idk who needs to hear this but people do not approach you just for being attractive

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ive ascended a decent bit from puberty and skincare combined with other niche shit and am now like hmtn but genuinely nobody besides people i know talk to me in the school halls, not women or even other guys, and i know some random is gonna say “oh well you’re not hmtn then” have you ever like considered killing yourself retard?

i was thinking about this brad pitt interview or whoever it was that said looks just open gates, and honestly that is all they really do but it’s kinda like that is everything, opportunities. you can have an opportunity and be too autistic to take it because you were treated like you never had one most of ur puberty because you genuinely didn’t lol

when i was like a lmtn/mmtn and had acne + acted more like my nd self (i was just shyer) i actually got approached more by random people (women not included) which is weird because i looked significantly worse yet i was more approachable? i am only 1 inch taller than i was back then, i am not intimidating by any means i genuinely dont understand

obviously the difference between hmtn and lhtn is significant but im pretty close to it to see how i would be treated as lhtn, i genuinely think i would be even more alone

think about it though if you’re walking down the hallway ur probably not gonna talk to a random, and if you do it’s definitely not an lhtn who you would assume many people “approach” already, if you even think about doing it, lhtns aren’t even that crazy to see people just walk by them they see them daily on tiktok

i have heard girls in the school halls whisper the same compliments to each other and giggle(i can tell bc they always talk abt my eyes) when i walk by but never do they go up to you, i am ND as fuck so i just do nothing and deep down a part of me still thinks they’re laughing at me for being ugly because i hit puberty late and was fat so that’s genuinely something people would’ve done

this kinda made me social status / ntpilled, unless you’re like CL+ or have insane appeal as an htn no one cares about you enough to go up to you, they expect that you know everything, again im only hmtn but i am getting there and have kinda experienced this firsthand

again this is like max level complaining most nt people would just talk and boom somehow u have social status but it is not that simple, if i go to a social event like a party of some sort people come up to me, not much but i think more than average (guys and girls)

i feel like this kinda concludes my realization, the better looking you are past lmtn until u are like model tier or htn w crazy appeal makes you less approachable because people assume you already have friends social status etc and do not care
 
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Not one
 
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Nigga thinks being HMTN makes him "attractive" :feelskek: you have no idea what it's like to be truly attractive so why speak on it? When we talk about getting approached for looks we're talking about CLs and Chads not fucking normies lmao.
 
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Nigga thinks being HMTN makes him "attractive" :feelskek: you have no idea what it's like to be truly attractive so why speak on it? When we talk about getting approached for looks we're talking about CLs and Chads not fucking normies lmao.
 
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Nigga thinks being HMTN makes him "attractive" :feelskek: you have no idea what it's like to be truly attractive so why speak on it? When we talk about getting approached for looks we're talking about CLs and Chads not fucking normies lmao.
wow 2% of the population such blackpill so brooootal
 
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I get approached on a weekly basis when I go out with my cousins or friends to a bar or club.

MTN problems nigga
 
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I get approached on a weekly basis when I go out with my cousins or friends to a bar or club.

MTN problems nigga
i said if i go to a party or some sorta event like that i get approached often
 
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wow 2% of the population such blackpill so brooootal
Haha wow that was so funny bro you made me laugh with that one, where'd you learn that? TikTok perhaps? Kill yourself normie
 
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sorry but
 
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Yeah not reading one molecule of this shit, no offense,
 
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They actually do but it's rare and I'm not even that good looking. 90% of women that find you attractive will not show it anyway
 
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They actually do but it's rare and I'm not even that good looking. 90% of women that find you attractive will not show it anyway
Yeah its interesting I thought they would but they really dont. Mind expanding on this thought. Thats very curious insight u've picked up
 
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Haha wow that was so funny bro you made me laugh with that one, where'd you learn that? TikTok perhaps? Kill yourself normie
i actually made it myself because it’s retarded to get mad at people who won the generic lottery, but keep coping i guess???
 
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They actually do but it's rare and I'm not even that good looking. 90% of women that find you attractive will not show it anyway
im too spergy for them to approach me, when im forced to talk to girls in my class for like elbow partner discussions they’re nice though, any actual convo i have with a woman is very easy and she doesn’t act like a bitch, sure she will joke or whatever laugh but yeah foids know their place around me i guess
 
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Attractive niggas will get approached. You may be hmtn or whatever but you aren't "attracting"
 
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i actually made it myself because it’s retarded to get mad at people who won the generic lottery, but keep coping i guess???
Buddy thinks being HMTN is winning the genetic lottery 🤣
 
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Because your mid tier normie
 
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Women do approach lol its just that most guys are too socially inept to gauge iois and think that women are
supposed to actually come up to them and start a convo or ask for their socials etc which is not how it works
unless you are a Celebrity or some other person with high Social Capital.

Rather what will usually happen if you are lets say a relatively attractive guy, good sex appeal etc , women will stare
at you ,linger in your vicinity ,speak louder to their friends etc etc then if none of these work they will get really
close to you basically softcore orbiting and the ting is that majority of men will not pick up on any of this and go
speak to the girl why? because they are scared of rejection or are just plain inept socially as I mentioned before

TLDR : Women do approach just indirectly
 
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Women dont approach rather they create opportunities for you to do so
 
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Did not read, snd i could tell you exactly what your post is abt without doing so too.
WATER
 
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Why don't they approach first?
Why do they expect male to approach them first?
Women dont approach rather they create opportunities for you to do so
 
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Buddy thinks being HMTN is winning the genetic lottery 🤣
as in the 2%… i am saying you are mad at chad but why
 
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as in the 2%… i am saying you are mad at chad but why
What kind of a question is this? It should be human nature to hate the more attractive human because they will be more reproductively successful than you and thus remind you that you are a genetic failure.
 
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What kind of a question is this? It should be human nature to hate the more attractive human because they will be more reproductively successful than you and thus remind you that you are a genetic failure.
life isn’t that serious
 
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Women do approach lol its just that most guys are too socially inept to gauge iois and think that women are
supposed to actually come up to them and start a convo or ask for their socials etc which is not how it works
unless you are a Celebrity or some other person with high Social Capital.

Rather what will usually happen if you are lets say a relatively attractive guy, good sex appeal etc , women will stare
at you ,linger in your vicinity ,speak louder to their friends etc etc then if none of these work they will get really
close to you basically softcore orbiting and the ting is that majority of men will not pick up on any of this and go
speak to the girl why? because they are scared of rejection or are just plain inept socially as I mentioned before

TLDR : Women do approach just indirectly
i just suck at picking up social cues 😢
 
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Ofc they do
 
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You get much more smiles, long stares and some women ask you about weird shit which you can turn into conversation. Ugly/average guys don't get this kind of treatment. You must be chad for girls to approach you directly and they are always 100% sluts.
 
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Women do approach lol its just that most guys are too socially inept to gauge iois and think that women are
supposed to actually come up to them and start a convo or ask for their socials etc which is not how it works
unless you are a Celebrity or some other person with high Social Capital.

Rather what will usually happen if you are lets say a relatively attractive guy, good sex appeal etc , women will stare
at you ,linger in your vicinity ,speak louder to their friends etc etc then if none of these work they will get really
close to you basically softcore orbiting and the ting is that majority of men will not pick up on any of this and go
speak to the girl why? because they are scared of rejection or are just plain inept socially as I mentioned before

TLDR : Women do approach just indirectly
Rarely they will also directly approach too but it's pretty rare unless you're gigachad (even then it's not common)
 
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Rarely they will also directly approach too but it's pretty rare unless you're gigachad (even then it's not common)
ALSO THE WOMEN WHO APPROACH THEM WON'T BE THAT GOOD

A STACY NEVER APPROACHES
 
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some people are easier to approach than others

for instance, if you're looking lost - somebody extraverted may approach you to ask whether you need help
also people approach more in environments where it's normal (first day of any group activity, school, uni, clubs etc)
 
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Rather what will usually happen if you are lets say a relatively attractive guy, good sex appeal etc , women will stare
at you ,linger in your vicinity ,speak louder to their friends etc
This exactly. I consider this to be an approach by her btw. Even if you have to be the one to actually strike up the conversation.

Though when girls have a bit of alcohol in their system, they tend to be more low inhib and shout out something like "Omg you're so hot!"
 
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i see ur problem now u think bccn and mtn are the same thing theyre not lmao but i guess since youre just another normie none of this really matters anyways so congrats on ascending from puberty u almost there fr
 
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ive ascended a decent bit from puberty and skincare combined with other niche shit and am now like hmtn but genuinely nobody besides people i know talk to me in the school halls, not women or even other guys, and i know some random is gonna say “oh well you’re not hmtn then” have you ever like considered killing yourself retard?

i was thinking about this brad pitt interview or whoever it was that said looks just open gates, and honestly that is all they really do but it’s kinda like that is everything, opportunities. you can have an opportunity and be too autistic to take it because you were treated like you never had one most of ur puberty because you genuinely didn’t lol

when i was like a lmtn/mmtn and had acne + acted more like my nd self (i was just shyer) i actually got approached more by random people (women not included) which is weird because i looked significantly worse yet i was more approachable? i am only 1 inch taller than i was back then, i am not intimidating by any means i genuinely dont understand

obviously the difference between hmtn and lhtn is significant but im pretty close to it to see how i would be treated as lhtn, i genuinely think i would be even more alone

think about it though if you’re walking down the hallway ur probably not gonna talk to a random, and if you do it’s definitely not an lhtn who you would assume many people “approach” already, if you even think about doing it, lhtns aren’t even that crazy to see people just walk by them they see them daily on tiktok

i have heard girls in the school halls whisper the same compliments to each other and giggle(i can tell bc they always talk abt my eyes) when i walk by but never do they go up to you, i am ND as fuck so i just do nothing and deep down a part of me still thinks they’re laughing at me for being ugly because i hit puberty late and was fat so that’s genuinely something people would’ve done

this kinda made me social status / ntpilled, unless you’re like CL+ or have insane appeal as an htn no one cares about you enough to go up to you, they expect that you know everything, again im only hmtn but i am getting there and have kinda experienced this firsthand

again this is like max level complaining most nt people would just talk and boom somehow u have social status but it is not that simple, if i go to a social event like a party of some sort people come up to me, not much but i think more than average (guys and girls)

i feel like this kinda concludes my realization, the better looking you are past lmtn until u are like model tier or htn w crazy appeal makes you less approachable because people assume you already have friends social status etc and do not care
annoying ass yapping
 
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ive ascended a decent bit from puberty and skincare combined with other niche shit and am now like hmtn but genuinely nobody besides people i know talk to me in the school halls, not women or even other guys, and i know some random is gonna say “oh well you’re not hmtn then” have you ever like considered killing yourself retard?

i was thinking about this brad pitt interview or whoever it was that said looks just open gates, and honestly that is all they really do but it’s kinda like that is everything, opportunities. you can have an opportunity and be too autistic to take it because you were treated like you never had one most of ur puberty because you genuinely didn’t lol

when i was like a lmtn/mmtn and had acne + acted more like my nd self (i was just shyer) i actually got approached more by random people (women not included) which is weird because i looked significantly worse yet i was more approachable? i am only 1 inch taller than i was back then, i am not intimidating by any means i genuinely dont understand

obviously the difference between hmtn and lhtn is significant but im pretty close to it to see how i would be treated as lhtn, i genuinely think i would be even more alone

think about it though if you’re walking down the hallway ur probably not gonna talk to a random, and if you do it’s definitely not an lhtn who you would assume many people “approach” already, if you even think about doing it, lhtns aren’t even that crazy to see people just walk by them they see them daily on tiktok

i have heard girls in the school halls whisper the same compliments to each other and giggle(i can tell bc they always talk abt my eyes) when i walk by but never do they go up to you, i am ND as fuck so i just do nothing and deep down a part of me still thinks they’re laughing at me for being ugly because i hit puberty late and was fat so that’s genuinely something people would’ve done

this kinda made me social status / ntpilled, unless you’re like CL+ or have insane appeal as an htn no one cares about you enough to go up to you, they expect that you know everything, again im only hmtn but i am getting there and have kinda experienced this firsthand

again this is like max level complaining most nt people would just talk and boom somehow u have social status but it is not that simple, if i go to a social event like a party of some sort people come up to me, not much but i think more than average (guys and girls)

i feel like this kinda concludes my realization, the better looking you are past lmtn until u are like model tier or htn w crazy appeal makes you less approachable because people assume you already have friends social status etc and do not care
yes they do
 
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ive ascended a decent bit from puberty and skincare combined with other niche shit and am now like hmtn but genuinely nobody besides people i know talk to me in the school halls, not women or even other guys, and i know some random is gonna say “oh well you’re not hmtn then” have you ever like considered killing yourself retard?

i was thinking about this brad pitt interview or whoever it was that said looks just open gates, and honestly that is all they really do but it’s kinda like that is everything, opportunities. you can have an opportunity and be too autistic to take it because you were treated like you never had one most of ur puberty because you genuinely didn’t lol

when i was like a lmtn/mmtn and had acne + acted more like my nd self (i was just shyer) i actually got approached more by random people (women not included) which is weird because i looked significantly worse yet i was more approachable? i am only 1 inch taller than i was back then, i am not intimidating by any means i genuinely dont understand

obviously the difference between hmtn and lhtn is significant but im pretty close to it to see how i would be treated as lhtn, i genuinely think i would be even more alone

think about it though if you’re walking down the hallway ur probably not gonna talk to a random, and if you do it’s definitely not an lhtn who you would assume many people “approach” already, if you even think about doing it, lhtns aren’t even that crazy to see people just walk by them they see them daily on tiktok

i have heard girls in the school halls whisper the same compliments to each other and giggle(i can tell bc they always talk abt my eyes) when i walk by but never do they go up to you, i am ND as fuck so i just do nothing and deep down a part of me still thinks they’re laughing at me for being ugly because i hit puberty late and was fat so that’s genuinely something people would’ve done

this kinda made me social status / ntpilled, unless you’re like CL+ or have insane appeal as an htn no one cares about you enough to go up to you, they expect that you know everything, again im only hmtn but i am getting there and have kinda experienced this firsthand

again this is like max level complaining most nt people would just talk and boom somehow u have social status but it is not that simple, if i go to a social event like a party of some sort people come up to me, not much but i think more than average (guys and girls)

i feel like this kinda concludes my realization, the better looking you are past lmtn until u are like model tier or htn w crazy appeal makes you less approachable because people assume you already have friends social status etc and do not care.
HTN marks the end of invisibility.
Chadlite marks the beginning of supervisibility.
Chad is hypervisibilty.
 
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ive ascended a decent bit from puberty and skincare combined with other niche shit and am now like hmtn but genuinely nobody besides people i know talk to me in the school halls, not women or even other guys, and i know some random is gonna say “oh well you’re not hmtn then” have you ever like considered killing yourself retard?

i was thinking about this brad pitt interview or whoever it was that said looks just open gates, and honestly that is all they really do but it’s kinda like that is everything, opportunities. you can have an opportunity and be too autistic to take it because you were treated like you never had one most of ur puberty because you genuinely didn’t lol

when i was like a lmtn/mmtn and had acne + acted more like my nd self (i was just shyer) i actually got approached more by random people (women not included) which is weird because i looked significantly worse yet i was more approachable? i am only 1 inch taller than i was back then, i am not intimidating by any means i genuinely dont understand

obviously the difference between hmtn and lhtn is significant but im pretty close to it to see how i would be treated as lhtn, i genuinely think i would be even more alone

think about it though if you’re walking down the hallway ur probably not gonna talk to a random, and if you do it’s definitely not an lhtn who you would assume many people “approach” already, if you even think about doing it, lhtns aren’t even that crazy to see people just walk by them they see them daily on tiktok

i have heard girls in the school halls whisper the same compliments to each other and giggle(i can tell bc they always talk abt my eyes) when i walk by but never do they go up to you, i am ND as fuck so i just do nothing and deep down a part of me still thinks they’re laughing at me for being ugly because i hit puberty late and was fat so that’s genuinely something people would’ve done

this kinda made me social status / ntpilled, unless you’re like CL+ or have insane appeal as an htn no one cares about you enough to go up to you, they expect that you know everything, again im only hmtn but i am getting there and have kinda experienced this firsthand

again this is like max level complaining most nt people would just talk and boom somehow u have social status but it is not that simple, if i go to a social event like a party of some sort people come up to me, not much but i think more than average (guys and girls)

i feel like this kinda concludes my realization, the better looking you are past lmtn until u are like model tier or htn w crazy appeal makes you less approachable because people assume you already have friends social status etc and do not care
I've had the same experience too.
 
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ive ascended a decent bit from puberty and skincare combined with other niche shit and am now like hmtn but genuinely nobody besides people i know talk to me in the school halls, not women or even other guys, and i know some random is gonna say “oh well you’re not hmtn then” have you ever like considered killing yourself retard?

i was thinking about this brad pitt interview or whoever it was that said looks just open gates, and honestly that is all they really do but it’s kinda like that is everything, opportunities. you can have an opportunity and be too autistic to take it because you were treated like you never had one most of ur puberty because you genuinely didn’t lol

when i was like a lmtn/mmtn and had acne + acted more like my nd self (i was just shyer) i actually got approached more by random people (women not included) which is weird because i looked significantly worse yet i was more approachable? i am only 1 inch taller than i was back then, i am not intimidating by any means i genuinely dont understand

obviously the difference between hmtn and lhtn is significant but im pretty close to it to see how i would be treated as lhtn, i genuinely think i would be even more alone

think about it though if you’re walking down the hallway ur probably not gonna talk to a random, and if you do it’s definitely not an lhtn who you would assume many people “approach” already, if you even think about doing it, lhtns aren’t even that crazy to see people just walk by them they see them daily on tiktok

i have heard girls in the school halls whisper the same compliments to each other and giggle(i can tell bc they always talk abt my eyes) when i walk by but never do they go up to you, i am ND as fuck so i just do nothing and deep down a part of me still thinks they’re laughing at me for being ugly because i hit puberty late and was fat so that’s genuinely something people would’ve done

this kinda made me social status / ntpilled, unless you’re like CL+ or have insane appeal as an htn no one cares about you enough to go up to you, they expect that you know everything, again im only hmtn but i am getting there and have kinda experienced this firsthand

again this is like max level complaining most nt people would just talk and boom somehow u have social status but it is not that simple, if i go to a social event like a party of some sort people come up to me, not much but i think more than average (guys and girls)

i feel like this kinda concludes my realization, the better looking you are past lmtn until u are like model tier or htn w crazy appeal makes you less approachable because people assume you already have friends social status etc and do not care
They just are scared of good looking guys
 
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i have heard girls in the school halls whisper the same compliments to each other and giggle(i can tell bc they always talk abt my eyes) when i walk by
Tales from Papua New Guinea
 
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I get approached by girls I don't know maybe 1-2 times a month
 
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ive ascended a decent bit from puberty and skincare combined with other niche shit and am now like hmtn but genuinely nobody besides people i know talk to me in the school halls, not women or even other guys, and i know some random is gonna say “oh well you’re not hmtn then” have you ever like considered killing yourself retard?

i was thinking about this brad pitt interview or whoever it was that said looks just open gates, and honestly that is all they really do but it’s kinda like that is everything, opportunities. you can have an opportunity and be too autistic to take it because you were treated like you never had one most of ur puberty because you genuinely didn’t lol

when i was like a lmtn/mmtn and had acne + acted more like my nd self (i was just shyer) i actually got approached more by random people (women not included) which is weird because i looked significantly worse yet i was more approachable? i am only 1 inch taller than i was back then, i am not intimidating by any means i genuinely dont understand

obviously the difference between hmtn and lhtn is significant but im pretty close to it to see how i would be treated as lhtn, i genuinely think i would be even more alone

think about it though if you’re walking down the hallway ur probably not gonna talk to a random, and if you do it’s definitely not an lhtn who you would assume many people “approach” already, if you even think about doing it, lhtns aren’t even that crazy to see people just walk by them they see them daily on tiktok

i have heard girls in the school halls whisper the same compliments to each other and giggle(i can tell bc they always talk abt my eyes) when i walk by but never do they go up to you, i am ND as fuck so i just do nothing and deep down a part of me still thinks they’re laughing at me for being ugly because i hit puberty late and was fat so that’s genuinely something people would’ve done

this kinda made me social status / ntpilled, unless you’re like CL+ or have insane appeal as an htn no one cares about you enough to go up to you, they expect that you know everything, again im only hmtn but i am getting there and have kinda experienced this firsthand

again this is like max level complaining most nt people would just talk and boom somehow u have social status but it is not that simple, if i go to a social event like a party of some sort people come up to me, not much but i think more than average (guys and girls)

i feel like this kinda concludes my realization, the better looking you are past lmtn until u are like model tier or htn w crazy appeal makes you less approachable because people assume you already have friends social status etc and do not care
Dnr,i used to be subhuman and had no friends or female attention

Now im hmtn and have friends and female attention
 
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ive ascended a decent bit from puberty and skincare combined with other niche shit and am now like hmtn but genuinely nobody besides people i know talk to me in the school halls, not women or even other guys, and i know some random is gonna say “oh well you’re not hmtn then” have you ever like considered killing yourself retard?

i was thinking about this brad pitt interview or whoever it was that said looks just open gates, and honestly that is all they really do but it’s kinda like that is everything, opportunities. you can have an opportunity and be too autistic to take it because you were treated like you never had one most of ur puberty because you genuinely didn’t lol

when i was like a lmtn/mmtn and had acne + acted more like my nd self (i was just shyer) i actually got approached more by random people (women not included) which is weird because i looked significantly worse yet i was more approachable? i am only 1 inch taller than i was back then, i am not intimidating by any means i genuinely dont understand

obviously the difference between hmtn and lhtn is significant but im pretty close to it to see how i would be treated as lhtn, i genuinely think i would be even more alone

think about it though if you’re walking down the hallway ur probably not gonna talk to a random, and if you do it’s definitely not an lhtn who you would assume many people “approach” already, if you even think about doing it, lhtns aren’t even that crazy to see people just walk by them they see them daily on tiktok

i have heard girls in the school halls whisper the same compliments to each other and giggle(i can tell bc they always talk abt my eyes) when i walk by but never do they go up to you, i am ND as fuck so i just do nothing and deep down a part of me still thinks they’re laughing at me for being ugly because i hit puberty late and was fat so that’s genuinely something people would’ve done

this kinda made me social status / ntpilled, unless you’re like CL+ or have insane appeal as an htn no one cares about you enough to go up to you, they expect that you know everything, again im only hmtn but i am getting there and have kinda experienced this firsthand

again this is like max level complaining most nt people would just talk and boom somehow u have social status but it is not that simple, if i go to a social event like a party of some sort people come up to me, not much but i think more than average (guys and girls)

i feel like this kinda concludes my realization, the better looking you are past lmtn until u are like model tier or htn w crazy appeal makes you less approachable because people assume you already have friends social status etc and do not care
larp, I am hmtn and I've been approached quite a few times keep coping greycel
 
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larp, I am hmtn and I've been approached quite a few times keep coping greycel
i’ve been approached since this thread was made but she was ltb, i’ll continue coping i guess
 
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