I used to be extremely social and outgoing

[BigBallsLarry]

Back even 2-3 years ago I'd have 0 problems talking to people, ranging from my peers to teachers and random people on the bus.

I would talk with each of my classmates and be greeted by everyone, buy food for my teachers to suck up to them (lol) , talk with them about their life, help random grandmas with their groceries, hell i would even compliment random girls on the street.

This isn't a vent thread per say, it's just reminiscing the old me.. Now i can't even speak a full sentence infront of someone. I guess it's mainly just the internet making me antisocial.

I think if i left this whole internet community behind I'd be well better off in life, and maybe even be social again. But i doubt i can make that decision anytime soon

@Gengar @Daddy's Home @Luca_. @Jason Voorhees @LTNUser

 

[Deleted member 204640]

Ofc bro you have 11k posts on this forum and 6 purchased upgrades

 

[Deleted member 258605]

i was the exact same way, most asocial people would relate to this, shit's brutal

 

[vision_n]

Adulthood isn't that fun

 

[Deleted member 128232]

This is what happens when you spend your youth on .org , graycels take note.

 

[BigBallsLarry]

Ofc bro you have 11k posts on this forum and 6 purchased upgrades

Yeah haha, it's practically out of choice.. That's why I'm saying it's not a vent thread

 

[unknownincel]

Back even 2-3 years ago I'd have 0 problems talking to people, ranging from my peers to teachers and random people on the bus.

I would talk with each of my classmates and be greeted by everyone, buy food for my teachers to suck up to them (lol) , talk with them about their life, help random grandmas with their groceries, hell i would even compliment random girls on the street.

This isn't a vent thread per say, it's just reminiscing the old me.. Now i can't even speak a full sentence infront of someone. I guess it's mainly just the internet making me antisocial.

I think if i left this whole internet community behind I'd be well better off in life, and maybe even be social again. But i doubt i can make that decision anytime soon

@Gengar @Daddy's Home @Luca_. @Jason Voorhees @LTNUser

i hope shit gets better for you

 

[BigBallsLarry]

This is what happens when you spend your youth on .org , graycels take note.

Exactly.. stay out of forums for your own sake It's way better to be social irl than on the internet

 

[vision_n]

People only begin to appreciate things after they have lost them.

 

[BigBallsLarry]

i hope shit gets better for you

I'm okay, I'm not saying i don't enjoy how life is right now, it just used to be different and that's okay.

Thanks for the nice words

 

[Daddy's Home]

For me it's the opposite. I've become more social because I've gained a better understanding of how the world works from forums like this one and from the internet in general..

 

[Idontknow-]

I think if i left this whole internet community

Dont even think abt it

 

[Torycel]

Back even 2-3 years ago I'd have 0 problems talking to people, ranging from my peers to teachers and random people on the bus.

I would talk with each of my classmates and be greeted by everyone, buy food for my teachers to suck up to them (lol) , talk with them about their life, help random grandmas with their groceries, hell i would even compliment random girls on the street.

This isn't a vent thread per say, it's just reminiscing the old me.. Now i can't even speak a full sentence infront of someone. I guess it's mainly just the internet making me antisocial.

I think if i left this whole internet community behind I'd be well better off in life, and maybe even be social again. But i doubt i can make that decision anytime soon

@Gengar @Daddy's Home @Luca_. @Jason Voorhees @LTNUser

same.this forum made me anti social

 

[Mogger]

I’ve tought about getting out of here for good.. not sure how that would go tho.

 

[Jason Voorhees]

Im only NT when I have alcohol tbh

 

[Insomnia]

Same tbh. I wasn’t extremely low inhib, but I could sort of socialize back then. I never really liked so socialize, I was just forcing myself to like it

 

[BigBallsLarry]

People only begin to appreciate things after they have lost them.

well said

 

[BigBallsLarry]

For me it's the opposite. I've become more social because I've gained a better understanding of how the world works from forums like this one and from the internet in general..

I guess i just put too much comfort into here which lead to little to no comfort outside

 

[BigBallsLarry]

Dont even think abt it

don't worry bhai, I'm not leaving anytime soon

 

[BigBallsLarry]

Im only NT when I have alcohol tbh

me too, you'll catch me as the most social person ever after a few glasses of whiskey

 

[VeljesiIlo]

Skill issue

 

[BigBallsLarry]

Same tbh. I wasn’t extremely low inhib, but I could sort of socialize back then. I never really liked so socialize, I was just forcing myself to like it

i always liked it personally, idk why i stopped, just suddenly happened.

I think it was after i switched classes

 

[BigBallsLarry]

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[BigBallsLarry]

Skill issue

 

[gorgeous]

Back even 2-3 years ago I'd have 0 problems talking to people, ranging from my peers to teachers and random people on the bus.

I would talk with each of my classmates and be greeted by everyone, buy food for my teachers to suck up to them (lol) , talk with them about their life, help random grandmas with their groceries, hell i would even compliment random girls on the street.

This isn't a vent thread per say, it's just reminiscing the old me.. Now i can't even speak a full sentence infront of someone. I guess it's mainly just the internet making me antisocial.

I think if i left this whole internet community behind I'd be well better off in life, and maybe even be social again. But i doubt i can make that decision anytime soon

@Gengar @Daddy's Home @Luca_. @Jason Voorhees @LTNUser

ever since covid for me...

 

[Insomnia]

i always liked it personally, idk why i stopped, just suddenly happened.

I think it was after i switched classes

It’s just too much effort to socialise, especially if you feel like an ugly loser

 

[BigBallsLarry]

ever since covid for me...

i was the most social after covid personally.

but i know it was a brutal switch for a lot of people

 

[BigBallsLarry]

It’s just too much effort to socialise, especially if you feel like an ugly loser

agree, effort is another thing.

 

[gorgeous]

i was the most social after covid personally.

but i know it was a brutal switch for a lot of people

i was at the end of my 6th grade year (im a senior now) and i dont know what it was but i used to be loud and class clown to not talking at all and just living online lmao my middle school experience was ruined but hs was alot better

 

[Deleted member 160598]

When people, especially girls start a conversation with me without me having to do anything i feel akward as hell and cant even make it last 30 seconds

I also dont really appreciate physical contact so if a girl that is my friend like touches or grabs my hand i forcefully and coldly pull it away

 

[BigBallsLarry]

same.this forum made me anti social

It's sad, on one hand you gain a place of comfortable, uncensored hangout with many great people, but then you lose that same aspect outside of the internet.

 

[FlotPSL]

Back even 2-3 years ago I'd have 0 problems talking to people, ranging from my peers to teachers and random people on the bus.

I would talk with each of my classmates and be greeted by everyone, buy food for my teachers to suck up to them (lol) , talk with them about their life, help random grandmas with their groceries, hell i would even compliment random girls on the street.

This isn't a vent thread per say, it's just reminiscing the old me.. Now i can't even speak a full sentence infront of someone. I guess it's mainly just the internet making me antisocial.

I think if i left this whole internet community behind I'd be well better off in life, and maybe even be social again. But i doubt i can make that decision anytime soon

@Gengar @Daddy's Home @Luca_. @Jason Voorhees @LTNUser

I was always ND

 

[Insomnia]

Inb4 5pages

 

[BigBallsLarry]

I also dont really appreciate physical contact so if a girl that is my friend like touches or grabs my hand i forcefully and coldly pull it away

I do the same thing haha twinning

 

[BigBallsLarry]

i was at the end of my 6th grade year (im a senior now) and i dont know what it was but i used to be loud and class clown to not talking at all and just living online lmao my middle school experience was ruined but hs was alot better

Me too, i was THE class clown.. it was like i was a completely different person maybe i got possessed now or something

 

[Torycel]

It's sad, on one hand you gain a place of comfortable, uncensored hangout with many great people, but then you lose that same aspect outside of the internet.

yes true.at first this place was an amazing cope but it also made my real life worse at the same time.so it balanced it out kinda

 

[gorgeous]

Me too, i was THE class clown.. it was like i was a completely different person maybe i got possessed now or something

idk man its brutal

 

[Sink]

Back even 2-3 years ago I'd have 0 problems talking to people, ranging from my peers to teachers and random people on the bus.

I would talk with each of my classmates and be greeted by everyone, buy food for my teachers to suck up to them (lol) , talk with them about their life, help random grandmas with their groceries, hell i would even compliment random girls on the street.

This isn't a vent thread per say, it's just reminiscing the old me.. Now i can't even speak a full sentence infront of someone. I guess it's mainly just the internet making me antisocial.

I think if i left this whole internet community behind I'd be well better off in life, and maybe even be social again. But i doubt i can make that decision anytime soon

@Gengar @Daddy's Home @Luca_. @Jason Voorhees @LTNUser

i was born nd, no saving that but i'm always trying to better my social skills and been pretty successful with it i'd say

 

[BigBallsLarry]

we transferred souls

i probably switched souls with a 41 year old KHHV from India.. that's why I'm NEETING

 

[gorgeous]

i probably switched souls with a 41 year old KHHV from India.. that's why I'm NEETING

check pms rq

 

[BigBallsLarry]

i was born nd, no saving that but i'm always trying to better my social skills and been pretty successful with it i'd say

I'm also born ND, i have aspergers and ADHD.. crazy combo

you can still be social, it's just harder.. good luck with it

 

[voqdtuglord]

Back even 2-3 years ago I'd have 0 problems talking to people, ranging from my peers to teachers and random people on the bus.

I would talk with each of my classmates and be greeted by everyone, buy food for my teachers to suck up to them (lol) , talk with them about their life, help random grandmas with their groceries, hell i would even compliment random girls on the street.

This isn't a vent thread per say, it's just reminiscing the old me.. Now i can't even speak a full sentence infront of someone. I guess it's mainly just the internet making me antisocial.

I think if i left this whole internet community behind I'd be well better off in life, and maybe even be social again. But i doubt i can make that decision anytime soon

@Gengar @Daddy's Home @Luca_. @Jason Voorhees @LTNUser

Who knew having 43000 rep on an incel site would fuck your social skills up

 

[BigBallsLarry]

yes true.at first this place was an amazing cope but it also made my real life worse at the same time.so it balanced it out kinda

You understand how i feel then

 

[BigBallsLarry]

Who knew having 43000 rep on an incel site would fuck your social skills up

Who could've guessed

 

[Sink]

I'm also born ND, i have aspergers and ADHD.. crazy combo

you can still be social, it's just harder.. good luck with it

maybe a part that contributes to it is that i live off connections with people, but my combination of different probably undiagnosed shit just fucks with me so hard

 

[BigBallsLarry]

maybe a part that contributes to it is that i live off connections with people, but my combination of different probably undiagnosed shit just fucks with me so hard

You should try to not get too used to this site, you have a social life now but the more you get comfortable here the more you will subconsciously choose to spend time here instead of with actual people.

Use it as entertainment in your free time only.

 

[BigBallsLarry]

Inb4 5pages

I'm betting on 2 max

 

[Sink]

You should try to not get too used to this site, you have a social life now but the more you get comfortable here the more you will subconsciously choose to spend time here instead of with actual people.

Use it as entertainment in your free time only.

i just have an insane amount of free time right now but when i go to another school in september hopefully i can revive my social life after like 4 years

but in the meantime i'm just killing time on this forum since i got nothing better to do

 

[BigBallsLarry]

i just have an insane amount of free time right now but when i go to another school in september hopefully i can revive my social life after like 4 years

but in the meantime i'm just killing time on this forum since i got nothing better to do

I see, enjoy your time then!

 

[Sink]

I see, enjoy your time then!

people like you have made it very enjoyable

love you bhai