If you didn't build a social circle in school then you're royally fucked

[ifyouwannabemylover]

Had to realize this again today after seeing this girl's whatsapp chat history with all the group chats and shit. If you didn't build that while growing up then you're really screwed. You can ascend looks-wise, get pussy and start socializing best you can given your situation, but you'll still be fucked up and you'll always have this feeling of not belonging anywhere. I know I don't belong anywhere except on these forums with other guys who are fucked up like me. You can looksmax and fuck bitches and make your existence somewhat worthwhile, but even then you'll always be walking on eggshells with them trying to hide how screwed up you are. You can never be normal again.

Like HeedAndSucceed said: You can land the plane in a lake or something, but it's still going down.

It's over.

 

[Deleted member 23848]

You can ascend looks-wise, get pussy and start socializing best you can given your situation, but you'll still be fucked up and you'll always have this feeling of not belonging anywhere.

I had a social circle in HS yet still felt like this, although it took me a while to actually realize it.

The truth is that most of us aren't normal jfl.

 

[LiteralCaucasian]

Fuck I hate being quasi-Autistic

 

[aBetterMii]

NT pilled

 

[Deleted member 14693]

Bro this is cope.

Most people move in their lifetime and all manage to get a new social circle.

Accept you are just weird socially and stop creating all these copes XD

Most people don't have contact with their high school friendgroup anymore

 

[Deleted member 4362]

Dn rd. looks>

 

[ifyouwannabemylover]

Most people move in their lifetime and all manage to get a new social circle.

Most people don't have contact with their high school friendgroup anymore

I think we're living on different planets brah

 

[Allandro]

It's over.

 

[Splinter901]

I had friends in hs, I lost them and then went to college thinking I'd make friends and get a gf through them, 7 years later I never made a single friend nor developed any relationship at all not even as ''the guy you go to college with''. I tried making friends in bumble and buu but it's a waste of time, half of the men there are faggots looking to hook up and the other I don't even know y the fuck they are even there cuz they don't even bother in keeping the conversation alive it's always me talking.

 

[Deleted member 14693]

I think we're living on different planets brah

How? Till what age do you think highschool friend groups last. After school all take different paths in live and grow apart

 

[ifyouwannabemylover]

How? Till what age do you think highschool friend groups last. After school all take different paths in live and grow apart

I see that they pretty much last until people get married with kids

 

[Deleted member 23778]

I agree with the thought behind this thread but it still reads like defeatist garbage

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

How? Till what age do you think highschool friend groups last. After school all take different paths in live and grow apart

High school friends are like the one type Which tend to last for lofe

 

[Deleted member 14693]

High school friends are like the one type Which tend to last for lofe

High school FRIENDS.

You will keep in touch with 1 or two friends.

but the friend group will grow apart.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

High school FRIENDS.

You will keep in touch with 1 or two friends.

but the friend group will grow apart.

I still have my whole group and I’m 25

 

[444]

High school friends are like the one type Which tend to last for lofe

No they don't jfl what world do you live in

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

No they don't jfl what world do you live in

My dad still hangs out with his- obvs less regularly but still does

 

[Deleted member 23778]

My dad still hangs out with his- obvs less regularly but still does

Very different across generations

 

[Brian Peppers]

Not at all.

My brother migrated from UK to Canada, didn't know anybody upon arriving in Canada but got a GF within a month. Built a social circle through her friends that had partnered up.

 

[ifyouwannabemylover]

My brother migrated from UK to Canada, didn't know anybody upon arriving in Canada but got a GF within a month. Built a social circle through her friends that had partnered up.

why'd he move

 

[Deleted member 23778]

Not at all.

My brother migrated from UK to Canada, didn't know anybody upon arriving in Canada but got a GF within a month. Built a social circle through her friends that had partnered up.

Best way to do it honestly. Meet a girl and even if it doesn't work out, you're instantly in

 

[BoneDensity]

No they don't jfl what world do you live in

Friends from high school are much more likely to last a lifetime since for most people it's the last environment in which you spend extended periods of time together. It very unlikely you make deep friendships like that again after school because everyone is busy doing different shit.

 

[fukmylyf]

you can still build one, but imo it doesn't compare to the friends you make during childhood and adolescence. School is overrated though. My closest friends were kids who grew up on the same block. You just need to be in a situation where you can hang out everyday. Closest thing as an adult is living on campus at uni.

 

[444]

Friends from high school are much more likely to last a lifetime since for most people it's the last environment in which you spend extended periods of time together. It very unlikely you make deep friendships like that again after school because everyone is busy doing different shit.

How much extended time do they spend together in high school anyways? Most of the time you would be in class. After high school, many people move to different cities for university or work, I don't think there are many social circles that can survive that change. I feel like friends you meet working in your mid-late 20s would be the friends that last for life, as less people will move away at that point.

 

[fukmylyf]

How much extended time do they spend together in high school anyways? Most of the time you would be in class. After high school, many people move to different cities for university or work, I don't think there are many social circles that can survive that change. I feel like friends you meet working in your mid-late 20s would be the friends that last for life, as less people will move away at that point.

lol not even close dude. Those relationships are fleeting as hell. Most guys in particular are too busy with career shit and LTRs.

 

[444]

lol not even close dude. Those relationships are fleeting as hell. Most guys in particular are too busy with career shit and LTRs.

High school friendships literally never last get over it

 

[fukmylyf]

High school friendships literally never last get over it

maybe not for you, but they definitely do for most people. You're going to be very disappointed if you expect to make lifelong friends at work.

 

[Deleted member 2969]

Didn't had any social circles since elementary school.

 

[BoneDensity]

How much extended time do they spend in high school anyways?

What? When you're in school you hang out with friends all the time.

7h a day 5 days a week at the school, hours after school, weekends etc. At least 6 years of that and even more since you usually meet your pals in primary school.

This is during the most important time of your life when you live through first experiences , form your worldview, work towards common goals and don't have bullshit jobs to worry about.

Remember that by age 20 you've already lived half of your perceived lifetime. Most people are never put into an environment like that again.

 

[444]

but they definitely do for most people

They don't you just made that up

 

[SendMePicsToRate]

Had to realize this again today after seeing this girl's whatsapp chat history with all the group chats and shit. If you didn't build that while growing up then you're really screwed. You can ascend looks-wise, get pussy and start socializing best you can given your situation, but you'll still be fucked up and you'll always have this feeling of not belonging anywhere. I know I don't belong anywhere except on these forums with other guys who are fucked up like me. You can looksmax and fuck bitches and make your existence somewhat worthwhile, but even then you'll always be walking on eggshells with them trying to hide how screwed up you are. You can never be normal again.

Like HeedAndSucceed said: You can land the plane in a lake or something, but it's still going down.

It's over.

Never had that in school, more than easily gained it now, all it takes is looks and practice.

 

[444]

7h a day 5 days a week at the school

You spend 90% of that time in class not talking to each other or doing anything.

This is during the most important time of your life when you live through first experiences , form your worldview, work towards common goals and don't have bullshit jobs to worry about.

What's the difference between having a job and going to school? Don't schools give homework and shit? Work towards what common goals? Completing a book report? JFL

Remember that by age 20 you've already lived half of your perceived lifetime

What does that even mean? You have so many more unique experiences between 20-40 than 0-20, why would your life feel half over by 20? You might as well just kill yourself now, no seriously, kill yourself

 

[BearBoy]

In school I was known as the wrestling guy always and had respect from everyone else. To this day I have the friends and know a lot of people in my city

But at the end of the day I am a lone wolf

 

[Bojack]

I recall having friends growing up. Things went to shit right after highschool doh

 

[SendMePicsToRate]

What? When you're in school you hang out with friends all the time.

7h a day 5 days a week at the school, hours after school, weekends etc. At least 6 years of that and even more since you usually meet your pals in primary school.

This is during the most important time of your life when you live through first experiences , form your worldview, work towards common goals and don't have bullshit jobs to worry about.

Remember that by age 20 you've already lived half of your perceived lifetime. Most people are never put into an environment like that again.

You do not hang out with your friends all the time though, you are letting yourself fall into this stupid trap of thinking that you missed out on this magical experience which it really is not.

Phahahahhha most important part of your life, bitch please get a fucking grip. Your world views will change drastically after school, you know essentially nothing during that window, common goals in school like what??? jobs aren't even a stress and you have significantly more disposable income following school which is much more enjoyable.

Lmfao perceived lifetime... You mean having low sentience mate. You can find environments like that very easily you just have to know where to look.

 

[BoneDensity]

You spend 90% of that time in class not talking to each other or doing anything.

What's the difference between having a job and going to school? Don't schools give homework and shit? Work towards what common goals? Completing a book report? JFL

School is for social gatherings. You talk all the time, hang out after school , play sports together , run game on chicks together, try drugs for the first time, go to first parties etc.

You're telling me all you did in school was sit quietly, not talking to anyone? And after school you sat at home doing homework all the time?

Lol no wonder you're coping so hard here . You were the weirdo that couldn't make any friends in school !

What does that even mean? You have so many more unique experiences between 20-40 then 0-20

That means that any time you experience later on is perceived as shorter than if you were to experience it earlier. A year from 25-26 is relatively a smaller % of your overall life at that point than a year 12-13 and so on.

Its over for you , you can cope all you want because you squandered the best time of your life for making deep , lasting friendships. Have fun hanging out with Matt from accounting .

 

[itisoverboyos]

Instead of arguing over it just accept that it’s different not all schools are the same

 

[pardocel]

Jestermaxxing in middle school ruined my social life forever.

 

[BoneDensity]

You do not hang out with your friends all the time though, you are letting yourself fall into this stupid trap of thinking that you missed out on this magical experience which it really is not.

Maybe you didn't lol. I did and that's why I still have good mates from school. Your projection is cringe af.

 

[BoneDensity]

Lmfao perceived lifetime... You mean having low sentience mate. You can find environments like that very easily you just have to know where to look.

You are dumb af lol

That means that any time you experience later on is perceived as shorter than if you were to experience it earlier. A year from 25-26 is relatively a smaller % of your overall life at that point than a year 12-13 and so on.

 

[SendMePicsToRate]

You are dumb af lol

The thing you quoted literally just shows me it only effects people with low sentience you moron. That only makes sense if you think humans view all things as relativistic than as their own individual thing, it is a matter of perspective.

Maybe you didn't lol. I did and that's why I still have good mates from school. Your projection is cringe af.

So you will now be clinging onto that one bit of nostalgia for the rest of your life? please you are literally trying to argue that it is impressive you peaked at 16, yet are still on this website.

 

[444]

run game on chicks together

Yeah I just knew you were a stupid redpill bitch

You're telling me all you did in school was sit quietly, not talking to anyone? And after school you sat at home doing homework all the time?

Lol no wonder you're coping so hard here . You were the weirdo that couldn't make any friends in school !

JFL I didn't even go to high school and I still had lots of friends and an active social circle, which wrecks your entire argument to begin with. You sat in algebra class all day and tried to "run game" on some becky who probably hated your guts LOL it never began for you

That means that any time you experience later on is perceived as shorter than if you were to experience it earlier. A year from 25-26 is relatively a smaller % of your overall life at that point than a year 12-13 and so on.

You have the ability to have so many more unique/new experiences between 25-26 than 12-13, which matters a lot more in perceived time. Life in mid 20s is NOT any more monotonous than when you're a kid.

Its over for you , you can cope all you want because you squandered the best time of your life for making deep , lasting friendships.

How is it over for me? It's over for you. As you said, the best time of your life is OVER. You might as well end your life right now and kill yourself, you're not in high school anymore

Have fun hanging out with Matt from accounting .

JFL you know your friends from high school will get jobs too right? They will be matt from accounting too.

 

[fukmylyf]

School is for social gatherings. You talk all the time, hang out after school , play sports together , run game on chicks together, try drugs for the first time, go to first parties etc.

You're telling me all you did in school was sit quietly, not talking to anyone? And after school you sat at home doing homework all the time?

Lol no wonder you're coping so hard here . You were the weirdo that couldn't make any friends in school !


That means that any time you experience later on is perceived as shorter than if you were to experience it earlier. A year from 25-26 is relatively a smaller % of your overall life at that point than a year 12-13 and so on.

Its over for you , you can cope all you want because you squandered the best time of your life for making deep , lasting friendships. Have fun hanging out with Matt from accounting .

tbh they are coping hard or trolling. No other explanation for those emotional reactions. I get it though, it's a hard pill to swallow.

 

[444]

tbh they are coping hard or trolling. No other explanation for those emotional reactions. I get it though, it's a hard pill to swallow.

@BoneDensity is way more emotional about this than anybody here jfl

 

[BoneDensity]

How is it over for me? It's over for you. As you said, the best time of your life is OVER. You might as well end your life right now and kill yourself, you're not in high school anymore

Its over for you because you didn't do anything in school just - sat around doing schoolwork and homework . I said school is the best time for making deep friendships not overall the best time of your life. You got so hurt that you couldn't even read properly, work on your reading comprehension.

When I mentioned how school is a fantastic time for making friends , all you could think of was this:

spend 90% of that time in class not talking to each other or doing anything.

Work towards what common goals? Completing a book report? JFL

Because that is all you did You couldn't even fathom that people hang out and socialise in school and after. Like it didn't even cross your mind

Make up whatever stories you want about your "social circles" or whatever but your actions speak louder than your words.

JFL I didn't even go to high school and I still had lots of friends and an active social circle, which wrecks your entire argument to begin with. You sat in algebra class all day and tried to "run game" on some becky who probably hated your guts LOL it never began for you

Of course I was redpilled in school wdym? Everyone is because it works. When you're in school naive JBs who don't know their smv yet are easy game. But you wouldn't know that because you didn't get any and instead you were brutally blackpilled from a young age. Again your actions speaking louder than your words. Never began bro ahahahaha

 

[444]

Its over for you because you didn't do anything in school just - sat around doing schoolwork and homework

Because that is all you did

JFL I didn't even go to high school

You're so mad you can't even read properly

You got so hurt that you couldn't even read properly, work on your reading comprehension.

Just fucking lol

 

[Yliaster]

If you are a social butterfly by nature ,making connections with people will never be a hassle for you.
The truth is that most of us are self conscious shut-ins who are our own worse enemies and are scared
to take risks due to fear of failure and instead over analyze everything which is how psl was born in the
first place

From my irl observations this is why I would say that hispanics and blacks on average are by far less
likely to suffer from inceldom because of how hyper social they are,just my opinion.

 

[SubSigma]

Most of my friends throughout highschool were all non nt jfl

 

[Deleted member 21044]

It's over. I realized this too late. I'll have to make up for it in university.

 

[SubSigma]

I still have my whole group and I’m 25

Same