If you have these attributes but still can’t get laid…

JamesHowlett

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Looks isn’t your issue.

- Low bf%
- Atleast 5’10
- No legitimate deformity/extreme recession.
- Haircutmaxxed
- Stubble
- Good fashion

If you have all the above and can’t get laid, MENTALITY is your only issue. The mental issues being but not limited to:
- Autistic
- Low self confidence
- Not NT
- Loser
- Not assertive
- Too nice
- Hermit who never socialises
 
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Cope
 
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Facts
 
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your forget 7+ inch dick and dont be dark skinned
Women can’t see your dick before fucking.

So your logic is dark skinned men CAN’T
get laid?
 
yea but anyone can harpoon a landwhale off tinder. Please specify if this is enough for a mid tier becky or whatnot
 
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They can have a bad jaw a bad eye area and a bad fwhr and etc
If all of these aren’t bad to the point of deformity; low bf%, stubble and haircut can bring up a face to the point where they can get laid. They might not be “slayers” but not being able to land a gf at that point is completely a mental thing.
 
If all of these aren’t bad to the point of deformity; low bf%, stubble and haircut can bring up a face to the point where they can get laid. They might not be “slayers” but not being able to land a gf at that point is completely a mental thing.
Extreme cope
 
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Women can’t see your dick before fucking.

So your logic is dark skinned men CAN’T
get laid?
women can sense small dicked men. i talk from experience (im 6inch dicklet):feelswah:
 
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yea but anyone can harpoon a landwhale off tinder. Please specify if this is enough for a mid tier becky or whatnot
Average to Becky.
 
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Doesnt becky = average
I think Stacy is at the top then becky is below her, I’m assuming becky is above average, similar to HTN
 
- Haircutmaxxed
- Stubble
- Good fashion
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Prove me wrong.
I cant . But if you have bad jaw or chin a stubble wont help. If you balding or is bald your haircut dont matter plus if you have bad bones bf dont matter
 
I think Stacy is at the top then becky is below her, I’m assuming becky is above average, similar to HTN
Then youre coping. If your at the minimum of the stats you posted you would need to be very social statusmaxxed
 
To the people who say it’s cope, prove me wrong. People who have all the above attributes but don’t get laid have mental issues:
- Autistic
- Low self confidence
- Not NT
- Loser
- Not assertive
- Too nice
- Hermit who never socialises

This forum is full of people like this.
 
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when coper like you will realize that literally mm of soft tissue and bone / position projection affects daily life
 
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Then youre coping. If your at the minimum of the stats you posted you would need to be very social statusmaxxed
Not being social falls under mentality, look at my above post.
 
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Getting laid once a year isn't so different from being incel
 
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when coper like you realize that literally mm of soft tissue and bone / position projection affects daily life
I never said that doesn’t affect life, it does. But people with different lives get laid, the quality of your life is not the determining factor.
 
I think Stacy is at the top then becky is below her, I’m assuming becky is above average, similar to HTN
Nah Becky refers to average girl i think
 
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I cant . But if you have bad jaw or chin a stubble wont help. If you balding or is bald your haircut dont matter plus if you have bad bones bf dont matter
Stubble OBVIOUSLY helps, unless your lower third is legit deformed or you’re FAT.

Well if you’re bald you don’t have all the above attributes, meaning you’re allowed to moan about looks.

Low bf helps average to good bones. The times it doesn’t is when someone is literally recessed so far it’s a deformity, it’s no where near as common as you think. Edited op to make it clear.
 
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Getting laid once a year isn't so different from being incel
Projecting that the people with the above attributes get laid once a year isn’t an argument
 
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Looks isn’t your issue.

- Low bf%
- Atleast 5’10
- No legitimate deformity
- Haircutmaxxed
- Stubble
- Good fashion

If you have all the above and can’t get laid, MENTALITY is your only issue.
Worst type of cel is the mentalcel, you can't change my view.

This post applies perfectly to me, i'm 1.82 cm, pale, dark features, good harmony and features , good fashion, not fat/skinny and i'm not a subhuman in general but i'm mentally fucked and i doubt there's a cure for it.

It's like having a 99% chance of winning the lottery but there's a 1% chance to lose so you don't go for it. That's how i feel. I got only a small social circle of not so popular kids, too shy to start a conversation with a girl. Past trauma and being ugly as a child did me dirty. I'm mentalcel all the way, i overheard a few girls saying ''the hot ones are always crazy'' after i made a scene in school. One girl attempted to flirt with me in boxing class saying she will beat me in a joking way, so retard me said unironically : ''You're a girl, i weigh more, have experience, and hit harder, i will beat the fuck outta you, stop thinking you are superior. Then proceeded to get kicked out of the gym

Brutal, i don't wanna get addicted to alcohol (to stop being shy) so idk what to do stop being a mentalcel since i don't wanna go to therapy and take meds
 
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women can sense small dicked men. i talk from experience (im 6inch dicklet):feelswah:
It’s because you ACT with small dick energy. They can’t literally physically sense a small penis.
 
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Worst type of cel is the mentalcel, you can't change my view.

This post applies perfectly to me, i'm 1.82 cm, pale, dark features, good harmony and features , good fashion, not fat/skinny and i'm not a subhuman in general but i'm mentally fucked and i doubt there's a cure for it.

It's like having a 99% chance of winning the lottery but there's a 1% chance to lose so you don't go for it. That's how i feel. I got only a small social circle of not so popular kids, too shy to start a conversation with a girl. Past trauma and being ugly as a child did me dirty. I'm mentalcel all the way, i overheard a few girls saying ''the hot ones are always crazy'' after i made a scene in school. One girl attempted to flirt with me in boxing class saying she will beat me in a joking way, so retard me said unironically : ''You're a girl, i weigh more, have experience, and hit harder, i will beat the fuck outta you, stop thinking you are superior. Then proceeded to get kicked out of the gym

Brutal, i don't wanna get addicted to alcohol (to stop being shy) so idk what to do stop being a mentalcel since i don't wanna go to therapy and take meds
This is exactly what I’m talking about. People hardly talk about the mental reasons for them being here, it’s just “muh just 1 more mm projection and Stacy will suck my dick”.
 
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You're a girl, i weigh more, have experience, and hit harder, i will beat the fuck outta you, stop thinking you are superior. Then proceeded to get kicked out of the gym
Chad says this and gets sucked off in the bathroom right after. Just suicidemaxx already
 
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This is exactly what I’m talking about. People hardly talk about the mental reasons for them being here, it’s just “muh just 1 more mm projection and Stacy will suck my dick”.
This site has a selection bias, it selects for autistic non-nt insecure types etc rather than actually ugly people
 
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Looks isn’t your issue.

- Low bf%
- Atleast 5’10
- No legitimate deformity/extreme recession.
- Haircutmaxxed
- Stubble
- Good fashion

If you have all the above and can’t get laid, MENTALITY is your only issue.
I am 6’2, 14%bodyfat,no recession and I cant get laid

is 69mm IPD an extreme deformity? :lul: Over for dolphincels
 
Projecting that the people with the above attributes get laid once a year isn’t an argument
It is, average man has a poor sex life outside of ltr

And ltr has very hight % of being cheated (for an average man)
 
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Average man has literally all these attributes

still average so not good enough
 
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I am 6’2, 14%bodyfat,no recession and I cant get laid

is 69mm IPD an extreme deformity? :lul: Over for dolphincels
Pic? Don’t know how bad 69mm IPD is
 
5'10 is literally below average jfl
 
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Average man has literally all these attributes

still average so not good enough
No they don’t, the young guys you see with girls have all those attributes. Most guys in U.K. who gets girls has a fade, is lean, has good fashion, above average height, etc. And obviously very social, meaning no mental issues that I mentioned previously.
 
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its funny how this is a controversial take on this site lol. retards here really dont know what the real world is like lol
 
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5'10 is literally below average jfl
It’s average. If you’re 5’10, with shoes you are above average height.
 
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If you talking about getting laid with below average girls and maybe sometimes average girls then I agree.
But that’s not better than jerking off so it doesn’t really count
 
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If you talking about getting laid with below average girls then I agree.
But that’s not better than jerking off so it doesn’t really count
You’ve never seen a guy with all the above attributes with an above average girl? Which planet do you live on? Lol
 
its funny how this is a controversial take on this site lol. retards here really dont know what the real world is like lol
No they don’t, the young guys you see with girls have all those attributes. Most guys in U.K. who gets girls has a fade, is lean, has good fashion, above average height, etc. And obviously very social, meaning no mental issues that I mentioned previously.
Average height is 5'11 (in my country, according to wikipedia) (I'm above that btw)
Average zoomer is very lean, even too much
All have trendy haircuts and clothes

The difference is made by face and body
 
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You’ve never seen a guy with all the above attributes with an above average girl? Which planet do you live on? Lol
Yes I have seen this. But it’s not that Common. As a dead average guy your only real chance is nichemaxxing or social circle maxxing.
In some occasions they luck out because an above average girl is on their social circle and likes him because of the mere exposure effect.
But if you go on tinder with the stats you listed above you won’t get anything above average
 
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Average height is 5'11 (in my country, according to wikipedia) (I'm above that btw)
Average zoomer is very lean, even too much
All have trendy haircuts and clothes

The difference is made by face and body
Which country? 5’11 (5’10 in shoes) is above average in US and UK.

Average zoomer is also mentally fucked up. The ones that are good with girls are extremely social and not losers.

I’m not the villain here, I’m trying to help people understand reality.
 
Yes I have seen this. But it’s not that Common. As a dead average guy your only real chance is nichemaxxing or social circle maxxing.
In some occasions they luck out because an above average girl is on their social circle and likes him because of the mere exposure effect.
But if you go on tinder with the stats you listed above you won’t get anything above average
If you have all the above attributes you aren’t average looking, you are above average. So many men don’t take advantage of them.
 
Which country? 5’11 (5’10 in shoes) is above average in US and UK.
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North of Italy is not so different from Austria, only the South is short
 
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If you have all the above attributes you aren’t average looking, you are above average. So many men don’t take advantage of them.
Cope.
-5‘10 is average
-Low bodyfat is also average among young men
-And no deformity or major recession is also average

with theses stats you can even be below average when your frame is shit or when your eye area, facial ratios, coloring etc is shit
 
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North of Italy is not so different from Austria, only the South is short
Still applies, as in if you’re 5’11 your height isn’t the actual issue. Height is only an issue or legit barrier if it’s noticeably below average/you’re known as being short.
 

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