I wasnt able to protect my GF from being verbally abused, I feel like shit

[Nation]

Im 30 and I have poor relationship experience since I have been and incel until I was 28.
After years of suffering I managed to get a 25 yo GF, we are dating since December.
I Always had problems with being a pushover, I dont know how tò react to people that treat me badly, I freeze and ai dont know what to do/Say.
Its not about inibitions, this happens everytime I have to confront people...my mind goes blank and I cant find the right Word.
I Just stay there acting too kind/diplomatic and I dont lose my temper no matter what.

I started boxing for some months before I broke my ALC and this helped a Little.
I lift since I was 15 and my phisique Is great except my height (5'8" but I use lifts that puts me tò 5'10.5")


We were in weekend vacation in front of a spot for couples, this guy arrived and tried to sell us some Roses.
She didnt want to and She declined respectfully...he kept staying there asking to buy him some Roses for a very low prices.
I tried to convince her but She kept saying no, he started getting angry and started verbally abuse us.

' shes with you Just for your Money...She didnt love you, dont stay with her She Just wants your Money '

Things like that, I tried to use some sarcasm saying I was actually the One Who was paid...but he was serious and continued insulting us.

I didnt know how to manage this situation, I tried to smile and be friendly at what he was saying like It was a joke even if It wasnt a joke at all.

I dont know how tò treat people badly, I read books about not being a nice guy ( no more mr nice guy ) but It didnt help.

I feel like a spineless coward and She doesnt believe I can protect her again.
Some days ago She was like in a middle of an argument...'' you Always Say that i have to tell you if someone is bothering me...but the other day you did nothing even if he deserved... end of the discussion'.

Shes right unfortunately.
I dont know what to do and how tò get more aggressive/angry...not even aas helped me.
I dont really know what to do, I feel so bad.

 

[FBl]

I'll never have a gf it seems

 

[ascension]

Im 30 and I have poor relationship experience since I have been and incel until I was 28.
After years of suffering I managed to get a 25 yo GF, we are dating since December.
I Always had problems with being a pushover, I dont know how tò react to people that treat me badly, I freeze and ai dont know what to do/Say.
Its not about inibitions, this happens everytime I have to confront people...my mind goes blank and I cant find the right Word.
I Just stay there acting too kind/diplomatic and I dont lose my temper no matter what.

I started boxing for some months before I broke my ALC and this helped a Little.
I lift since I was 15 and my phisique Is great except my height (5'8" but I use lifts that puts me tò 5'10.5")


We were in weekend vacation in front of a spot for couples, this guy arrived and tried to sell us some Roses.
She didnt want to and She declined respectfully...he kept staying there asking to buy him some Roses for a very low prices.
I tried to convince her but She kept saying no, he started getting angry and started verbally abuse us.

' shes with you Just for your Money...She didnt love you, dont stay with her She Just wants your Money '

Things like that, I tried to use some sarcasm saying I was actually the One Who was paid...but he was serious and continued insulting us.

I didnt know how to manage this situation, I tried to smile and be friendly at what he was saying like It was a joke even if It wasnt a joke at all.

I dont know how tò treat people badly, I read books about not being a nice guy ( no more mr nice guy ) but It didnt help.

I feel like a spineless coward and She doesnt believe I can protect her again.
Some days ago She was like in a middle of an argument...'' you Always Say that i have to tell you if someone is bothering me...but the other day you did nothing even if he deserved... end of the discussion'.

Shes right unfortunately.
I dont know what to do and how tò get more aggressive/angry...not even aas helped me.
I dont really know what to do, I feel so bad.

 

[wsada]

I strive to be better than you

 

[Gigatyrone69]

Im 30

over

 

[ropemaxxingking578]

Im 30 and I have poor relationship experience since I have been and incel until I was 28.
After years of suffering I managed to get a 25 yo GF, we are dating since December.
I Always had problems with being a pushover, I dont know how tò react to people that treat me badly, I freeze and ai dont know what to do/Say.
Its not about inibitions, this happens everytime I have to confront people...my mind goes blank and I cant find the right Word.
I Just stay there acting too kind/diplomatic and I dont lose my temper no matter what.

I started boxing for some months before I broke my ALC and this helped a Little.
I lift since I was 15 and my phisique Is great except my height (5'8" but I use lifts that puts me tò 5'10.5")


We were in weekend vacation in front of a spot for couples, this guy arrived and tried to sell us some Roses.
She didnt want to and She declined respectfully...he kept staying there asking to buy him some Roses for a very low prices.
I tried to convince her but She kept saying no, he started getting angry and started verbally abuse us.

' shes with you Just for your Money...She didnt love you, dont stay with her She Just wants your Money '

Things like that, I tried to use some sarcasm saying I was actually the One Who was paid...but he was serious and continued insulting us.

I didnt know how to manage this situation, I tried to smile and be friendly at what he was saying like It was a joke even if It wasnt a joke at all.

I dont know how tò treat people badly, I read books about not being a nice guy ( no more mr nice guy ) but It didnt help.

I feel like a spineless coward and She doesnt believe I can protect her again.
Some days ago She was like in a middle of an argument...'' you Always Say that i have to tell you if someone is bothering me...but the other day you did nothing even if he deserved... end of the discussion'.

Shes right unfortunately.
I dont know what to do and how tò get more aggressive/angry...not even aas helped me.
I dont really know what to do, I feel so bad.

 

[kanderior]

is this a copypasta, reddit post or your actual experience?

 

[ropemaxxingking578]

over

ovER for everyone older than 10

 

[eduardkoopman]

, I read books about not being a nice guy ( no more mr nice guy ) but It didnt help.

I dont really know what to do,

Can't change the past.

I feel so bad.

That can be a motivation for next time, such stuff happens.
Than you know if you don't wanna feel like shit after, you need to do something.


To add , by the way.
You talked about, only. How it was, for the matter of her view, of her being protected. Which is true and legit.

But there is one extra main factor. You left unmentioned.
The factor. On how it is a mayor desrespect towards you as a man, from another dude.
When you are with a woman, that is yours. If a dude dares to hit on her in front of you, or disrespect her bad in front of you. He basically is saying also, that he doesn't fear you nor respect to you. Since if a dude is afraid to get hurt by another dude, he wouldn't do it.
Do you think a dude, would disrespect the wife of Mike Tyson in front of him? Out of fear/respect for him, most all dudes wouldn't. And thus so it should be.
One should also feel tempted, to set a dude and all.other dudes around straight, that you are not a person to be messed with.

 

[PsychoDsk]

take tren you faggot
how can you be too pussy for confrontation as a man

 

[Bojack]

Become a violent chimp and start fighting nigguz bro

 

[ropemaxxingking578]

is this a copypasta, reddit post or your actual experience?

Probably Reddit post since he Is an .org user

 

[SomaliMax]

Im 30 and I have poor relationship experience since I have been and incel until I was 28.
After years of suffering I managed to get a 25 yo GF, we are dating since December.
I Always had problems with being a pushover, I dont know how tò react to people that treat me badly, I freeze and ai dont know what to do/Say.
Its not about inibitions, this happens everytime I have to confront people...my mind goes blank and I cant find the right Word.
I Just stay there acting too kind/diplomatic and I dont lose my temper no matter what.

I started boxing for some months before I broke my ALC and this helped a Little.
I lift since I was 15 and my phisique Is great except my height (5'8" but I use lifts that puts me tò 5'10.5")


We were in weekend vacation in front of a spot for couples, this guy arrived and tried to sell us some Roses.
She didnt want to and She declined respectfully...he kept staying there asking to buy him some Roses for a very low prices.
I tried to convince her but She kept saying no, he started getting angry and started verbally abuse us.

' shes with you Just for your Money...She didnt love you, dont stay with her She Just wants your Money '

Things like that, I tried to use some sarcasm saying I was actually the One Who was paid...but he was serious and continued insulting us.

I didnt know how to manage this situation, I tried to smile and be friendly at what he was saying like It was a joke even if It wasnt a joke at all.

I dont know how tò treat people badly, I read books about not being a nice guy ( no more mr nice guy ) but It didnt help.

I feel like a spineless coward and She doesnt believe I can protect her again.
Some days ago She was like in a middle of an argument...'' you Always Say that i have to tell you if someone is bothering me...but the other day you did nothing even if he deserved... end of the discussion'.

Shes right unfortunately.
I dont know what to do and how tò get more aggressive/angry...not even aas helped me.
I dont really know what to do, I feel so bad.

100% raised by a single mom. Nigga u been lifting for over a decade, box, and yet you didn’t just end up punching the Mf harassing y’all in the face???

Bro this relationship is over. Once she feels like you can’t protect her she will loose interest in u, there is no way around it.

If u hit the Mf in the face he would’ve started acting correct, he sensed u were a pussy which is why he kept going. She would’ve been so wet if u knocked him out

 

[_MVP_]

Have i No empathy with u. Die

 

[qxtwz7854]

Im 30

stopped reading here

 

[SeiGun]

if someone just say shit, i couldnt careless, as long as he dint touch anyone ,the problem is you feel helpless....bruh...very soy emotion

 

[Primalsplit]

Lol what a weak beta male faggot.
@Skywalker

 

[Skywalker]

Im 30 and I have poor relationship experience since I have been and incel until I was 28.
After years of suffering I managed to get a 25 yo GF, we are dating since December.
I Always had problems with being a pushover, I dont know how tò react to people that treat me badly, I freeze and ai dont know what to do/Say.
Its not about inibitions, this happens everytime I have to confront people...my mind goes blank and I cant find the right Word.
I Just stay there acting too kind/diplomatic and I dont lose my temper no matter what.

I started boxing for some months before I broke my ALC and this helped a Little.
I lift since I was 15 and my phisique Is great except my height (5'8" but I use lifts that puts me tò 5'10.5")


We were in weekend vacation in front of a spot for couples, this guy arrived and tried to sell us some Roses.
She didnt want to and She declined respectfully...he kept staying there asking to buy him some Roses for a very low prices.
I tried to convince her but She kept saying no, he started getting angry and started verbally abuse us.

' shes with you Just for your Money...She didnt love you, dont stay with her She Just wants your Money '

Things like that, I tried to use some sarcasm saying I was actually the One Who was paid...but he was serious and continued insulting us.

I didnt know how to manage this situation, I tried to smile and be friendly at what he was saying like It was a joke even if It wasnt a joke at all.

I dont know how tò treat people badly, I read books about not being a nice guy ( no more mr nice guy ) but It didnt help.

I feel like a spineless coward and She doesnt believe I can protect her again.
Some days ago She was like in a middle of an argument...'' you Always Say that i have to tell you if someone is bothering me...but the other day you did nothing even if he deserved... end of the discussion'.

Shes right unfortunately.
I dont know what to do and how tò get more aggressive/angry...not even aas helped me.
I dont really know what to do, I feel so bad.

it seems like the more you go backwards in time as a og member, 2018-2019 ish, the more SOY you become
@Primalsplit @MoggerGaston @6ft4 @Orc @thecel

 

[Skywalker]

I'll never have a gf it seems

no, your job is too demanding

 

[RAMU KAKA]

Just go cold turkey on the nice guy act and become dark triad

 

[Skywalker]

r u afro gal only at this point @Orc ?

 

[Orc]

r u afro gal only at this point @Orc ?

casual sex with native women sucks, but I don't want mix children either.

 

[Skywalker]

casual sex with native women sucks, but I don't want mix children either.

so casual with afro, and kids with hu white ned/ germanic?

 

[Orc]

so casual with afro, and kids with hu white ned/ germanic?

I'll find the unicorn scandinavian girl that doesn't starfish someday.

 

[Skywalker]

I'll find the unicorn scandinavian girl that doesn't starfish someday.

and she ll divorce grape you for bbc 3 years later

 

[Orc]

and she ll divorce you for bbc 3 years later

only americans fetishize blacks, the native women in europe are extremely racist and think they're disgusting.

 

[Skywalker]

only americans fetishize blacks, the native women in europe are extremely racist and think they're disgusting.

depends on where in europe....the exotic factor is big nowadays
im eu citizen living in US so i think i know both pretty well lol

 

[Orc]

depends on where in europe....the exotic factor is big nowadays
im eu citizen living in US so i think i know both pretty well lol

it doesn't depend, it's just massive cope, the average north-west european man looks better than the top percentiles of foreigners, they're taller, have bigger bones, better coloring, and more money.

the ONLY people who think this are porn addicts and americans.

 

[Skywalker]

it doesn't depend, it's just massive cope, the average north-west european man looks better than the top percentiles of foreigners, they're taller, have bigger bones, better coloring, and more money.

the ONLY people who think this are porn addicts and americans.

it depends if your perspective on genetics comes from nazis or actually people who know and or have study genetics....women in europe are the least loyal to their race nowadays, as if that was ever a thing lol

 

[Orc]

it depends if your perspective on genetics comes from nazis or actually people who know and or have study genetics....women in europe are the least loyal to their race nowadays, as if that was ever a thing lol

your perspective of race is also americanized.

there is no 'european' race, there is also no 'african' race.

ethiopians aren't related to afro-americans, danes aren't related to the polish, there's no all encompassing 'white' race, there's no such thing for 'blacks' either, almost nobody is loyal to anything, besides maybe the chinese and indians who barely outbreed with anything.

 

[john2]

imagine wanting to protect muh girlfriend

 

[Skywalker]

your perspective of race is also americanized.

GOOD
why would i want to limit my options as a white man with my "muh hu white" thing
its not btw because ive told u im eu citizen and read my sig and yada yada, but nobody ever listens here

ethiopians aren't related to afro-americans, danes aren't related to the polish, there's no all encompassing 'white' race, there's no such thing for 'blacks' either, almost nobody is loyal to anything, besides maybe the chinese and indians who barely outbreed with anything.

i know ofc, but mongoloid negroid and caucasian and all that are generally considered to belong to their respective continents
mobility isnt even that high now, let alone in 200 bc lol
poles are living BETTER than the danes in 2024, all things considered, and poles have been destroyed on this retarded forum by one retarded poster of the retarded national socialists, who were rightfully defeated, and hopefully they will be defeated on this forum too, because they suffer from the curse of the mid high iq, which means you think youre smart, but you actually ARENT so you become arrogant for NOTHING

 

[mogstars]

Im 30 and I have poor relationship experience since I have been and incel until I was 28.
After years of suffering I managed to get a 25 yo GF, we are dating since December.
I Always had problems with being a pushover, I dont know how tò react to people that treat me badly, I freeze and ai dont know what to do/Say.
Its not about inibitions, this happens everytime I have to confront people...my mind goes blank and I cant find the right Word.
I Just stay there acting too kind/diplomatic and I dont lose my temper no matter what.

I started boxing for some months before I broke my ALC and this helped a Little.
I lift since I was 15 and my phisique Is great except my height (5'8" but I use lifts that puts me tò 5'10.5")


We were in weekend vacation in front of a spot for couples, this guy arrived and tried to sell us some Roses.
She didnt want to and She declined respectfully...he kept staying there asking to buy him some Roses for a very low prices.
I tried to convince her but She kept saying no, he started getting angry and started verbally abuse us.

' shes with you Just for your Money...She didnt love you, dont stay with her She Just wants your Money '

Things like that, I tried to use some sarcasm saying I was actually the One Who was paid...but he was serious and continued insulting us.

I didnt know how to manage this situation, I tried to smile and be friendly at what he was saying like It was a joke even if It wasnt a joke at all.

I dont know how tò treat people badly, I read books about not being a nice guy ( no more mr nice guy ) but It didnt help.

I feel like a spineless coward and She doesnt believe I can protect her again.
Some days ago She was like in a middle of an argument...'' you Always Say that i have to tell you if someone is bothering me...but the other day you did nothing even if he deserved... end of the discussion'.

Shes right unfortunately.
I dont know what to do and how tò get more aggressive/angry...not even aas helped me.
I dont really know what to do, I feel so bad.

Sorry that was me

 

[Skywalker]

Sorry that was me

nah u are a good man, my friend

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

it’s not ur fault, as a short guy you have avoided conflict growing up and ur parents likely sheltered you. Confrontational skills come naturally with size and a tough upbringing

 

[Skywalker]

it’s not ur fault, as a short guy you have avoided conflict growing up and ur parents likely sheltered you. Confrontational skills come naturally with size and a tough upbringing

what about if ur parents didnt give a shit about your mouth breathing?

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

what about if ur parents didnt give a shit about your mouth breathing?

Shit isn’t that significant, ur genes are the main determinant of development. My brother used to call me a mouthbreather, I ended up developing a better jaw than him

 

[i_love_roosters]

Dnr, low t

 

[Skywalker]

Dnr, low t

the cause of most of the pbs lol

 

[Skywalker]

Shit isn’t that significant, ur genes are the main determinant of development. My brother used to call me a mouthbreather, I ended up developing a better jaw than him

not true
if my parents wouldnt have let me mouthbreath i woulda had good jaws
everyone in my family has good jaws

 

[Nation]

Can't change the past.


That can be a motivation for next time, such stuff happens.
Than you know if you don't wanna feel like shit after, you need to do something.


To add , by the way.
You talked about, only. How it was, for the matter of her view, of her being protected. Which is true and legit.

But there is one extra main factor. You left unmentioned.
The factor. On how it is a mayor desrespect towards you as a man, from another dude.
When you are with a woman, that is yours. If a dude dares to hit on her in front of you, or disrespect her bad in front of you. He basically is saying also, that he doesn't fear you nor respect to you. Since if a dude is afraid to get hurt by another dude, he wouldn't do it.
Do you think a dude, would disrespect the wife of Mike Tyson in front of him? Out of fear/respect for him, most all dudes wouldn't. And thus so it should be.
One should also feel tempted, to set a dude and all.other dudes around straight, that you are not a person to be messed with.

You're right, but thats because I have High trust face with beta eyes...even if Im gymcelled and tatmaxed im still short too

 

[Nation]

it’s not ur fault, as a short guy you have avoided conflict growing up and ur parents likely sheltered you. Confrontational skills come naturally with size and a tough upbringing

True, but seriously can I fix this?

Shes confrontational and Always nagging me about everything...

 

[edodalic29]

This will start to be the beginning to an end , if you still have time left quit being needy , stand ur ground and be assertive/ dominant

For now just dont get to emotional, etc , you can still save it but her attraction torwards u definitely isnt the same anymore bc of this and potentially other things

 

[PrinceofDarkness]

Im 30 and I have poor relationship experience since I have been and incel until I was 28.
After years of suffering I managed to get a 25 yo GF, we are dating since December.
I Always had problems with being a pushover, I dont know how tò react to people that treat me badly, I freeze and ai dont know what to do/Say.
Its not about inibitions, this happens everytime I have to confront people...my mind goes blank and I cant find the right Word.
I Just stay there acting too kind/diplomatic and I dont lose my temper no matter what.

I started boxing for some months before I broke my ALC and this helped a Little.
I lift since I was 15 and my phisique Is great except my height (5'8" but I use lifts that puts me tò 5'10.5")


We were in weekend vacation in front of a spot for couples, this guy arrived and tried to sell us some Roses.
She didnt want to and She declined respectfully...he kept staying there asking to buy him some Roses for a very low prices.
I tried to convince her but She kept saying no, he started getting angry and started verbally abuse us.

' shes with you Just for your Money...She didnt love you, dont stay with her She Just wants your Money '

Things like that, I tried to use some sarcasm saying I was actually the One Who was paid...but he was serious and continued insulting us.

I didnt know how to manage this situation, I tried to smile and be friendly at what he was saying like It was a joke even if It wasnt a joke at all.

I dont know how tò treat people badly, I read books about not being a nice guy ( no more mr nice guy ) but It didnt help.

I feel like a spineless coward and She doesnt believe I can protect her again.
Some days ago She was like in a middle of an argument...'' you Always Say that i have to tell you if someone is bothering me...but the other day you did nothing even if he deserved... end of the discussion'.

Shes right unfortunately.
I dont know what to do and how tò get more aggressive/angry...not even aas helped me.
I dont really know what to do, I feel so bad.

Hop on gear. Become more of a man

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

True, but seriously can I fix this?

Shes confrontational and Always nagging me about everything...

Because she doesn’t respect you, due to ur stature and lack of confrontation. She’s dated tall, broad guys in the past and now your trying to tell her what to do.

In the past you would keep ur bitch in line with a smack, can’t do that now. Women act masculine because they know their partner can’t do anything

 

[depressionmaxxing]

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This is perfect

 

[depressionmaxxing]

Im just waiting for some ethnic fuck to try me while im with my girl, gonna show him what chechnya is all about

 

[Pikabro]

It’s over she’s going to hold this against you. You can’t rely on another opportunity because it will come while you’re not expecting it and you will just freeze again.

 

[Pikabro]

But the thing is this isn’t even some intimidating BBC making moves on your gf but it’s some subhuman flower selling hobo getting mad at you. But you ate trying to appease this guy’s anger, entertain him and be his friend. Because you don’t want him to be angry with you, like a nice guy.

I’m like this. I assume you didn’t get into fights/pursue conflict with people throughout your life. Were you the quiet kid in school?

 

[Nation]

But the thing is this isn’t even some intimidating BBC making moves on your gf but it’s some subhuman flower selling hobo getting mad at you. But you ate trying to appease this guy’s anger, entertain him and be his friend. Because you don’t want him to be angry with you, like a nice guy.

I’m like this. I assume you didn’t get into fights/pursue conflict with people throughout your life. Were you the quiet kid in school?

Yes, exactly.
I was even boxing but I had torn my ACL + Meniscus because of an accident.
Is there anything to improve this situation?