I think we need to start accounting your mental wellbeing as the main or one of the reasons for guys being lonely (no friends no gfs)

[Brava]

There are ugly dudes getting girls, there are short dudes getting girls, there are poor dudes getting girls. But trust me when I say this if your mental health is shit, you can have all the height, money, and looks, you will still probably not get any girls, unless they approach you, even then your mental health will fuck you over. Being nd , high inhib, introverted, social anxiety, shy, depressed, etc , are things that I believe will influence how you socialize , and with who , more than anything else. Dare I say your mental wellbeing is more important than looks?

 

[tension]

I agree BUT if you were good looking from birth you probably wouldn’t be bad socially

 

[Brava]

I agree BUT if you were good looking from birth you probably wouldn’t be bad socially

if you were rich from birth you wouldn’t have a worry in your life. That’s like the only outlier. Rich and good looking or one of those can set you up

 

[Petsmart]

Wow

 

[tension]

if you were rich from birth you wouldn’t have a worry in your life. That’s like the only outlier. Rich and good looking or one of those can set you up

But even still there are tons of people are aren’t either of those things and still have great social lives

The bp is real but WAY overstated

Social skills are the most important imo

 

[Brava]

Wow

Thought it was gonna be the first time I see a philosophical post from you.

 

[Brava]

But even still there are tons of people are aren’t either of those things and still have great social lives

The bp is real but WAY overstated

Social skills are the most important imo

Yea which proves my point even more. There are ugly people getting girls. The chances of you spotting a ugly person with a bad bitch are significantly higher than spotting a shy / introverted person with a girlfriend , let alone a good looking one

 

[tension]

Yea which proves my point even more. There are ugly people getting girls. The chances of you spotting a ugly person with a bad bitch are significantly higher than spotting a shy / introverted person with a girlfriend , let alone a good looking one

Exactly