Idk what to do with my actual relationship

[NVM_Ignacio]

I really like my gf and I do love her, but I know shes not the type of girl I want to marry, she has so many mental disorders and a really awful past, not that high bc but more than 0 without counting yourself is TOO much to marry that girl.

I have a trip planned to brasil so atleast I want to go there, thats the main reason I havent broke up yet. But idk how to feel about being in a relationship for actual fun that I know wont last forever.

I know I deserve better than her but I also feel she deserves someone different to me, someone who cares more about her feelings and put her in his top 1 of priorities.

 

[NVM_Ignacio]

@Brooke Shields @iblamexyz @Tenres @Jatt what do we think active users

 

[iblamexyz]

I really like my gf and I do love her, but I know shes not the type of girl I want to marry, she has so many mental disorders and a really awful past, not that high bc but more than 0 without counting yourself is TOO much to marry that girl.

I have a trip planned to brasil so atleast I want to go there, thats the main reason I havent broke up yet. But idk how to feel about being in a relationship for actual fun that I know wont last forever.

I know I deserve better than her but I also feel she deserves someone different to me, someone who cares more about her feelings and put her in his top 1 of priorities.

talk it out with her instead of us

 

[NVM_Ignacio]

talk it out with her instead of us

Its not like I can do that, she would khs if I told this to her

 

[Brooke Shields]

I really like my gf and I do love her, but I know shes not the type of girl I want to marry, she has so many mental disorders and a really awful past, not that high bc but more than 0 without counting yourself is TOO much to marry that girl.

I have a trip planned to brasil so atleast I want to go there, thats the main reason I havent broke up yet. But idk how to feel about being in a relationship for actual fun that I know wont last forever.

I know I deserve better than her but I also feel she deserves someone different to me, someone who cares more about her feelings and put her in his top 1 of priorities.

@Brooke Shields @iblamexyz @Tenres @Jatt what do we think active users

i dont really think that much

 

[FrancoAgain]

I know I deserve better than her

what makes you think you're entitled to someone better than her
did you fall for that feminist "you deserve whats best!!!" propaganda?

 

[Jatt]

I really like my gf and I do love her, but I know shes not the type of girl I want to marry, she has so many mental disorders and a really awful past, not that high bc but more than 0 without counting yourself is TOO much to marry that girl.

I have a trip planned to brasil so atleast I want to go there, thats the main reason I havent broke up yet. But idk how to feel about being in a relationship for actual fun that I know wont last forever.

I know I deserve better than her but I also feel she deserves someone different to me, someone who cares more about her feelings and put her in his top 1 of priorities.

@Brooke Shields @iblamexyz @Tenres @Jatt what do we think active users

fuck her hard one last time and break up over text and move on

 

[yex]

I really like my gf and I do love her, but I know shes not the type of girl I want to marry, she has so many mental disorders and a really awful past, not that high bc but more than 0 without counting yourself is TOO much to marry that girl.

I have a trip planned to brasil so atleast I want to go there, thats the main reason I havent broke up yet. But idk how to feel about being in a relationship for actual fun that I know wont last forever.

I know I deserve better than her but I also feel she deserves someone different to me, someone who cares more about her feelings and put her in his top 1 of priorities.

just make her understand mental problems are cope and that you are her father figure now brooo

 

[iblamexyz]

Its not like I can do that, she would khs if I told this to her

oh boy

eh idk bro that's sounds like emotional manipulation

talk to somone about her irl or with her

don't let woman like this ruin ur life

 

[iblamexyz]

what makes you think you're entitled to someone better than her

 

[NVM_Ignacio]

i dont really think that much

I should start guessing that atp

 

[Jaxonc82]

I really like my gf and I do love her, but I know shes not the type of girl I want to marry, she has so many mental disorders and a really awful past, not that high bc but more than 0 without counting yourself is TOO much to marry that girl.

I have a trip planned to brasil so atleast I want to go there, thats the main reason I havent broke up yet. But idk how to feel about being in a relationship for actual fun that I know wont last forever.

I know I deserve better than her but I also feel she deserves someone different to me, someone who cares more about her feelings and put her in his top 1 of priorities.

i mean how old are you might aswell not stress about it until your ready to settle down if your young just surf it

 

[Tenres]

What type of mental problems? It really depends on if it will change her ability to connect to you.

Also, the virgin thing really depends on your perception. A girl losing her virginity absolutely lowers the novelty, but there's plenty of ways to still form a strong bond. It's really a personal decision on whether you can stomach the fact she was with another guy before you. Deeper than that its about how much value you place on sex. Follow your instincts.

 

[yex]

just make her understand mental problems are cope and that you are her father figure now brooo

jk btw

 

[NVM_Ignacio]

oh boy

eh idk bro that's sounds like emotional manipulation

talk to somone about her irl or with her

don't let woman like this ruin ur life

Its not like I care, I just dont know how okay it is to be with her knowing we will break up obe day and she thinks we will be together forever

 

[NVM_Ignacio]

what makes you think you're entitled to someone better than her
did you fall for that feminist "you deserve whats best!!!" propaganda?

looks rating obv(?

 

[NVM_Ignacio]

fuck her hard one last time and break up over text and move on

mirin, could be the best advice possible

 

[FrancoAgain]

looks rating obv(?

does not apply to males due to hypergamy
unless you are waaaaay out of her league

 

[NVM_Ignacio]

i mean how old are you might aswell not stress about it until your ready to settle down if your young just surf it

Im 17 so idk, what do you think

 

[NVM_Ignacio]

does not apply to males due to hypergamy
unless you are waaaaay out of her league

not waaaaay out of her league but everybody told me I deserve better, looks and mental health wise.

What I mean with better is mostly someone healthier mentally and barely better looking, I could bag some girl worse looking if shes a virgin tho

 

[NVM_Ignacio]

What type of mental problems? It really depends on if it will change her ability to connect to you.

Also, the virgin thing really depends on your perception. A girl losing her virginity absolutely lowers the novelty, but there's plenty of ways to still form a strong bond. It's really a personal decision on whether you can stomach the fact she was with another guy before you. Deeper than that its about how much value you place on sex. Follow your instincts.

I know Ill never wont be disgusted by the fact she was with another guy, so I dont want to live with that.

She has bpd, now you know its rs

 

[Jaxonc82]

Im 17 so idk, what do you think

if its affecting you mentally cut it off put yourself first but if its all good just have fun dont take it to serious you realistically got 8 more years to find somone to settle down with, and teenage relationships work better when you are more laid back and "go with the flow" just surf it bro

 

[ultimate]

I really like my gf and I do love her, but I know shes not the type of girl I want to marry, she has so many mental disorders and a really awful past, not that high bc but more than 0 without counting yourself is TOO much to marry that girl.

I have a trip planned to brasil so atleast I want to go there, thats the main reason I havent broke up yet. But idk how to feel about being in a relationship for actual fun that I know wont last forever.

I know I deserve better than her but I also feel she deserves someone different to me, someone who cares more about her feelings and put her in his top 1 of priorities.

just break up with her and become a nomad

 

[pheenon]

I’m in this exact situation rn I feel u bro

 

[FrancoAgain]

not waaaaay out of her league but everybody told me I deserve better, looks and mental health wise.

What I mean with better is mostly someone healthier mentally and barely better looking, I could bag some girl worse looking if shes a virgin tho

id only say you deserve someone better if you are giving more input than the output you are receiving
do you get what i mean?
if you're giving your 100% to this girl and she is giving you her 50%, you deserve better

 

[AustrianMogger]

I really like my gf and I do love her, but I know shes not the type of girl I want to marry, she has so many mental disorders and a really awful past, not that high bc but more than 0 without counting yourself is TOO much to marry that girl.

I have a trip planned to brasil so atleast I want to go there, thats the main reason I havent broke up yet. But idk how to feel about being in a relationship for actual fun that I know wont last forever.

I know I deserve better than her but I also feel she deserves someone different to me, someone who cares more about her feelings and put her in his top 1 of priorities.

Creampie and impragnate her. After 4th child she will become clear

 

[Tenres]

I know Ill never wont be disgusted by the fact she was with another guy, so I dont want to live with that.

She has bpd, now you know its rs

Yeah then you shouldn't be with her. Your in a bad spot but you should just help her out and gradually split apart. Or just be a real nigga and break up with her but she might actually cause problems if u do that

 

[iblamexyz]

Its not like I care, I just dont know how okay it is to be with her knowing we will break up obe day and she thinks we will be together forever

brutal

dating to marry mogs rather than to slay

but you got to at least break things off with her after the hoilday bro

you can't give someone false hope

 

[Jatt]

mirin, could be the best advice possible

She will be begging for you to come back it will be a nice feeling

 

[NVM_Ignacio]

if its affecting you mentally cut it off put yourself first but if its all good just have fun dont take it to serious you realistically got 8 more years to find somone to settle down with, and teenage relationships work better when you are more laid back and "go with the flow" just surf it bro

okay ill think about it, thanks brah

 

[NVM_Ignacio]

I’m in this exact situation rn I feel u bro

yeah gl bro, I hope you make the right decisions

 

[NVM_Ignacio]

id only say you deserve someone better if you are giving more input than the output you are receiving
do you get what i mean?
if you're giving your 100% to this girl and she is giving you her 50%, you deserve better

I used to give my 100% but when I noticed she wasnt doing the same I backed up and now Im putting the same effort as her

 

[Jaxonc82]

okay ill think about it, thanks brah

whatever decision you make will be the right one, your young with time do what you feel you should do dont take anyone elses feelings into account.

 

[NVM_Ignacio]

Creampie and impragnate her. After 4th child she will become clear

I creampie her 5 times a week bro, Im actually trying

 

[NVM_Ignacio]

Yeah then you shouldn't be with her. Your in a bad spot but you should just help her out and gradually split apart. Or just be a real nigga and break up with her but she might actually cause problems if u do that

I atleast want to go to that trip to brasil to mog and take pics

But yeah after that Im deff breaking up

 

[NVM_Ignacio]

brutal

dating to marry mogs rather than to slay

but you got to at least break things off with her after the hoilday bro

you can't give someone false hope

yeah I was dating to marry her at the start, but when I found out I couldnt tolerate her last guy I lost hopes about it

 

[NVM_Ignacio]

She will be begging for you to come back it will be a nice feeling

Shes begs me now, I cant imagine what she would do If I broke up with her

 

[NVM_Ignacio]

whatever decision you make will be the right one, your young with time do what you feel you should do dont take anyone elses feelings into account.

Thanks for the advice bro

 

[FrancoAgain]

I used to give my 100% but when I noticed she wasnt doing the same I backed up and now Im putting the same effort as her

idk man it seems you have something going on and that you shouldn't listen to advice from strangers on the internet
try to work it out cuz breaking up is probably harder than you realize lol

I creampie her 5 times a week bro, Im actually trying

how isnt she pregnant yet bro
its kinda funny how some couples try for months and have nothing and then two 14 year old teens have protected sex with a failed condom and get born triplets on a third world country

 

[AustrianMogger]

I creampie her 5 times a week bro, Im actually trying

My man.
Is she on pills or infertile?

 

[BR32]

Man thats a hard situation to be in.

I'm sorry

I hope you get through it alright

You're young and attractive I'm sure, you gonna be aight

 

[NVM_Ignacio]

idk man it seems you have something going on and that you shouldn't listen to advice from strangers on the internet
try to work it out cuz breaking up is probably harder than you realize lol

how isnt she pregnant yet bro
its kinda funny how some couples try for months and have nothing and then two 14 year old teens have protected sex with a failed condom and get born triplets on a third world country

I mean yeah I do smth going on but I cant stand her having fucked another guy before me, someone else taking her virginity and she also thought she would marry that guy, honestly disgusting how Im not her first anything. You dont understand how much it repulses me and enrages me to think about it.
I dont think I can take that more than 6 months

Idk we just pray for the best, and nothing has happened yet

 

[iblamexyz]

yeah I was dating to marry her at the start, but when I found out I couldnt tolerate her last guy I lost hopes about it

I don’t think it’s fair to judge someone based on their past, especially if it doesn’t fit your standards or beliefs.

And especially if someone wants to dig into your past mistakes, you wouldn’t like it either.

So if someone has been vulnerable with you and exposed that kind of history to you, I don’t think it’s fair to judge them for it.

But if you don’t feel like you can be with them, then you need to be honest about it.

 

[NVM_Ignacio]

My man.
Is she on pills or infertile?

Nope, we may just be lucky, but shes considering some birth control bc of the last 2 pregnancy scares.

 

[NVM_Ignacio]

Man thats a hard situation to be in.

I'm sorry

I hope you get through it alright

You're young and attractive I'm sure, you gonna be aight

Yeah I hope too

Thanks for the kind words

 

[NVM_Ignacio]

I don’t think it’s fair to judge someone based on their past, especially if it doesn’t fit your standards or beliefs.

And especially if someone wants to dig into your past mistakes, you wouldn’t like it either.

So if someone has been vulnerable with you and exposed that kind of history to you, I don’t think it’s fair to judge them for it.

But if you don’t feel like you can be with them, then you need to be honest about it.

Im aware about it, but its so disgusting to me. You dont get Ive been with her for a year now and Ive been trying this last 1 year to actually get that idea through me but I cant.

Its deff unacceptable for me a women whos not virgin, unless Im already 25 yo and I really like someone then it might be to late to go back but at 17yo I can get a 15yo whos virgin and marry her. Im aware its hard but its still possible

 

[iblamexyz]

Im aware about it, but its so disgusting to me. You dont get Ive been with her for a year now and Ive been trying this last 1 year to actually get that idea through me but I cant.

Its deff unacceptable for me a women whos not virgin, unless Im already 25 yo and I really like someone then it might be to late to go back but at 17yo I can get a 15yo whos virgin and marry her. Im aware its hard but its still possible

this has to be one of the worst copes, espically if you aren't a virgin urself which ur not

I don’t know if this comes from societal programming, It could also be porn.

But yeah, this is super low IQ, because statistically this is impossible.

And even if it is possible, then you’d have to go celibate right now.

You’d also have to be okay with your future partner not liking the fact that you’ve slept with people. Because if you can’t accept that for other partners, how can you accept it for other people?

So it’s just unfair.

You create a double standard, and then you get mad at things like hypergamy, when you’re actively adding to it.

 

[NVM_Ignacio]

this has to be one of the worst copes, espically if you aren't a virgin urself which ur not

I don’t know if this comes from societal programming, It could also be porn.

But yeah, this is super low IQ, because statistically this is impossible.

And even if it is possible, then you’d have to go celibate right now.

You’d also have to be okay with your future partner not liking the fact that you’ve slept with people. Because if you can’t accept that for other partners, how can you accept it for other people?

So it’s just unfair.

You create a double standard, and then you get mad at things like hypergamy, when you’re actively adding to it.

Porn is the creator of hookup culture so it would be the opposite

Also do you think its impossible to find a 15yo virgin? thats insane

 

[iblamexyz]

Porn is the creator of hookup culture so it would be the opposite

I wouldn't say so. It really depends on the categories that people are watching and the categories that are being fantasised.

things such as ''barely legal'' is always trending on any porn site ppl look for bl content only because she's meant to be a virigin

And let me agree with you for one second:

and say yeah, you’re right. Absolutely.

It doesn’t come from porn.
It comes from society and social media influence.

People like Andrew Tate have told men that you need a virgin. That if you don’t have a virgin, you’re useless as a man.

Obviously, I’m paraphrasing and not meaning that literally.

But that is what’s been instilled in people’s minds through social media

Also do you think its impossible to find a 15yo virgin? thats insane

Probably not ''impossible''

But you also have to confront the fact that if you tell a woman about your past, and you think you’re going to be shocked or offended if she tells you a higher number—or even a number—that reaction goes both ways.

As humans, it’s vice versa.

So that’s one factor.

And again, like I said, not ''impossible'' but, you know

when I was at school girls were like 12 n 14 losing their card and espically if you want a fogger or a looksmatch

she might be alr 'expried'

 

[Outlander]