if you dont escalate sexually asap, you will blow it

[2peasinapod]

this has happened with me and cinderella, i just small talked well for a month, but then the small talk dries up and you can see in her mannerisms its ogre

either that or she realises im subhuman with a buzzzcut

its a double kick in the teeth too becasue she will "rebound" now and take out all her sexual frustration on someone 2nd or 3rd in the pecking order and give them a free run

fuck this dating shit, how can 2 human beings ever be in perfect harmony

 

[Hades]

Yep, this is true. And if you don’t kiss her by the second date, you get put in the friend zone.

 

[Kingkellz]

Yep, this is true. And if you don’t kiss her by the second date, you get put in the friend zone.

I suggest going for the kiss at the end of the very first date in order to make your intentions clear.

Even try get her back to your place.

Just don't make out for too long before heading to your place or ending the date. It gives her too much validation

 

[Alt Number 3]

Yeah but incels don’t have to worry about this shit cuz they are rejected in the first run anyway

 

[2peasinapod]

Yep, this is true. And if you don’t kiss her by the second date, you get put in the friend zone.

if your on a date you kiss her at the end

i feel like ronaldo when nani stole his goal and it got dissallowed for offside

fuck this shit

 

[Hades]

I suggest going for the kiss at the end of the very first date in order to make your intentions clear.

Even try get her back to your place.

Just don't make out for too long before heading to your place or ending the date. It gives her too much validation

Yes, I agree. I’m just saying IF you don’t by the end of the second, consider it over.

 

[2peasinapod]

Yes, I agree. I’m just saying IF you don’t by the end of the second, consider it over.

its not just over

they start to resent you, its horrible

it would be better off doing nothing, but if you do nothing they take it as rejection too

if a girl likes you and you see her a lot, you either satisfy her or she wants you dead

 

[CopingCel]

Kissing in the end of the 1st date is weird. Better do it in the mid.
Waiting for a month is crazy. If she is seeing you for a second date she is open for it and if you have a third date it is absolutely fucking clear. If you wait longer then 4th date for sex its over for you.