Idk whether to break up with my gf or not

[5OuttaTen]

It’s starting to piss me off, I’ve been going over it with my therapist but still don’t have an answer. I feel like when I want to break up, my head finds reasons not to, and then when I don’t want to break up, my head finds reasons to break up.

My main issue is that my physical attraction has faded, I want a girl with a better body, I made a pros and cons list per my therapists recommendation but it didn’t really give me clarity.

Cons:

• Can’t go outside for many things due to agoraphobia
• Bad with money
• Fading attraction
• Lack of determination
• Unlikely to stick to gym routine
• Sometimes expects world to bend to her bpd and adhd, rather than finding ways for her to adapt
• Allows her friends to talk shit about me and airs out many one sided accounts of our arguments to them

Pros:

• Loving
• Loyal
• Engages in my interests
• Likes my company
• Same interests
• Same life goals

 

[Unknownchad666]

I would say to tell her about what you think and if she can change

 

[Scars]

man idk

 

[5OuttaTen]

man idk

Thanks bro this gave me a lot of clarity

 

[Softmax09]

if she has bpd it’s over anyways

 

[5OuttaTen]

I would say to tell her about what you think and if she can change

I did mention a lot of these things and they have improved, my main thing is just that physical attraction part. On one hand looks fade and I might regret leaving her when I’m old and with someone less loving and compatible, but on the other hand I’m only a young 5/10 slayer once in my life and want someone more physically my type

 

[5OuttaTen]

if she has bpd it’s over anyways

in 99% of cases including ones I’ve been in I’d agree

 

[Softmax09]

in 99% of cases including ones I’ve been in I’d agree

And in this one?

 

[5OuttaTen]

And in this one?

In this one I’d disagree, I realistically don’t see her leaving unless I cheat or something, even with a bad BPD split. Her BPD still definitely affects the relationship with jealousy and stuff but it’ll be more likely to make me leave than her

 

[Looksmax.meOg2019]

It’s starting to piss me off, I’ve been going over it with my therapist but still don’t have an answer. I feel like when I want to break up, my head finds reasons not to, and then when I don’t want to break up, my head finds reasons to break up.

My main issue is that my physical attraction has faded, I want a girl with a better body, I made a pros and cons list per my therapists recommendation but it didn’t really give me clarity.

Cons:

• Can’t go outside for many things due to agoraphobia
• Bad with money
• Fading attraction
• Lack of determination
• Unlikely to stick to gym routine
• Sometimes expects world to bend to her bpd and adhd, rather than finding ways for her to adapt
• Allows her friends to talk shit about me and airs out many one sided accounts of our arguments to them

Pros:

• Loving
• Loyal
• Engages in my interests
• Likes my company
• Same interests
• Same life goals

Love doesn’t exist it’s just biological dophamine, leave the bitch sooner or later she will leave you

 

[5OuttaTen]

Love doesn’t exist it’s just biological dophamine, leave the bitch sooner or later she will leave you

Well how does it not exist if you just named it as a physical thing? If I break up with someone its not gonna be out of fear that one day she’ll do it to me

 

[Looksmax.meOg2019]

Well how does it not exist if you just named it as a physical thing? If I break up with someone its not gonna be out of fear that one day she’ll do it to me

Reread this message and see how retarded it is, my message has no contradiction dophamine is a signal you can get it from petting a dog, their is no such thing as love do your own research before making more shitpost

 

[Softmax09]

Love doesn’t exist it’s just biological dophamine, leave the bitch sooner or later she will leave you

no shit stupid nigger

Only because it’s „biological dopamine“ (how can dopamine not be biological dumb fuck) doesn’t mean it’s not real

Retard

 

[5OuttaTen]

Reread this message and see how retarded it is, my message has no contradiction dophamine is a signal you can get it from petting a dog, their is no such thing as love do your own research before making more shitpost

If it’s an emotion I feel and an action I take then it’s real enough for me, by that logic happiness and anger aren’t real but we still all experience them. Nurturing a relationship and being excited to have my person are some of my greatest pleasures in life, plenty of couples spend their lives together and die together so that makes love real enough for my needs

 

[Looksmax.meOg2019]

If it’s an emotion I feel and an action I take then it’s real enough for me, by that logic happiness and anger aren’t real but we still all experience them. Nurturing a relationship and being excited to have my person are some of my greatest pleasures in life, plenty of couples spend their lives together and die together so that makes love real enough for my needs

So by your logic your comparing emotions that’s based of Your emotional intelligence, and normal IQ
is proof that if such emotion exists then love can also exist which has no correlation since love isn’t a emotion

 

[5OuttaTen]

So by your logic your comparing emotions that’s based of Your emotional intelligence, and normal IQ
is proof that if such emotion exists then love can also exist which has no correlation since love isn’t a emotion

 

[Looksmax.meOg2019]

no shit stupid nigger

Only because it’s „biological dopamine“ (how can dopamine not be biological dumb fuck) doesn’t mean it’s not real

Retard

You purchased a upgrade on a incel forum and you have TT as your pfp your an embarrassment
Reread your sentence and see if it makes sense, jump off a bridge for being so low intelligent, shoot your slef and spit on your mother for not aborting you and having such a autist child

 

[Softmax09]

Reread this message and see how retarded it is, my message has no contradiction dophamine is a signal you can get it from petting a dog, their is no such thing as love do your own research before making more shitpost

Niggers like you never spent a second thinking about what „real love“ would be, if it isn’t just chemical reactions

 

[Softmax09]

So by your logic your comparing emotions that’s based of Your emotional intelligence, and normal IQ
is proof that if such emotion exists then love can also exist which has no correlation since love isn’t a emotion

Actually kill yourself you’re so low IQ it hurts

 

[Looksmax.meOg2019]

Niggers like you never spent a second thinking about what „real love“ would be, if it isn’t just chemical reactions

“Niggers” -
Every sentence you write, is more evidence Of your low intelligence, end your life Tera faggot

 

[5OuttaTen]

Mfw I make a thread to try and get some clarity on a situation and it turns into a debate on the semantics of if love is real

 

[Softmax09]

“Niggers” -
Every sentence you write, is more evidence Of your low intelligence, end your life Tera faggot

Bring up an argument

 

[Softmax09]

Mfw I make a thread to try and get some clarity on a situation and it turns into a debate on the semantics of if love is real

Yh Yh just break up with her if she’s fat

 

[Looksmax.meOg2019]

Bring up an argument

English is obviously not your first language, your a retard cornball worshiping another man as your pfp,
love can be explained through biological systemsdopamine and the brain’s reward circuitry drive attraction and motivation, oxytocin and vasopressin contribute to bonding and attachment, and sex hormones contribute to sexual attraction.
You want to Accept love makes sense after spewing your Low iq genetic faggotery kill your self it’s obviously you never experienced a touch of a woman being in a 3rd world country

 

[Looksmax.meOg2019]

Mfw I make a thread to try and get some clarity on a situation and it turns into a debate on the semantics of if love is real

Because your a moral cumslut retard who Relives in the idea of destiny and supernatural

 

[5OuttaTen]

English is obviously not your first language, your a retard cornball worshiping another man as your pfp,
love can be explained through biological systemsdopamine and the brain’s reward circuitry drive attraction and motivation, oxytocin and vasopressin contribute to bonding and attachment, and sex hormones contribute to sexual attraction.
You want to Accept love makes sense after spewing your Low iq genetic faggotery kill your self it’s obviously you never experienced a touch of a woman being in a 3rd world country

 

[5OuttaTen]

Because your a moral cumslut retard who Relives in the idea of destiny and supernatural

When was destiny or the supernatural mentioned? Idk what you’re projecting onto this thread but all I talked about was relationship satisfaction

 

[Looksmax.meOg2019]

When was destiny or the supernatural mentioned? Idk what you’re projecting onto this thread but all I talked about was relationship satisfaction

 

[Looksmax.meOg2019]

When was destiny or the supernatural mentioned? Idk what you’re projecting onto this thread but all I talked about was relationship satisfaction

I’ve decided to doxx you because I hate retard like you that Spew low iq shit like this while having their face posted not knowing your face is connected to your account makes it self incriminating

 

[5OuttaTen]

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You are actually the most retarded user on this forum if you can’t tell that the point I was making in that thread was against Christianity, holy shit you are so autistic

 

[5OuttaTen]

I’ve decided to doxx you because I hate retard like you that Spew low iq shit like this while having their face posted not knowing your face is connected to your account makes it self incriminating

Who spew low iq shit like mentioning that I didn’t mention the supernatural

 

[Softmax09]

English is obviously not your first language, your a retard cornball worshiping another man as your pfp

Doesn’t matter at all, just another sign of your low iq

love can be explained through biological systemsdopamine and the brain’s reward circuitry drive attraction and motivation, oxytocin and vasopressin contribute to bonding and attachment, and sex hormones contribute to sexual attraction.

that still doesn’t make it less real you’re actually just retarded and mad because you never felt love and will never feel it

obviously you never experienced a touch of a woman being in a 3rd world country

you can even see where I’m from you goddamn nigger

 

[Looksmax.meOg2019]

You are actually the most retarded user on this forum if you can’t tell that the point I was making in that thread was against Christianity, holy shit you are so autistic

THE IRONRY CALLING ME RETARDED, AFTER ALL YOUR POST ARE FUCKING GARBAGE

 

[devonhendryx999]

bpd

 

[Lefty Rankin]

It’s starting to piss me off, I’ve been going over it with my therapist but still don’t have an answer. I feel like when I want to break up, my head finds reasons not to, and then when I don’t want to break up, my head finds reasons to break up.

My main issue is that my physical attraction has faded, I want a girl with a better body, I made a pros and cons list per my therapists recommendation but it didn’t really give me clarity.

Cons:

• Can’t go outside for many things due to agoraphobia
• Bad with money
• Fading attraction
• Lack of determination
• Unlikely to stick to gym routine
• Sometimes expects world to bend to her bpd and adhd, rather than finding ways for her to adapt
• Allows her friends to talk shit about me and airs out many one sided accounts of our arguments to them

Pros:

• Loving
• Loyal
• Engages in my interests
• Likes my company
• Same interests
• Same life goals

Dude, ditch the fucking therapist.

Anyways wanting a girl with a better body is all you need to know.

Break up with her.

 

[Looksmax.meOg2019]

Doesn’t matter at all, just another sign of your low iq

that still doesn’t make it less real you’re actually just retarded and mad because you never felt love and will never feel it

you can even see where I’m from you goddamn nigger

LMFAOAOAO FROM YOUR RESPONSE YOU CONTRADICTED YOURSELF, YOU JUST SELF INCRIMINATED YOURSELF FROM BEING A RETARD 3RD WORLD COUNTRY FAGGOT NON ENGLISH RETARD

 

[5OuttaTen]

THE IRONRY CALLING ME RETARDED, AFTER ALL YOUR POST ARE FUCKING GARBAGE

brother look at your rep ratio

 

[recessed62]

i have a similar situation rn, could you maybe tell me how long yall been together?

 

[5OuttaTen]

Dude, ditch the fucking therapist.

Anyways wanting a girl with a better body is all you need to know.

Break up with her.

My therapist is actually pretty good just this is something I don’t know that she can help me with. I guess you are right tho maybe I am over complicating this whole thing

 

[Looksmax.meOg2019]

Who spew low iq shit like mentioning that I didn’t mention the supernatural

Reread your message, why do retards like you Even try to date you should stop your bloodline from reproducing since your so genetically a faliure and low iq birthing a child would be a crime against them

 

[Softmax09]

LMFAOAOAO FROM YOUR RESPONSE YOU CONTRADICTED YOURSELF, YOU JUST SELF INCRIMINATED YOURSELF FROM BEING A RETARD 3RD WORLD COUNTRY FAGGOT NON ENGLISH RETARD

Im from Germany and I never said English is my first language BUT IT DOESNT MATTER YOU STUPID FUCKING RETARD

 

[5OuttaTen]

i have a similar situation rn, could you maybe tell me how long yall been together?

Just under 2 years bro, if u want we can talk in PMs and maybe get some clarity without Sheldon Cooper over here polluting the thread by listing off the periodic table

 

[Looksmax.meOg2019]

brother look at your rep ratio

YOU CARE ABOUT PTR LMFAOOOOO YOU JUST PROVED YOUR LOW IQ
Post count and rep are completely circular metrics. You post more → you get more rep → people use that rep as evidence that you’re important → repeat. None of it has any value outside the forum.

 

[Looksmax.meOg2019]

Im from Germany and I never said English is my first language BUT IT DOESNT MATTER YOU STUPID FUCKING RETARD

LMFOAOAOAOA SO YOUR A SKINNY CUMSKIN NIGGA SPAMMING THE HARD R AFTER SOME NIGGA RAPED OR BULLIED YOU AND YOUR FROM GERMANY SHITASS COUNTRY THANK GOD THE JEWS CAN SPIT ON YOUR LOW ECONOMIC COUNTRY

 

[Lefty Rankin]

My therapist is actually pretty good just this is something I don’t know that she can help me with. I guess you are right tho maybe I am over complicating this whole thing

Your therapist might be good but therapy itself is no good. Not at all.

 

[Looksmax.meOg2019]

Just under 2 years bro, if u want we can talk in PMs and maybe get some clarity without Sheldon Cooper over here polluting the thread by listing off the periodic table

LMFAOAOA NIGGA SAID SHELDON COOPER AS A INSULT
“Sheldon cooper” -
YOUR A BURGER NIGGA

 

[recessed62]

Just under 2 years bro, if u want we can talk in PMs and maybe get some clarity without Sheldon Cooper over here polluting the thread by listing off the periodic table

sure js message me, im in school rn tho (may not be able to answer immediately)

 

[5OuttaTen]

Your therapist might be good but therapy itself is no good. Not at all.

Why not? In my experience I feel like its been able to help me manage anxiety and other emotions pretty well

 

[jf8]

It’s starting to piss me off, I’ve been going over it with my therapist but still don’t have an answer. I feel like when I want to break up, my head finds reasons not to, and then when I don’t want to break up, my head finds reasons to break up.

My main issue is that my physical attraction has faded, I want a girl with a better body, I made a pros and cons list per my therapists recommendation but it didn’t really give me clarity.

Cons:

• Can’t go outside for many things due to agoraphobia
• Bad with money
• Fading attraction
• Lack of determination
• Unlikely to stick to gym routine
• Sometimes expects world to bend to her bpd and adhd, rather than finding ways for her to adapt
• Allows her friends to talk shit about me and airs out many one sided accounts of our arguments to them

Pros:

• Loving
• Loyal
• Engages in my interests
• Likes my company
• Same interests
• Same life goals

she has bpd break up now

 

[LeonardMariana]

It’s starting to piss me off, I’ve been going over it with my therapist but still don’t have an answer. I feel like when I want to break up, my head finds reasons not to, and then when I don’t want to break up, my head finds reasons to break up.

My main issue is that my physical attraction has faded, I want a girl with a better body, I made a pros and cons list per my therapists recommendation but it didn’t really give me clarity.

Cons:

• Can’t go outside for many things due to agoraphobia
• Bad with money
• Fading attraction
• Lack of determination
• Unlikely to stick to gym routine
• Sometimes expects world to bend to her bpd and adhd, rather than finding ways for her to adapt
• Allows her friends to talk shit about me and airs out many one sided accounts of our arguments to them

Pros:

• Loving
• Loyal
• Engages in my interests
• Likes my company
• Same interests
• Same life goals

Cooked tbh. You need attraction in a relationship