if youre not gl you have to use niche interests to fuck

[Deleted member 18582]

for example, for a lot of ltbs and ltns, taking up something like twitter sjw-ism becomes above all a dating opportunity--they bond around a social issue to try to get sexual capital as a surrogate for passion and desire based relationships, which are relegated to htn/htb and above. its the only way they will be able to bag a mtb or mtn.

i think its the source of reddit tier advice about "join a club!" when people cant find someone to date. they know you have to trick someone into liking you with a shared interest or hobby instead of just using your appearance

 

[Napoleon de Geso]

Trying, most of niche cuties in Tinder are in China, sometimes matches happen, but none yet demonstrated potential of true kemono friend. But feminism as passion means instant left swipe from me

 

[Deleted member 21735]

i used bass guitar as a niche and it didnt do shit. it got some attention but it can absoutely not compensate for lack of looks

 

[Deleted member 18582]

i used bass guitar as a niche and it didnt do shit. it got some attention but it can absoutely not compensate for lack of looks

i hate when someone sexually interested me tries to use a common interest to bond. it makes me suspicious

 

[RandomSwan]

hard disagree your interests should be your interests cause you like them

 

[RandomSwan]

taking up something for sexual reasons will just make you look tryhard

 

[Deleted member 18582]

hard disagree your interests should be your interests cause you like them

obviously, but i do get suspicious when someone interested in me brings up my interests. Like how clever do they think they are

 

[lelouch]

i was a lil peep loving pill popper when i was 17 worked well for me tbh

 

[optimisticzoomer]

I'd rather just fuck escorts than change my personality and try hard to get mid bitches, who I don't like to be around anyway
I don't think I'm built for LTRs anyway, and fucking whores is just as gratifying as fucking some mtb if your looks alone weren't enough

 

[Deleted member 18582]

I'd rather just fuck escorts than change my personality and try hard to get mid bitches, who I don't like to be around anyway
I don't think I'm built for LTRs anyway, and fucking whores is just as gratifying as fucking some mtb if your looks alone weren't enough

everyone including you and me unconsciously change their personality to accomodate whatever situation we're in (like studies prooving how men unconsciously artificially lower their voices when around women)

its not that big a leap to begin doing it consciously, just takes very careful practice to make it look like its not forced

 

[Deleted member 18582]

in any case, im not saying change your interests or take on new ones

im just saying--for example, if you mention you like music to a girl and she starts asking "what kind of music do you like" and then you mention an album and shes like "oh that was a good one" and then you go down some conversational rabbithole about that album. Thaat kind of conversation NEVER happens between hot people. if you're attracted to each other, youre supposed to talk a lot while saying nothing at all. otherwise, something's gone deeply wrong.

 

[optimisticzoomer]

everyone including you and me unconsciously change their personality to accomodate whatever situation we're in (like studies prooving how men unconsciously artificially lower their voices when around women)

its not that big a leap to begin doing it consciously, just takes very careful practice to make it look like its not forced

I don't mean that, I mean like doing hobbies and putting myself in situations where there would be girls. Or tryharding

 

[Deleted member 18582]

I don't mean that, I mean like doing hobbies and putting myself in situations where there would be girls. Or tryharding

Oh. in any case i think in the example of the the twitter-sjwists, while they are consciously appealed to it because it accords with their interests and worldview, i think they are unconsciously appealed to it because it gives an outlet to form romantic relationships when they are unable to do so because of their inherent qualities. you can find lots of ltb sjwists finding htns through outlets like this. Water finds its own level, even if it requires altering your entire personality.

and its less about actively putting oneself in a situation. It might just be like, say you have a ltb and htn in a sociology class togehter. maybe the latter makes some kind of woke remark, the ltb will think in her head, "alright I think I can weasel my way in with this one." then they go to a protest together or some shit. so its less active putting oneself in situations deliberately and more weaponizing shared interests to advance their horny femcel agenda

 

[Deleted member 21735]

i hate when someone sexually interested me tries to use a common interest to bond. it makes me suspicious

debunked

 

[TITUS]

Nice, aka similar interests, make her think you are alike, will get on well, and so on, it's a proven strategy.