if youre unsure if a girls giving you an ioi, she isnt into you.

[Deleted member 24367]

went to an event at my uni . we playing some games and throughout the night i had multiple girls come up to me to try talk to me, getting my name or complimenting something bout me. whereas other girls i hit on also werent feeling me. however they still talked to me. if i was some dumbass on here id think she was interested just because she was smiling a bit and interacting w me.


tldr: if a girl really like you shell make it obvious as fuck most of the time. even the most autistic mf will know sums up. any doubt usually means she isnt and youre overthinking it.

 

[Deleted member 21340]

ioi = p in v
anything else is cope

 

[longjohnmong]

Or you're just a retard, like myself. When I got out of my 10 year relationship it was like being unfrozen in a new century, not only were girls way more promiscuous in general, but older women were more promiscuous than girls my age the last time I was single. My ex couldn't believe people kissed on the first date, and I felt the same way. Anyway, I wound up in this girl's room on our first date and proceeded to talk to her for hours while she was telling me "You're so cute." In my head, I'm thinking "Okay, well cute it okay, but let's try to bump that up." So then her dad gets home and she invites me back over the next day and says "My dad won't be home." and I proceed to send her some autistic message that night about "not being able to be myself" and the was the last I ever heard of her. Just awful.

 

[Deleted member 24367]

Or you're just a retard, like myself. When I got out of my 10 year relationship it was like being unfrozen in a new century, not only were girls way more promiscuous in general, but older women were more promiscuous than girls my age the last time I was single. My ex couldn't believe people kissed on the first date, and I felt the same way. Anyway, I wound up in this girl's room on our first date and proceeded to talk to her for hours while she was telling me "You're so cute." In my head, I'm thinking "Okay, well cute it okay, but let's try to bump that up." So then her dad gets home and she invites me back over the next day and says "My dad won't be home." and I proceed to send her some autistic message that night about "not being able to be myself" and the was the last I ever heard of her. Just awful.

not worth the time overthinking and playing games with a girl on the off chance shes into you.

 

[Deleted member 22705]

Yes exactly. Back before my face turned ugly at the age of 16, I had a few girls come up to me and say I was cute and one girl was flirting with me pretty hard and said she wanted to kiss me. Other than that there was this random girl I have never seen who came up to me and started talking to me, but she had apparently seen me before at some volunteer event, Had it happen with another foid too but I think she just wanted someone to listen to her, I pretended I was mute with her for some reason. Other than that when girls are staring at you a lot and repeatedly or some girl you don't know comes up to you when you are with friends and says she wants to talk to you privately, that's a good sign though not definite.

 

[enchanted_elixir]

went to an event at my uni . we playing some games and throughout the night i had multiple girls come up to me to try talk to me, getting my name or complimenting something bout me. whereas other girls i hit on also werent feeling me. however they still talked to me. if i was some dumbass on here id think she was interested just because she was smiling a bit and interacting w me.


tldr: if a girl really like you shell make it obvious as fuck most of the time. even the most autistic mf will know sums up. any doubt usually means she isnt and youre overthinking it.

If a woman is into you, she literally can not hide it.

If you suspect she is hiding interest from you, watch how she behaves when she isn't aware you're near her, and then sit or stand very close to her. If her (or her friends') behavior changes, you got her.

 

[lepo2317]

There is difference between IOI's in a mall and on a party.

 

[coke]

went to an event at my uni . we playing some games and throughout the night i had multiple girls come up to me to try talk to me, getting my name or complimenting something bout me. whereas other girls i hit on also werent feeling me. however they still talked to me. if i was some dumbass on here id think she was interested just because she was smiling a bit and interacting w me.


tldr: if a girl really like you shell make it obvious as fuck most of the time. even the most autistic mf will know sums up. any doubt usually means she isnt and youre overthinking it.

My current girlfriend was giving me an ioi and I didn't even realise it. I later presumed she may have been, but was unsure.

I could have done what you said had this post been earlier and went ''Ah, that incel on Looksmax said she isn't in to me'' but instead I started chatting to her, turns out she was into me, now we've been dating for 2+ years.

Message to anyone reading this, you probably won't realise if a girl genuinely is into you, because they are so fucking good at hiding it. Don't be afraid to chat to a girl, if you think she's giving you an ioi, chat to her.. if you're unsure, chat to her.

 

[Deleted member 24367]

My current girlfriend was giving me an ioi and I didn't even realise it. I later presumed she may have been, but was unsure.

I could have done what you said had this post been earlier and went ''Ah, that incel on Looksmax said she isn't in to me'' but instead I started chatting to her, turns out she was into me, now we've been dating for 2+ years.

Message to anyone reading this, you probably won't realise if a girl genuinely is into you, because they are so fucking good at hiding it. Don't be afraid to chat to a girl, if you think she's giving you an ioi, chat to her.. if you're unsure, chat to her.

‘Too good at hiding it’ jfl nigga she just isnt into you.

if a girls into you she WILL make it obvious. No point being confused when another girl will be as forward as you want.

 

[Yuno_howitez]

Idk a girl was literally giving me 0 iois, if we made eye contact she looked away even like she was disgusted but it was rare too. but she invited me to go out

 

[coke]

‘Too good at hiding it’ jfl nigga she just isnt into you.

if a girls into you she WILL make it obvious. No point being confused when another girl will be as forward as you want.

But she was into me, hence why we've been dating for over 2 years. I actually just asked her, and she said normally when a guy thinks the girl is flirting with them, they are actually trying to be kind and get away as the guy is creeping them out. Not always, but you see how you genuinely can't read humans minds?

Some girls are shy, some are reserved, some are opinionated, some don't like to express feelings. I'm presuming every girl you've ever met has turned their head away from you in disgust, so you automatically presume if you were a chad they'd be opening their legs to you begging you to take them to town, the new incels on this forum crack me up.

 

[Deleted member 2268]

Don’t wait for IOIs. Make them happen by going up to the girl and saying hi

 

[MentalistKebab]

But she was into me, hence why we've been dating for over 2 years. I actually just asked her, and she said normally when a guy thinks the girl is flirting with them, they are actually trying to be kind and get away as the guy is creeping them out. Not always, but you see how you genuinely can't read humans minds?

Some girls are shy, some are reserved, some are opinionated, some don't like to express feelings. I'm presuming every girl you've ever met has turned their head away from you in disgust, so you automatically presume if you were a chad they'd be opening their legs to you begging you to take them to town, the new incels on this forum crack me up.

She aint into you bro, she just thinks you are a safe ltr option, girls agressively hit on chads they want to fuck on the spot

 

[Mastermind]

If you have to ask it's over
This applies to anything tbh, perception is reality and so is uncertainty
Uncertainty is lack of significant clues so yeah, it definitely ain't

 

[Deleted member 1140]

massive cope

i had girls giving the most retarded signals, making it 100% obvious for the average person that she isnt interested and 2 weeks later they told me they had a crush on me

one even said „stop dreaming we will never fuck“ and a week or two later she sent me nudes and asked if we want to fuck

girls are stupid and give stupid signals

 

[Wasting_my_life]

had multiple girls come up to me to try talk to me, getting my name or complimenting something bout me

Mogs me…

 

[Deleted member 24367]

massive cope

i had girls giving the most retarded signals, making it 100% obvious for the average person that she isnt interested and 2 weeks later they told me they had a crush on me

one even said „stop dreaming we will never fuck“ and a week or two later she sent me nudes and asked if we want to fuck

girls are stupid and give stupid signals

in those 2 weeks you couldve fucked 2 girls than waiting on one who told you she aint letting u hit

Mogs me…

just be tall black guy theory

 

[totalretard]

‘Too good at hiding it’ jfl nigga she just isnt into you.

if a girls into you she WILL make it obvious. No point being confused when another girl will be as forward as you want.

Nigga they've been dating for the past 2 years lmfao

 

[Deleted member 24367]

Nigga they've been dating for the past 2 years lmfao

Message to anyone reading this, you probably won't realise if a girl genuinely is into you, because they are so fucking good at hiding it. Don't be afraid to chat to a girl, if you think she's giving you an ioi, chat to her.. if you're unsure, chat to her.

 

[totalretard]

how wasn't she into him if they've been dating for the past 2 years?

 

[coke]

Nigga they've been dating for the past 2 years lmfao

The guys an idiot, just another incel on this forum coping with the fact no girl wants him.

 

[coke]

She aint into you bro, she just thinks you are a safe ltr option, girls agressively hit on chads they want to fuck on the spot

Funny that considering she broke up with her ex-boyfriend because of me. Her ex-boyfriend had decent income, taller than me, although I don't think he looked good. At the time I was broke, I even contemplated breaking up with her last year and she really didn't want to. I've got alright income now, but she has her own decent job so spends on herself, I never need to spend on her.

I've also been hit on quite often, had a mixed race girl that works in our local store give me her number 3 weeks ago, she always acts overly flirtatious and wrote her number on my receipt I took it and ignored her. I still go into the tesco and let her serve me.

Some of you guys just need to get out more and stop being scared to talk to women, you think you can predict them all because you watched a few alpha male videos created to garner watch time.

 

[Ozsaraal]

‘Too good at hiding it’ jfl nigga she just isnt into you.

if a girls into you she WILL make it obvious. No point being confused when another girl will be as forward as you want.

Exactly


imagine it from there point of veiw since most girls have the smv of a chad

So it would be like being a chad sorounded by beckies you could pick any of them and know you won't get rejected

We hide our interest cause we don't want to get rejected jfl that's the whole point of hiding it but if there is little to no chance of you being rejected AKA being a girl there's no need to hide anything and they'll make it very obvious

 

[Ozsaraal]

massive cope

i had girls giving the most retarded signals, making it 100% obvious for the average person that she isnt interested and 2 weeks later they told me they had a crush on me

one even said „stop dreaming we will never fuck“ and a week or two later she sent me nudes and asked if we want to fuck

girls are stupid and give stupid signals

Yea but I bet she said " stop dreaming we will never fuck" in a inside joke flirtatious sort of a way, not in a fuck off incel sort of way which makes me think your missing the real point

 

[Deleted member 24367]

The guys an idiot, just another incel on this forum coping with the fact no girl wants him.

Funny that considering she broke up with her ex-boyfriend because of me. Her ex-boyfriend had decent income, taller than me, although I don't think he looked good. At the time I was broke, I even contemplated breaking up with her last year and she really didn't want to. I've got alright income now, but she has her own decent job so spends on herself, I never need to spend on her.

I've also been hit on quite often, had a mixed race girl that works in our local store give me her number 3 weeks ago, she always acts overly flirtatious and wrote her number on my receipt I took it and ignored her. I still go into the tesco and let her serve me.

Some of you guys just need to get out more and stop being scared to talk to women, you think you can predict them all because you watched a few alpha male videos created to garner watch time.

projection

 

[coke]

projection

Ah, that makes sense, so you're projecting the fact that no girl wants you on to others by claiming they'd be throwing themselves at you if they really did (which they wouldn't, always, extroverted girls yes, introverted.. no).

I hope it gets better for you and you get laid one day brother.

 

[MentalistKebab]

Funny that considering she broke up with her ex-boyfriend because of me. Her ex-boyfriend had decent income, taller than me, although I don't think he looked good. At the time I was broke, I even contemplated breaking up with her last year and she really didn't want to. I've got alright income now, but she has her own decent job so spends on herself, I never need to spend on her.

I've also been hit on quite often, had a mixed race girl that works in our local store give me her number 3 weeks ago, she always acts overly flirtatious and wrote her number on my receipt I took it and ignored her. I still go into the tesco and let her serve me.

Some of you guys just need to get out more and stop being scared to talk to women, you think you can predict them all because you watched a few alpha male videos created to garner watch time.

if i believe everything you write (which i dont), you tell me that you have girls hitting on you, thus your advice is unsuitable for most of this forum.

Secondly noone is watching these cringe alpha male videos other than cringe redpill tourists

 

[coke]

if i believe everything you write (which i dont), you tell me that you have girls hitting on you, thus your advice is unsuitable for most of this forum.

Secondly noone is watching these cringe alpha male videos other than cringe redpill tourists

Then that's a fair assessment on your end. I have had girls hit on me, yes. Maybe it's a different story for complete incels. My brother is a basement dweller, never had a girlfriend and doesn't leave the house. He's 6'3 and just turned 20.. I always wonder why he is the way he is, but he's too lazy to even accept the blackpill. It takes about 5-10 years to build confidence back.

I also think maybe locations come in to play, where are you from? I just learned yesterday chatting to a guy on here that apparently American's are some of the most stuck up and judgemental individuals ever. I'm from Scotland, we like a drink and have fun I guess. I'm not going to entirely slam you as location matters, but what I will say is, I stand by my statement: you probably wouldn't even notice the girl giving you the ioi if she's an introvert, trust me.

 

[Deleted member 24367]

Then that's a fair assessment on your end. I have had girls hit on me, yes. Maybe it's a different story for complete incels. My brother is a basement dweller, never had a girlfriend and doesn't leave the house. He's 6'3 and just turned 20.. I always wonder why he is the way he is, but he's too lazy to even accept the blackpill. It takes about 5-10 years to build confidence back.

I also think maybe locations come in to play, where are you from? I just learned yesterday chatting to a guy on here that apparently American's are some of the most stuck up and judgemental individuals ever. I'm from Scotland, we like a drink and have fun I guess. I'm not going to entirely slam you as location matters, but what I will say is, I stand by my statement: you probably wouldn't even notice the girl giving you the ioi if she's an introvert, trust me.

such cap lol. im 6'3 and close to 20 just like ur 'brother' and ive built almost unshatterable confidence and learnt great social skills in less than 2 months despite being indoors whole life. keep larping to randoms online.

 

[coke]

such cap lol. im 6'3 and close to 20 just like ur 'brother' and ive built almost unshatterable confidence and learnt great social skills in less than 2 months despite being indoors whole life. keep larping to randoms online.

That's fantastic, but complete cap considering you're on here incapable of getting a girl. I'm 5'10 and in my 20's and have also built up amazing confidence, my 6'3 20 year old brother however has not. You think you have great social skills, but you don't, because you can't even understand how girls giving ioi's work.

Keep arguing with randoms online bro, you'll maybe get a girl who likes you one day (doubtful).

 

[Piratecel]

@fauxfox We gotta another mali chad over here, we can't stop winning eh?

 

[ripcordgod1]

went to an event at my uni . we playing some games and throughout the night i had multiple girls come up to me to try talk to me, getting my name or complimenting something bout me. whereas other girls i hit on also werent feeling me. however they still talked to me. if i was some dumbass on here id think she was interested just because she was smiling a bit and interacting w me.


tldr: if a girl really like you shell make it obvious as fuck most of the time. even the most autistic mf will know sums up. any doubt usually means she isnt and youre overthinking it.

not really multiple times a girl would try to give away that she likes me but I didn't get it and she would tell me later I'm really bad at taking signals