Punjabi Waffen
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Life can be bad enough for any man that has a small penis. In order to gain sexual confidence, you're always swimming upstream. Against the current of a society that delights in letting you know how inadequate and worthless you are.
What's been worse for me since I was a little boy, is learning that men like me are renowned and adored for having big penises.
And I know people like to defend that phrases like SMALL/BIG DICK ENERGY by saying they have nothing to do with penis size, but confidence. But how many of those people would be okay with "UGLY VULVA ENERGY" or something like that to describe confidence?
Truth is, I've developed low confidence over a long period of time feeling humiliated and ashamed about having the size of penis that society GLEEFULLY shames and denigrates, while everyone listening laughs and accepts it. I literally never heard any speak against it when ever it happens.
I've had a previous partner tell a mutual friend (who in turn thought I should know) that I had a "pencil dick", and when I measured myself against the average girth number I researched online, turned out she was right. I was well below it. I've never had the courage to let another woman see me at my most vulnerable again.
There's always the point, whenever I'm talking to a woman, where she'll ask me if "IS IT TRUE WHAT THEY SAY? THAT INDIANS ARE SUPERIOR? AND YOU NEGROS HAVE SMALL DICKS?", with a smile, even a wink. I've even heard a black woman irritatingly tell her friends that yes "A lot of black dudes are small out there".
I'm not trying to say women shouldn't be allowed to hate small penises. I certainly don't blame women for feeling that way. I imagine they get less pleasurable sensations from thin ones. But before you start loudly and proudly throwing around phrases like "Small dick energy",
What's been worse for me since I was a little boy, is learning that men like me are renowned and adored for having big penises.
And I know people like to defend that phrases like SMALL/BIG DICK ENERGY by saying they have nothing to do with penis size, but confidence. But how many of those people would be okay with "UGLY VULVA ENERGY" or something like that to describe confidence?
Truth is, I've developed low confidence over a long period of time feeling humiliated and ashamed about having the size of penis that society GLEEFULLY shames and denigrates, while everyone listening laughs and accepts it. I literally never heard any speak against it when ever it happens.
I've had a previous partner tell a mutual friend (who in turn thought I should know) that I had a "pencil dick", and when I measured myself against the average girth number I researched online, turned out she was right. I was well below it. I've never had the courage to let another woman see me at my most vulnerable again.
There's always the point, whenever I'm talking to a woman, where she'll ask me if "IS IT TRUE WHAT THEY SAY? THAT INDIANS ARE SUPERIOR? AND YOU NEGROS HAVE SMALL DICKS?", with a smile, even a wink. I've even heard a black woman irritatingly tell her friends that yes "A lot of black dudes are small out there".
I'm not trying to say women shouldn't be allowed to hate small penises. I certainly don't blame women for feeling that way. I imagine they get less pleasurable sensations from thin ones. But before you start loudly and proudly throwing around phrases like "Small dick energy",
