you can do it too, I was a huge daydreamer as well, but now i just visualize from first person, which helps me get to my goals quickly and 'manifest' it.
 
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@prettyboyy do you daydream with music about scenarios with her where you are all happy and together and in a relationship? :forcedsmile:
NOOOO YOU REMINDED ME I DIDNT EVEN REALIZE HOW MENTALLY ILL THIS WAS, IVE BEEN OBSESSED WITH THIS SONG FOR THE LAST FEW DAYS I HEARD ON EUROVISION SO I LITERALLY WHEN I LISTEN TO IT IMAGINE THAT IM WATCHING IT WITH HER AND THAT WE ARE HAVING FUN I LITERALLY KNOW THE DANCE AND IMAGINEE THAT SHE IS WITH ME AND LAUGHING AND HAVIGN FUN NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
 
You struggled since you was a kid because you were never comfortable at home. You were never comfortable with the reality that you are living, so your brain came with the perfect dream world in your head so it can calm you and soothe you. Trust me I know what i'm talking about.

Also daydreaming means that you have a good imagination and good visualization technique which you can use to visualize things in First Person instead of the 3rd person weird daydreaming scenarios that you have, and get to your goals quickly.
I’ll use that, I never realized my current weird daydream scenarios are in 3rd person.
 
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I’ll use that, I never realized my current weird daydream scenarios are in 3rd person.
Also do TRE Release exercises for PTSD, it will reset your nervous system, so you won't be on survival mode 24/7

NOOOO YOU REMINDED ME I DIDNT EVEN REALIZE HOW MENTALLY ILL THIS WAS, IVE BEEN OBSESSED WITH THIS SONG FOR THE LAST FEW DAYS I HEARD ON EUROVISION SO I LITERALLY WHEN I LISTEN TO IT IMAGINE THAT IM WATCHING IT WITH HER AND THAT WE ARE HAVING FUN I LITERALLY KNOW THE DANCE AND IMAGINEE THAT SHE IS WITH ME AND LAUGHING AND HAVIGN FUN NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Brutal my nigga, stop obsessing with her and detach yourself. If you really like her just go talk to her, whatever happens happens, no need to obsess over a girl that probably doesn't even know you exist. And fix this poisonous habit it will destroy you later in life, trust me I know what im talking about.
 
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Also do TRE Release exercises for PTSD, it will reset your nervous system, so you won't be on survival mode 24/7


Brutal my nigga, stop obsessing with her and detach yourself. If you really like her just go talk to her, whatever happens happens, no need to obsess over a girl that probably doesn't even know you exist. And fix this poisonous habit it will destroy you later in life, trust me I know what im talking about.
i really like her i will talk to her. i didnt even realize how much of a problem this is fuck
 
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ure cucking yourself so hard shes just another bitch

i bet if you actually talk to her youll realize shes not any different

probably sucks chads dick regularly dince 10th grade
 
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ure cucking yourself so hard shes just another bitch

i bet if you actually talk to her youll realize shes not any different

probably sucks chads dick regularly dince 10th grade
nah she is the only girl in class that is very high inhib and doesnt ever go to clubs and shit, doesnt have a lot of followers on insta or anything. I cant relax my mind until i talk to her for real i just cant
 
i imagine that im in a conversation with her and like what i would say and all the possible responses and it rises my adrenaline just thinking about it
Meanwhile she is getting railed by an NT guy you prolly mog. Such is life for autists.
 
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