I was on a date today and i dont know if she likes me

[yemzo]

I was on a date today with this girl I really like. It was our first date, and we went to the movies, which probably isn’t the best first date idea, but I’m pretty shy and have high inhib so honestly I preferred it. During the movie, she kept moving closer and closer to me, and eventually we were sitting really close the whole time. I wanted to get closer or make a move, but I was too scared that she might be uncomfortable, so I just stayed where I was. I didn’t even hug her when she left, which I feel kinda stupid about now, i did talk to her and we did have a convo after the movies and it seemed like she enjoyed it a lot. Then I asked her why she sometimes takes like 3 hours to respond to my snaps, and she told me she barely checks Snapchat and usually only checks snaps from her pinned friends. Now I’m overthinking everything and wondering if I’m cooked, and like there are other girls from my school who really like me but im so attached to this girl and idek why, and i just dont feel like dating any other girls. Am i cooked?

 

[egyptianslayr]

I was on a date today with this girl I really like. It was our first date, and we went to the movies, which probably isn’t the best first date idea, but I’m pretty shy and have high inhib so honestly I preferred it. During the movie, she kept moving closer and closer to me, and eventually we were sitting really close the whole time. I wanted to get closer or make a move, but I was too scared that she might be uncomfortable, so I just stayed where I was. I didn’t even hug her when she left, which I feel kinda stupid about now, i did talk to her and we did have a convo after the movies and it seemed like she enjoyed it a lot. Then I asked her why she sometimes takes like 3 hours to respond to my snaps, and she told me she barely checks Snapchat and usually only checks snaps from her pinned friends. Now I’m overthinking everything and wondering if I’m cooked, and like there are other girls from my school who really like me but im so attached to this girl and idek why, and i just dont feel like dating any other girls. Am i cooked?

if she's getting closer to you its a hint for you to do the same. The snapchat thing is kinda brutal tho

 

[psycho.]

ima be real, if she wanted to text u, she would no excuses

 

[yemzo]

if she's getting closer to you its a hint for you to do the same. The snapchat thing is kinda brutal tho

ik the snap thing is brutal, but she doesn't talk to any other guys, like she has never even had a bf so im literally so confused

 

[yemzo]

ima be real, if she wanted to text u, she would no excuses

yeah ik man thats the thing, and i am trying to talk to other girls since i feel like this girl is a lost cause but i just cant, it just feels wierd since im so attatched to her and she prolly doesn't gaf abt me

 

[Kopcav.looks]

she doesnt like u, do u like urself?

 

[psycho.]

i felt the same way abt a few girls in the past, tbh all of them ended with me having to let go bc the brutal truth is that she doesn't like u prolly or shes js using u. wish u all the best tho

 

[Kasonb124]

I was on a date today with this girl I really like. It was our first date, and we went to the movies, which probably isn’t the best first date idea, but I’m pretty shy and have high inhib so honestly I preferred it. During the movie, she kept moving closer and closer to me, and eventually we were sitting really close the whole time. I wanted to get closer or make a move, but I was too scared that she might be uncomfortable, so I just stayed where I was. I didn’t even hug her when she left, which I feel kinda stupid about now, i did talk to her and we did have a convo after the movies and it seemed like she enjoyed it a lot. Then I asked her why she sometimes takes like 3 hours to respond to my snaps, and she told me she barely checks Snapchat and usually only checks snaps from her pinned friends. Now I’m overthinking everything and wondering if I’m cooked, and like there are other girls from my school who really like me but im so attached to this girl and idek why, and i just dont feel like dating any other girls. Am i cooked?

bro you airballed an open layup, also ive found its best to not ask the site littered with incels about dating advice they honestly get jealous and tell you some bs

 

[yemzo]

dang alr bro, ill try to ask her out for a second date and i'll try to shoot my shot, but the thing that really bothers me is that she takes so long to respond sometimes

 

[Kasonb124]

dang alr bro, ill try to ask her out for a second date and i'll try to shoot my shot, but the thing that really bothers me is that she takes so long to respond sometimes

Also you mentions she doesnt check snap to often which if she is telling the truth get her number, something she does check and pay attention to. If she still is unresponsive to messages then you may just want yo end things with her

 

[yemzo]

good idea dude, i'll do that