If i get a justified feeling that my girl is lying or cheating on me once - its over for the relationship

[Lust]

Thats probably my BPD type of thing. But like every time this happens, when there is like some supporting facts that she couldve possibly lied to me about something, i just immediately lose almost all love interest and all trust. I start seeing the person from someone really good to someone i hate.

After this the relationship cannot recover for me - i will have trust issues, overthinking and everything and that drives me insane to the point where i want to cause harm to the person by cheating on her or making her feel paranoid about me leaving them or using them.

Already had one relationship while i was unexperienced and trust me its hell, you basically keep looking for slightest details or anything.

 

[lowiqmanlet]

water

 

[Youngjohn77]

water

 

[Elf]

Thats probably my BPD type of thing. But like every time this happens, when there is like some supporting facts that she couldve possibly lied to me about something, i just immediately lose almost all love interest and all trust. I start seeing the person from someone really good to someone i hate.

After this the relationship cannot recover for me - i will have trust issues, overthinking and everything and that drives me insane to the point where i want to cause harm to the person by cheating on her or making her feel paranoid about me leaving them or using them.

Already had one relationship while i was unexperienced and trust me its hell, you basically keep looking for slightest details or anything.

dont be a schizo and find out the truth

 

[Deleted member 287651]

unfortunately, this is legit. as a lawyer who has seen hundreds of similar cases (these lead to sanctionable threats or violence all the time), it's 5-10% max of those where guys legit imagine signs of infidelity because they are insecure or something. 90% of the time, they just realized it's over