I'm getting worried that the girl I'm falling in love with is potentially hiding things from me.

Could this be a possibility?


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Jfl that hoe has been getting ganged by BBC back home and in uni while you’re hoping on wifing her 🤣 anyone with over 80 iq knows the only time to marry is to moneymaxx till 40s then marry some village virgin, no hope for marrying a virgin at your age unless you’re lucky enough to be from Pakistan or some shit like Salludon, i’m sorry bro it’s over 💔😭☝️
 
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Jfl that hoe has been getting ganged by BBC back home and in uni while you’re hoping on wifing her 🤣 anyone with over 80 iq knows the only time to marry is to moneymaxx till 40s then marry some village virgin, no hope for marrying a virgin at your age unless you’re lucky enough to be from Pakistan or some shit like Salludon, i’m sorry bro it’s over 💔😭☝️
I want a wife within a couple of years.
 
If you are scared to lose her, you already lost her
 
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What I mean by that it's that your fear to lose her will dry her up. Just don't let her know about that fear
 
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After Iftar, my dad told me about how back in his country, girls who are friends with/are mutual with those who are well-off or connected with a Western ex-pat sometimes get invited to secret, drug-fuelled parties where they can get access to illegal alcohol they make themselves. Rampant sex and orgies are very common at such parties.

My father, who is conservative and took his clean lifestyle from home to the UK, has never been to such parties but one of his family members (who is also conservative) said he sometimes watches such loud, noisy, and annoying parties from the window of his home taking place, and gets information about such parties from his friends.

I felt nauseated and even wanted to cry because of what he told me. So far the girl I'm seeing and am in talks with to hopefully make my wife one day (she's from my dad's country of origin) is looking really promising but what if she's ever done things like this before, whether back home or at university?

Neither of us are even from even a remotely well-off background (I'm lower-middle class) but who knows if she's hiding something from me that she doesn't want to own up to? I feel so terrified.

She's so perfect, so cute and so sweet I really don't want to lose her.

With the exception of me losing my virginity at 23 and having sex just with one girl in my life (she cheated/betrayed me after giving me the illusion that she was everything I wanted, and I chose to split up with her only after two months because of her toxicity), I've lived a very clean, conservative life, free from pork, alcohol, drugs, and smoking. I'm currently repenting. I've been fasting every day so far this Ramadan.

Should I talk to her about these parties casually or should I just let it slip? Who knows if she did stuff like this in secret and is hiding it from her family, me and my family?
@SecularIslamist I will not reveal the country but it's a conservative one. I also feel the future generations of girls to come out of that country will probably be even more degenerate than the Malays and Albanians because of you know who, when it starts to open up and all.
 
@SecularIslamist I will not reveal the country but it's a conservative one. I also feel the future generations of girls to come out of that country will probably be even more degenerate than the Malays and Albanians because of you know who, when it starts to open up and all.
A conservative Arab country that is supposedly secularising really narrows it down. Any of the gulf countries or Egypt I presume.

Truth is you'll never know. Most Muslims (including myself) won't disclose it, I've had sex before and won't mention it either tbh. Depending on her age as long as it was casual and 1-2 guys very short term I see no harm.

The right age to want a virgin was young. Every passing year makes the pool of virgins available smaller and smaller.

I still want virgin though 😢
 
No girl past 17 is a virgin.
 
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A conservative Arab country that is supposedly secularising really narrows it down. Any of the gulf countries or Egypt I presume.
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Truth is you'll never know. Most Muslims (including myself) won't disclose it, I've had sex before and won't mention it either tbh. Depending on her age as long as it was casual and 1-2 guys very short term I see no harm.
I've told the girl I like my N count (1) but repenting. I said I suffered heartbreak from the girl who turned out to lie so hard and was a cheat, and that it was only a short term relationship. She and her family surprisingly were okay! However the girl I'm seeing claims she's a virgin.
The right age to want a virgin was young. Every passing year makes the pool of virgins available smaller and smaller.

I still want virgin though 😢
 
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I've told the girl I like my N count (1) but repenting. I said I suffered heartbreak from the girl who turned out to lie so hard and was a cheat, and that it was only a short term relationship. She and her family surprisingly were okay! However the girl I'm seeing claims she's a virgin.
If she didn't admit anything after you said you weren't a virgin that's a good sign.

I mean even if she said she had a bf but didn't 'do anything's would be a red flag.

As a 28 year old I will say in the past like secondary school and uni I had short term relationships. But will say something like they were kisses and hugs. Won't ever admit having sex.

If she didn't say something like this. I assume it's a green flag.
 
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If she didn't admit anything after you said you weren't a virgin that's a good sign.
Yay!
I mean even if she said she had a bf but didn't 'do anything's would be a red flag.
To be fair I have a body count of 1 and I'm not a virgin so I wouldn't mind as long as her body count doesn't exceed 3.
As a 28 year old I will say in the past like secondary school and uni I had short term relationships. But will say something like they were kisses and hugs. Won't ever admit having sex.
I admitted it and surprisingly she took it well
If she didn't say something like this. I assume it's a green flag.
 
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I admitted it and surprisingly she took it well
Because you're Chad and she's more surprised it's not 20+.

At the same time once she finds out you're a mentalcel shell understand why jfl
 
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Because you're Chad
Thank you!
and she's more surprised it's not 20+.
JFL well she did say she did talk to a couple of other guys before through her friends but was upset that a lot of them weren't actually looking to settle down, but to sleep around and "do haram things". She said she's glad she's talking to someone who values monogamy and marriage and it's a pleasant surprise.
At the same time once she finds out you're a mentalcel shell understand why jfl
She already knows I'm diagnosed with level 1 autism but told me she doesn't mind that at all. I felt so happy she told me that.
 
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Thank you!

JFL well she did say she did talk to a couple of other guys before through her friends but was upset that a lot of them weren't actually looking to settle down, but to sleep around and "do haram things". She said she's glad she's talking to someone who values monogamy and marriage and it's a pleasant surprise.

She already knows I'm diagnosed with level 1 autism but told me she doesn't mind that at all. I felt so happy she told me that.
Sounds like my sister - except without ego.

Don't know how religious you are but as long as she's not overly haram police type or salafi mentality should be fine inshallah.

You've got nothing to complain about at this stage tbh. Her looks / career should be weighingore on your decision. You can never know if a girl has a previous life as a whore.
 
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Sounds like my sister - except without ego.
What is she like?
Don't know how religious you are
Moderately religious, very conservative.
but as long as she's not overly haram police type or salafi mentality should be fine inshallah.
Shoukran!
You've got nothing to complain about at this stage tbh.
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Her looks / career should be weighingore on your decision.
Very well educated and HTB
You can never know if a girl has a previous life as a whore.
I hope she wasn't.
 
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Falling in love isn’t a good idea bro. It’s okay to have love for a girl but stay logical and never put a girl on a pedestal. If she isn’t right for you you can’t be affraid to leave or your fucked.
 
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30 yo virgin. She's been in quarantine and lockdown since her 16th birthday. Some have rated her MTB/HTB here. Genuinely paki/MENA passing - I think she self-hates like most south Asians.

That's ideal.

Nigga you've hit jackpot.
Thank you!
 
 
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Thank you!

JFL well she did say she did talk to a couple of other guys before through her friends but was upset that a lot of them weren't actually looking to settle down, but to sleep around and "do haram things". She said she's glad she's talking to someone who values monogamy and marriage and it's a pleasant surprise.

She already knows I'm diagnosed with level 1 autism but told me she doesn't mind that at all. I felt so happy she told me that.
Looks >>>> NT
 
Falling in love with her
And that's where you lose, man, if you mean legit love.
Psychologically vulnerable position, obsession and delusion.
 
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30 yo virgin. She's been in quarantine and lockdown since her 16th birthday. Some have rated her MTB/HTB here. Genuinely paki/MENA passing - I think she self-hates like most south Asians.

That's ideal.

Nigga you've hit jackpot.
Caged at the "30 year old virgin" part. :feelskek:
 

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