I'm really bad socially with new people usually

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Since i got my girl who's giga social and talkative i've tried to copy her in some instances and failed brutally. When my uncle asked me how i was doing i told him some stuff and then asked him how he was doing, then he just went quiet for like 2 sec and asked me about my bike. Its like wtf am i doing wrong.
 
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You're socially retarded. Stop talking so much online and more irl and it will help.
 
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You're socially retarded. Stop talking so much online and more irl and it will help.
I'm mentally crippled from years of being a skinny khhv bullied manlet and trying to be nice with bad feedback so that now that i have everything i need to be a social and friendly person i cant rly use it.
 
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just be cool :y'all:
 
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Since i got my girl who's giga social and talkative i've tried to copy her in some instances and failed brutally. When my uncle asked me how i was doing i told him some stuff and then asked him how he was doing, then he just went quiet for like 2 sec and asked me about my bike. Its like wtf am i doing wrong.
Best advice I ever got on this was to actually (at least pretend) to be curious about someone and ask them good questions instead of just pointless small talk
 
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Best advice I ever got on this was to actually (at least pretend) to be curious about someone and ask them good questions instead of just pointless small talk
I think this is what makes it work for extroverted people. They're genuinly interested like my girl for example she really wants to get to know my family so she asks them like a million questions and make them feel all special meanwhile i never talk to hers if i have a choice because i find those kinds of convos rly boring and i'm also scared of fucking up by being weird/boring.
 
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I think this is what makes it work for extroverted people. They're genuinly interested like my girl for example she really wants to get to know my family so she asks them like a million questions and make them feel all special meanwhile i never talk to hers if i have a choice because i find those kinds of convos rly boring and i'm also scared of fucking up by being weird/boring.
That’s your problem then, it’ll never come naturally to you I doubt (I agree with you it’s boring and idgaf about most people) but practicing this will make it a lot easier
 
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That’s your problem then, it’ll never come naturally to you I doubt (I agree with you it’s boring and idgaf about most people) but practicing this will make it a lot easier
Having a personality like hers makes me think she could possibly make it even though she literally studies music in high school without even wanting to work with music like just lol.
 
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Having a personality like hers makes me think she could possibly make it even though she literally studies music in high school without even wanting to work with music like just lol.
Yeah it definitely helps a lot in all areas of life, a friend of mines dad is hyper nt and has become a big stockholder in a bunch of big companies and managed to get bandokays (drill rapper from east London) number on his phone lol
 
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Hard to be social if you aren't interested in the topic/people.
 
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It's because you're a high T real man. You really think men in the 50s would start small talk with people and mindlessly continue conversations? That's the girl's job. Take note of the beginning of this music video to see how high T men treat their girl's parents:

 
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It's because you're a high T real man. You really think men in the 50s would start small talk with people and mindlessly continue conversations? That's the girl's job. Take note of the beginning of this music video to see how high T men treat their girl's parents:


U might be right bcuz when i thought of people who are super social but male i could only think of one guy i know and he's high e while if i think of girls i can name a dousin
 
Women can talk forever about nothing, men only talk about something.
 
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just look at how the average man's behavior changes as soon as a foid enters the room and talks about bullshit

don't work for you
 
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then asked him how he was doing
You only ask this question if you have the upper hand in a conversation. Also if you have already given a response to something prior to asking this, you should wait for the person to give feedback to your response or at least wait a second, then ask this

Never manufacture a personal conversation beforehand, just read the room and be confident. If there's a few seconds pause then who cares, think of a question you would like to ask and ask it. Don't just ask for the sake of asking. My 2 cents
 
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