If you think you do anything hard in life

[wollet2]

fear is the ultimate motivator but people dont tap into that often.

 

[Klasik616]

I think you actually agree with me, you just don’t understand what I mean

I understand what you mean but I disagree, you need more than sex to be happy. All I do is not to attract women. Whenever I'm doing something hard I'm not thinking about "this would make me have more chances with women". If I thinked like this I would be redpilled, redpillers want to work hard to have more SMV. I'm a loser, I don't do anything to have more SMV.

 

[ey88]

I understand what you mean but I disagree, you need more than sex to be happy. All I do is not to attract women. Whenever I'm doing something hard I'm not thinking about "this would make me have more chances with women". If I thinked like this I would be redpilled, redpillers want to work hard to have more SMV.

By sex I really mean reproduction btw

 

[wollet2]

I understand what you mean but I disagree, you need more than sex to be happy. All I do is not to attract women. Whenever I'm doing something hard I'm not thinking about "this would make me have more chances with women". If I thinked like this I would be redpilled, redpillers want to work hard to have more SMV.

sex is a extremely core need. you need it to move on to other things

 

[R@m@]

fear is the ultimate motivator but people dont tap into that often.

Yeah I think we fear death since we cant conprehend it

 

[Klasik616]

By sex I really mean reproduction btw

I don't want to have a family and I'm not doing anything to be worth of being a father. In other words, I'm not doing anything to be attractive to women.

 

[wollet2]

Yeah I think we fear death since we cant conprehend it

life offers abundance of things to fear

 

[Klasik616]

Yeah I think we? fear death since we ¿cant conprehend it?

 

[R@m@]

life offers abundance of things to fear

Its like we are afraid of death and always try to distract ourselves from the fact we are gonna die

But Im not really sure, its hard to describe what goes in our minds

 

[Klasik616]

Its like we are afraid of death and always try to distract ourselves from the fact we are gonna die

But Im not really sure, its hard to describe what goes in our minds

I fear becoming ugly / old
But I'm already dead, my life has no purpose
How I can fear something that won't change a thing

 

[ey88]

I fear becoming ugly / old
But I'm already dead, my life has no purpose
How I can fear something that won't change a thing

Your purpose is to reproduce

 

[Klasik616]

Your purpose is to reproduce

What if an entire family doesn't reproduce
Why does it matter to reproduce, for who? Me?
I've been here one hours discussing simple things
Only pretty people should reproduce

 

[R@m@]

I fear becoming ugly / old
But I'm already dead, my life has no purpose
How I can fear something that won't change a thing

If someone started shooting at you wouldnt you feel fear and try to run away from it?

Its instinctive we can say we arent afraid of death but the instinct kicks in

 

[Klasik616]

If someone started shooting at you wouldnt you feel fear and try to run away from it?

Its instinctive we can say we arent afraid of death but the instinct kicks in

I would try to escape but I've been robbed and I didn't felt fear or anything. I don't care because life has taught me I can't change things with just my own will.

 

[faustianspirit]

But I'm already dead, my life has no purpose
How I can fear something that won't change a thing

Real
How did u get thru university with this mindset? I don't feel like doing anything at class even though I could ace every exam, I just don't feel like it, I just feel empty most of the time

 

[Klasik616]

Real
How did u get thru university with this mindset? I don't feel like doing anything at class even though I could ace every exam, I just don't feel like it, I just feel empty most of the time

I did the exact same
Studying is easy
I started playing videogames most of the day
I could have been better at uni but I'm lazy

 

[faustianspirit]

I did the exact same
Studying is easy
I started playing videogames most of the day

what keeps u on going bro
in my case i dont really know, sometimes i get sudden dopamine rushes and get very happy but in no time im back in the state i am rn. just contemplating life, not knowing why am i even here, suicidal thoughts and shit

 

[ey88]

what keeps u on going bro
in my case i dont really know, sometimes i get sudden dopamine rushes and get very happy but in no time im back in the state i am rn. just contemplating life, not knowing why am i even here, suicidal thoughts and shit

It’s because your life is so out of touch with nature, follow your natural instincts as closely as possible and you will be happy

 

[Klasik616]

It’s because your life is so out of touch with nature, follow your natural instincts as closely as possible and you will be happy

I think this is good advice
If we weren't living in a city with laws where you can't do what you want

 

[ey88]

I think this is good advice
If we weren't living in a city with laws where you can't do what you want

If you are on the verge of suicide, maybe it’s best to move

 

[faustianspirit]

It’s because your life is so out of touch with nature, follow your natural instincts as closely as possible and you will be happy

yes i feel societal norms really have me on a chokehold. like i care too much about peoples opinion, but i try to not be different, this is something that has been like this for years, ive always wanted to just be normal.

 

[faustianspirit]

If you are on the verge of suicide, maybe it’s best to move

im not on the verge of suicide, i just think about it. but not because i am sad, because i am not, i just dont understand whats the point, like being alive or not what would change for me right now?

 

[ey88]

im not on the verge of suicide, i just think about it. but not because i am sad, because i am not, i just dont understand whats the point, like being alive or not what would change for me right now?

There is no inherent meaning besides reproduction, just try and make the best with your life, try and be as happy as possible

 

[The Grinch]

You wouldn’t work if you didn’t care about sex, you would become homeless and trap animals and eat them, just live in nature and relax all day, you wouldn’t waste 40 hours of your week slaving away

Do you have schizophrenia?

 

[ey88]

Do you have schizophrenia?

No, why would I?

 

[faustianspirit]

There is no inherent meaning besides reproduction

my fear of rejection and abandonment, and further more an intense paranoia in which everyone will know that i tried to hook up with a girl and laugh at me for it stops me from acting upon my reproductive instincts. im not even bad looking.

just try and make the best with your life, try and be as happy as possible

i try to do many things in my life, at the end of the day im just here in my dorm rotting on .org. not feeling happy nor sad, just empty.

 

[The Grinch]

No, why would I?

Denial is a river in Egypt

 

[ey88]

my fear of rejection and abandonment, and further more an intense paranoia in which everyone will know that i tried to hook up with a girl and laugh at me for it stops me from acting upon my reproductive instincts. im not even bad looking.

Dude I am the exact same, it’s so brutal

 

[faustianspirit]

Dude I am the exact same, it’s so brutal

you have that paranoia too?
in my case it was originated in my HS years because i was a really late bloomer

 

[ey88]

you have that paranoia too?
in my case it was originated in my HS years because i was a really late bloomer

Yes, there has been a few girls who I know have liked me, and I liked them too, but I was to scared to do anything because I was scared of what people would think

 

[faustianspirit]

Yes, there has been a few girls who I know have liked me, and I liked them too, but I was to scared to do anything because I was scared of what people would think

that has also happened to me jfl
knowing that there are other people with this same problem makes me feel better tbh

 

[ey88]

that has also happened to me jfl
knowing that there are other people with this same problem makes me feel better tbh

I don’t know how to get rid of it though, I still always think like this, I might just have to move countries and start over fresh

 

[faustianspirit]

I don’t know how to get rid of it though, I still always think like this.

im kinda getting better at it by just getting exposure in night time situations like clubbing and shit.
still outside of those situations i would still feel very paranoid trying to "get" a girl. just texting them makes me scared bcs i feel like they would tell everybody i did that lol.

I might just have to move countries and start over fresh

i moved cities this year and ye it kinda helps but still is something rooted deeper in me

 

[ey88]

im kinda getting better at it by just getting exposure in night time situations like clubbing and shit.
still outside of those situations i would still feel very paranoid trying to "get" a girl. just texting them makes me scared bcs i feel like they would tell everybody i did that lol.

Same, I’m not bad at talking to them in real life at all, mainly just on my phone

 

[faustianspirit]

Same, I’m not bad at talking to them in real life at all, mainly just on my phone

im the exact same thing lol

 

[ey88]

im the exact same thing lol

It’s brutal because no drug or anything will ever help

 

[whotthehell]

Very true, money and sex is everything. Survival and reproduction basically. Survival on low end might be simple, but if you want sex or reproduction success in hypergamous environment you gotta do a lot or get lucky to have your chances as an average guy. And yet it’s still cucked if the woman you want a family with is not a virgin. Give me a break from all this bullshit

 

[whiteislandpill]

I just have fun man