ineedhelp11
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I really appreciate your advice and I’ll try to live by it but it’s so hard, I’ve always tried to move forward like this but I just fall back into it thinking about how bad things are for me but I’ll try.i dont cry when people die either, its not that i dont care cuz i do, its just that i cant feel it in the moment and i just dissociate. its ok. some people are just like that, doesnt make you a monster or someone who doesnt care. about the lying and manipulation, be more honest, with yourself (about what you really what in life, and to figure shit out) and others. don't stoop to others levels, dont take advantage of people, always try to be the best man you can be. that means taking care of the people you love (including yourself), making money, being honorable which means dont be an asshole to people for no good reason, will just make you insufferable. be kind to yourself and others. and its ok to ask for help, doesnt make you less of a man. mens mental health is important too, bro. i isolated myself after all this shit went down with the bpd girl but i realized that that happened because its teaching me life lessons. its ok to be alone, take that time for yourself. when you're ready, reach out to people. go places, meet new people, at school its easy, you're young so its even easier. dont let this destroy you. find something that makes you happy, even if you do it by yourself. for me that was motorcycles, art, and finding a career path that enabled my personality to flourish. you'll be ok bro, just stick around.