I wonder how my parents will cope with me leaving the house

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I'll be moving out on my own later year . It's exciting for me but I know it's going to hit my parents hard. They'll suddenly become empty nesters soon.

A lot of their daily life and identity has been tied to being parents and having me around. When I was abroad, Mom said the house felt really lonely without me there. No more of having me blasting TV at 2 a.m makes it too quiet for her.

Dad already saw this day coming sooner than Mom did. He's set financially and could have retired years ago if he wanted but he kept working so I could get through college comfortably, buy whatever I needed/wanted. I had 0 stress about money. It was just one phone call away.

On top of that he's been putting money aside into investments and accounts so that once I move out. He could time it and they can both retire at the same time. He's built quite a fortune now tbh. Result of smart investments+years of grind+frugal spending.

They've built everything up really well tbh. No need for me to chip in or anything like that. I'm sure they'll find a way to cope with it somehow.
 
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I'll be moving out on my own later year . It's exciting for me but I know it's going to hit my parents hard. They'll suddenly become empty nesters soon.

A lot of their daily life and identity has been tied to being parents and having me around. When I was abroad, Mom said the house felt really lonely without me there. No more of having me blasting TV at 2 a.m makes it too quiet for her.

Dad already saw this day coming sooner than Mom did. He's set financially and could have retired years ago if he wanted but he kept working so I could get through college comfortably, buy whatever I needed/wanted. I had 0 stress about money. It was just one phone call away.

On top of that he's been putting money aside into investments and accounts so that once I move out. He could time it and they can both retire at the same time. He's built quite a fortune tbh, result of smart investments+years of grind+frugal spending.

They've built everything up really well tbh. No need for me to chip in or anything like that. I'm sure they'll find a way to cope with it somehow.
Mirin ur chill Pajeet life
 
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What even is ur net worth

U go around saying u got connections and shit but how actually rich r u brah
 
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probably celebrate
 
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What even is ur net worth

U go around saying u got connections and shit but how actually rich r u brah
Im not rich my dad is rich.
 
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Oh so ur trust fund

Theres no self made rich people out there lmao
Its not like that but I'm not going to pretend or deny that my dad's connections and funds did not help me massively
 
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poorcel cope
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I'll be moving out on my own later year . It's exciting for me but I know it's going to hit my parents hard. They'll suddenly become empty nesters soon.

A lot of their daily life and identity has been tied to being parents and having me around. When I was abroad, Mom said the house felt really lonely without me there. No more of having me blasting TV at 2 a.m makes it too quiet for her.

Dad already saw this day coming sooner than Mom did. He's set financially and could have retired years ago if he wanted but he kept working so I could get through college comfortably, buy whatever I needed/wanted. I had 0 stress about money. It was just one phone call away.

On top of that he's been putting money aside into investments and accounts so that once I move out. He could time it and they can both retire at the same time. He's built quite a fortune now tbh. Result of smart investments+years of grind+frugal spending.

They've built everything up really well tbh. No need for me to chip in or anything like that. I'm sure they'll find a way to cope with it somehow.
Ur 22 still living with ur parents
 
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I'll be moving out on my own later year . It's exciting for me but I know it's going to hit my parents hard. They'll suddenly become empty nesters soon.

A lot of their daily life and identity has been tied to being parents and having me around. When I was abroad, Mom said the house felt really lonely without me there. No more of having me blasting TV at 2 a.m makes it too quiet for her.

Dad already saw this day coming sooner than Mom did. He's set financially and could have retired years ago if he wanted but he kept working so I could get through college comfortably, buy whatever I needed/wanted. I had 0 stress about money. It was just one phone call away.

On top of that he's been putting money aside into investments and accounts so that once I move out. He could time it and they can both retire at the same time. He's built quite a fortune now tbh. Result of smart investments+years of grind+frugal spending.

They've built everything up really well tbh. No need for me to chip in or anything like that. I'm sure they'll find a way to cope with it somehow.
Good for you bhai. What's the new situation gonna look like for you
 
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They will adapt to it dw
 
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are you planning to move far away?
 
I'll be moving out on my own later year . It's exciting for me but I know it's going to hit my parents hard. They'll suddenly become empty nesters soon.

A lot of their daily life and identity has been tied to being parents and having me around. When I was abroad, Mom said the house felt really lonely without me there. No more of having me blasting TV at 2 a.m makes it too quiet for her.

Dad already saw this day coming sooner than Mom did. He's set financially and could have retired years ago if he wanted but he kept working so I could get through college comfortably, buy whatever I needed/wanted. I had 0 stress about money. It was just one phone call away.

On top of that he's been putting money aside into investments and accounts so that once I move out. He could time it and they can both retire at the same time. He's built quite a fortune now tbh. Result of smart investments+years of grind+frugal spending.

They've built everything up really well tbh. No need for me to chip in or anything like that. I'm sure they'll find a way to cope with it somehow.
This makes me feel sad

make sure to visit them often

after all you don't want your parents worrying about you
 
I'll be moving out on my own later year . It's exciting for me but I know it's going to hit my parents hard. They'll suddenly become empty nesters soon.

A lot of their daily life and identity has been tied to being parents and having me around. When I was abroad, Mom said the house felt really lonely without me there. No more of having me blasting TV at 2 a.m makes it too quiet for her.

Dad already saw this day coming sooner than Mom did. He's set financially and could have retired years ago if he wanted but he kept working so I could get through college comfortably, buy whatever I needed/wanted. I had 0 stress about money. It was just one phone call away.

On top of that he's been putting money aside into investments and accounts so that once I move out. He could time it and they can both retire at the same time. He's built quite a fortune now tbh. Result of smart investments+years of grind+frugal spending.

They've built everything up really well tbh. No need for me to chip in or anything like that. I'm sure they'll find a way to cope with it somehow.
what cope did they find? are you the only son.
i think this is case with jeet parents they are too much invested in kids life. from school iit to who the kid get married and what happens after.
idk about west but i assume they have own separate lives and hobbies.
what do you think they should do?
 

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