If you had abusive parents it was over for your social life from the start

[nazareth016]

If your parents were abusive or neglectful, it is almost certain you would never build good social skills despite your looks, or predetermined brain. Even if you were born NT, series of negative interactions since birth with the people closest to you, your parents, would most certainly spell doom for a normal psyche.

This is why I believe redpill, blackpill whatever pill, don't tell the whole story. All that really matters at the end of the day is the parentpill. Who your parents are determines the vast majority of how your life will play out. They determine your looks, height, neuro-typicality, early life nutrition(most vital). I genuinely believe if I have a 5 minute honest conversation with each parent of a child, I can predict the vast majority of that child's future life. Now I'll talk about my own experiences, for the hopefully few readers who will bother.

I was born to two of the most fake, callous and vile people to ever walk this earth. Not a single honest sentence was ever uttered by either of them I believe. In fact I got quite a bad combination, my mother is most definitely sociopath, incapable of love and affection. It's pretty fucking obvious what happens if you were not loved as a child(I get attached to any girl who shows me a scrap of kindness) My father is a psychopath, who enjoys hurting others, but he is a fucking pussy who is too scared to inflict such pain on those outside of his family. Then there's me, who could have either gone the abused dog route or the angry, wants to give back the pain the world gave me. I went with the latter, I cannot make meaningful friendships, NT-maxxing/maskpill does not work in the long-run.
At the end of the day they will realise you are being fake, not even the best of actors can pretend to be someone they are not. I never got along with others in school, always fighting and hating others. But of course teachers would punish me and not care about trying to fix the root cause of the problems, the home environment. I was somewhat of a bully in elementary school jfl, I guess it was because I was physically dominant and angry because of the abuse at the hands of my parents. Nowadays I keep to myself, and try to avoid interaction, I even lowkey get bullied, not physically though as they cannot do so.

In conclusion, if you didn't have a loving home environment, no matter what genetics you were dealt. There was no chance of you being normal and having a good social circle.

 

[nazareth016]

Bump

 

[trashbinxoxo]

(did read) Very true. My parents sucked. My father, a very bad man, abusive in all the ways and has done terrible things only to leave my life at 8 years old and my mother, a weak minded, abused and ND individual, have created a scared, confused, no friend having kid that turned out to be an angry, hateful person. The concepts of relationships have been ruined for me all because of what I was exposed to and my mother's bad decisions. Still trying to learn and grow from it tho

 

[The Grinch]

BBC can’t lose

 

[nazareth016]

(did read) Very true. My parents sucked. My father, a very bad man, abusive in all the ways and has done terrible things only to leave my life at 8 years old and my mother, a weak minded, abused and ND individual, have created a scared, confused, no friend having kid that turned out to be an angry, hateful person. The concepts of relationships have been ruined for me all because of what I was exposed to and my mother's bad decisions. Still trying to learn and grow from it tho

Perhaps insensitive do you think it would have been better had your father stayed, having a male influence, even if it were negative? Curious

Also this is the first post ive made that isnt retarded and ofc aint no one read it

 

[trashbinxoxo]

Perhaps insensitive do you think it would have been better had your father stayed, having a male influence, even if it were negative? Curious

Also this is the first post ive made that isnt retarded and ofc aint no one read it

Nah that nigga was insane. An actual gang member who's done terrible things. If he stayed I would've ended up just like him or worse

 

[kais3r]

If your parents were abusive or neglectful, it is almost certain you would never build good social skills despite your looks, or predetermined brain. Even if you were born NT, series of negative interactions since birth with the people closest to you, your parents, would most certainly spell doom for a normal psyche.

This is why I believe redpill, blackpill whatever pill, don't tell the whole story. All that really matters at the end of the day is the parentpill. Who your parents are determines the vast majority of how your life will play out. They determine your looks, height, neuro-typicality, early life nutrition(most vital). I genuinely believe if I have a 5 minute honest conversation with each parent of a child, I can predict the vast majority of that child's future life. Now I'll talk about my own experiences, for the hopefully few readers who will bother.

I was born to two of the most fake, callous and vile people to ever walk this earth. Not a single honest sentence was ever uttered by either of them I believe. In fact I got quite a bad combination, my mother is most definitely sociopath, incapable of love and affection. It's pretty fucking obvious what happens if you were not loved as a child(I get attached to any girl who shows me a scrap of kindness) My father is a psychopath, who enjoys hurting others, but he is a fucking pussy who is too scared to inflict such pain on those outside of his family. Then there's me, who could have either gone the abused dog route or the angry, wants to give back the pain the world gave me. I went with the latter, I cannot make meaningful friendships, NT-maxxing/maskpill does not work in the long-run.
At the end of the day they will realise you are being fake, not even the best of actors can pretend to be someone they are not. I never got along with others in school, always fighting and hating others. But of course teachers would punish me and not care about trying to fix the root cause of the problems, the home environment. I was somewhat of a bully in elementary school jfl, I guess it was because I was physically dominant and angry because of the abuse at the hands of my parents. Nowadays I keep to myself, and try to avoid interaction, I even lowkey get bullied, not physically though as they cannot do so.

In conclusion, if you didn't have a loving home environment, no matter what genetics you were dealt. There was no chance of you being normal and having a good social circle.

i think it’s possible to slowly unlearn these behaviors by understanding your trauma lowkey

 

[nazareth016]

Nah that nigga was insane. An actual gang member who's done terrible things. If he stayed I would've ended up just like him or worse

If he stayed u coulda been a thugmaxxed retard