I’m turning 30 this year

[Gengar]

you're not being left out of anything, if anything you're ahead of everyone in life, you're living a life most people would dream of having, love you brocel, and i'm glad that i've had the privilege of meeting you
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i'm sorry for spamming you on everything.. i just got super worried, i thought you were sick or dead or something terrible.. also happy early bday brocel!!!

I love you too brother! Thank you so much. No worries, I don’t think you are spamming or anything. And your perspective on my situation is interesting. And thanks bhai, my birthday is on 2 December though, like Jordan Barrett and Gio Scotti.

 

[Gengar]

It’s when a slim chance of ascension turns to no chance

I see. Well, how do we define ascension? Because I’m definitely staying ugly and most likely will get uglier like everyone else does.

 

[Gengar]

Geen probleem bro, op je 30e begint je leven pas.

Voor degene die hun leven al op orde hebben. Die hebben dan al een diploma, een baan, en dergelijke. Ik heb dat allemaal niet. Doe goed je best bhai, en kom niet in mijn situatie terecht.

 

[Deleted member 52405]

Tales from Amsterdam's red-light districts. OP is a chadpreet high T Paki BVLL mogger.

 

[pprimus43]

I see. Well, how do we define ascension? Because I’m definitely staying ugly and most likely will get uglier like everyone else does.

Loving Girlfriend that you are attracted to

 

[Gengar]

turning 26 this year its fair to say im really ashamed of myself people my age have a stable good job a girl degree and probably soon will have kids but at least they dont have 10000 plus posts here

Hey man, I’m currently 29 and honestly I don’t feel any shame whatsoever. You shouldn’t worry about what others think of you.

 

[nuisance]

Why 5-7 years? Isn’t it already too late at 25+?

median age to marry is around 30 years old, for school and jobs and shit its pretty much never to late.

Its definitely doable at 30, just need to get out of this rut as fast as possible. We are rooting for you gang

 

[PsychoDsk]

you got me brocel, you got the forum, don't compare yourself to others, i'd say you're doing just fine, aslong as you're having fun in life, honestly having a job, wife, kids is all overrated, i bet if the married people could switch life with you they would in an instant, they're stressed out from their relationships, bills, and kids, while you're here, with almost zero stress

ALSO IM SO HAPPY YOURE OKAY I THOUGHT YOU DIED OR SOMETHING BROCEL!!!! IM BACK HOME TOO!! WE CAN WATCH SQUID GAME TOGETHER!!!

Unironically yea

No one knows what they’re doing with their lives and no one is happy. Everyone desires a life that isn’t their own

 

[Gengar]

Tales from Amsterdam's red-light districts. OP is a chadpreet high T Paki BVLL mogger.

I’m a 29 year old dateless KHHV truecel from Rotterdam.

 

[got.daim]

I love you too brother! Thank you so much. No worries, I don’t think you are spamming or anything. And your perspective on my situation is interesting. And thanks bhai, my birthday is on 2 December though, like Jordan Barrett and Gio Scotti.

shoot.. sorry.. happy late BDAY i guess...
sorry that i didn't get you a present

 

[Gengar]

Loving Girlfriend that you are attracted to

I don’t think women are capable of liking me due to my genetics (pheromones play a role in attraction and I have a gene mutation that stops me from producing as much body odor as everyone else, so women don’t pick up on my pheromones). Don’t think I will have this.

 

[pprimus43]

median age to marry is around 30 years old, for school and jobs and shit its pretty much never to late.

Its definitely doable at 30, just need to get out of this rut as fast as possible. We are rooting for you gang

That’s facts. It’s not too late yet, time is ticking but there’s still a chance

 

[pprimus43]

I don’t think women are capable of liking me due to my genetics (pheromones play a role in attraction and I have a gene mutation that stops me from producing as much body odor as everyone else, so women don’t pick up on my pheromones). Don’t think I will have this.

I hope you find a way Bhai

 

[Gengar]

median age to marry is around 30 years old, for school and jobs and shit its pretty much never to late.

Its definitely doable at 30, just need to get out of this rut as fast as possible. We are rooting for you gang

In my culture, 30 is considered very late. Most people marry or are at least engaged in their 20s. That said, I have kinda lost interest in women. Thank you for the support though.

 

[Gengar]

Unironically yea

No one knows what they’re doing with their lives and no one is happy. Everyone desires a life that isn’t their own

True. Even people who have it all sometimes end up roping. Goes to show you can be attractive, rich, talented, famous and still it won’t be enough.

 

[Gengar]

shoot.. sorry.. happy late BDAY i guess...
sorry that i didn't get you a present

Thank you bhai, and no worries — I don’t celebrate my birthday. And I don’t like receiving gifts (I do like giving gifts though ). Thanks though!

 

[AverageMoroccan]

Voor degene die hun leven al op orde hebben. Die hebben dan al een diploma, een baan, en dergelijke. Ik heb dat allemaal niet. Doe goed je best bhai, en kom niet in mijn situatie terecht.

Tis nooit te laat, mss een beetje te prive maar mijn pa begon zijn leven pas op zijn 40ste en nu leeft ie een gelukkige leven en heeft eindelijk een familie

 

[Gengar]

I hope you find a way Bhai

I don’t know if I will, but I’ll take it a day at a time. Thanks brother.

 

[pprimus43]

I don’t know if I will, but I’ll take it a day at a time. Thanks brother.

As long as you smile in the face of this mad world, you’re a winner at the end of the day

 

[Gengar]

Tis nooit te laat, mss een beetje te prive maar mijn pa begon zijn leven pas op zijn 40ste en nu leeft ie een gelukkige leven en heeft eindelijk een familie

Wow, dat hoor je ook niet zo vaak. Wel fijn om te horen dat hij het heeft kunnen regelen! Ikzelf wil geen familie, ik wil namelijk geen kinderen.

 

[Daddy's Home]

Don't worry.. It's been over since day 1, and given that no one has been able to change that so far, no one will be able to that in the future..

Now it's just the middle of the process. You have a couple years before you reach half the life expectancy of the country. This whole thing called life doesn't last much longer at this point..

What was easy, childhood, adolescence, youth.. are all over now.. What is hard is now to come: getting old, sickness, illness, helplessness, loneliness, isolation, gradual loss of friends and relatives, etc.

It will be quite difficult from here on.. and unfortunately in the end, neither was it worth it or mattered..

 

[Gengar]

As long as you smile in the face of this mad world, you’re a winner at the end of the day

I smile literally everyday of my life, even though I have no reason to. I’m a peculiar person. I only do it when I’m socializing, though. Whether in real life or online. I can’t stop doing it, it’s literally out of my control most of the time. Wish I could stop doing it though, at least it would reflect my true emotions better.

 

[Gengar]

Don't worry.. It's been over since day 1, and given that no one has been able to change that so far, no one will be able to that in the future..

Now it's just the middle of the process. You have a couple years before you reach half the life expectancy of the country. This whole thing called life doesn't last much longer at this point..

What was easy, childhood, adolescence, youth.. are all over now.. What is hard is now to come: getting old, sickness, illness, helplessness, loneliness, isolation, gradual loss of friends and relatives, etc.

It will be quite difficult from here on.. and unfortunately in the end, neither was it worth it or mattered..

I appreciate the pep talk my friend, yes you’re right. Things are only going to get worse from here. I already have spent much of my time thinking about what lies ahead and it ain’t roses and sunshine. Such is life, buddy. Such is life.

 

[AverageMoroccan]

Wow, dat hoor je ook niet zo vaak. Wel fijn om te horen dat hij het heeft kunnen regelen! Ikzelf wil geen familie, ik wil namelijk geen kinderen.

Snap ik, kinderen kosten veel tijd en moeite

 

[Gengar]

Snap ik, kinderen kosten veel tijd en moeite

Dat niet alleen, ze zullen ook moeilijkheden meemaken, mij moeten missen wanneer ik er niet meer ben en op een dag sterven. Ik wil dat alles vermijden.

 

[ThraxxGlo]

Mirin, I didn’t know you knew about this band. I discovered them years ago.

when i said "have a nice life"
it came up in my mind so i just sent it
gl fellow paki

 

[MaghrebGator]

turning 26 this year its fair to say im really ashamed of myself people my age have a stable good job a girl degree and probably soon will have kids but at least they dont have 10000 plus posts here

Life has it's consolations son. Show them all your trophies and platinums in your PSN account during the next dinner you all have together, make it clear to them WHO IS THE BOSS!

 

[Foreverbrad]

Jobs and degrees don’t really matter, they’re just a way to get money.

I hate this feeling of being behind normies, it makes me feel bad even though my rational self is screaming at me that I don’t even want what they have!

 

[AverageMoroccan]

Dat niet alleen, ze zullen ook moeilijkheden meemaken, mij moeten missen wanneer ik er niet meer ben en op een dag sterven. Ik wil dat alles vermijden.

Idd kwil dit ook nooit meemaken maar zo is het leven, iedereen gaat moeten sterven ookal wil je het niet.

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

Leaving this forum won’t do anything.

I thought u left i missed you my ghost type Pokémon

 

[Deleted member 15778]

In my culture, 30 is considered very late. Most people marry or are at least engaged in their 20s. That said, I have kinda lost interest in women. Thank you for the support though.

True. Even people who have it all sometimes end up roping. Goes to show you can be attractive, rich, talented, famous and still it won’t be enough.

Desiring what you don't have causes suffering.

Savoring what you do have is the only way to fulfillment. + healthmaxing + moneymaxing

 

[MaghrebGator]

turning 26 this year its fair to say im really ashamed of myself people my age have a stable good job a girl degree and probably soon will have kids but at least they dont have 10000 plus posts here

Nah but in all seriousness, forget about this and just focus on yourself and your potential advancement 100%. It's all you can do, grieving is something that is painful and barely has any return if any, and you can't just focus on other people unless you use it as a motivation for the goal mentioned above, which is focusing on yourself.

It's like people who touch the ceiling at MTN or High LTN or whatever it might be. Man, stop grieving and just focus on accepting and mantaining what you have achieved, the rest is all a waste of time and all you are doing is hurting yourself.

 

[khann]

Its never too late bhai. Ur still young

 

[Deleted member 72469]

Maybe it’s time to delete your account and start doing something with your life.

Leaving this forum won't magically fix ur life

 

[khann]

Well, the problem is that I don’t want children and in my culture, people only marry to start a family.

Cant u just pretend to be infertile?

 

[SoundnVision]

Well come to the dirty thirtys fella !
Life only got better for me in my 30s

 

[Gengar]

when i said "have a nice life"
it came up in my mind so i just sent it
gl fellow paki

Thanks. What kind of Pakistani are you btw?

 

[Gengar]

Life has it's consolations son. Show them all your trophies and platinums in your PSN account during the next dinner you all have together, make it clear to them WHO IS THE BOSS!

Mirin your mentality, Maghreb bhai.

 

[Hernan]

God-willing. Life’s moving so fast and I’m being left behind. People my age and younger are married, got university degrees, have jobs. I ain’t got shit.

damn, I see you as my future self. I have recently come to accept my bitchlessness but i'm never quitting looksmax.
After a profound analysis i can literally be a model, all i need before that point is to have been looksmaxed and used my growth stack to grow more. My insomnia could soon be starting to cuck my heightmaxxing but God by my side that aint happening.
Also you can still always hmu when you're in Antwerpen for a meetup.

 

[Gengar]

Jobs and degrees don’t really matter, they’re just a way to get money.

In the Netherlands, you can’t get any job you want unless you have a university degree for it. Or even if you don’t have the correct university degree, you can still land a good job because you have a degree. I don’t have it, so for me it’s definitely a lot more difficult to make enough money. I don’t wish to become rich but even something as simple as becoming a hotel receptionist requires having a degree in hoteling. Or whatever they call it.

I hate this feeling of being behind normies, it makes me feel bad even though my rational self is screaming at me that I don’t even want what they have!

Exactly. I can relate to what you are saying here. Perhaps it’s because we have become brainwashed by society.

 

[ThraxxGlo]

Thanks. What kind of Pakistani are you btw?

punjabi
u?

 

[Gengar]

Idd kwil dit ook nooit meemaken maar zo is het leven, iedereen gaat moeten sterven ookal wil je het niet.

Precies. Daarom kies ik er bewust voor om het te voorkomen, door geen kinderen te willen. Alleen betaal ik wel een grote prijs hiervoor, want welke islamitische vrouw wil nou iemand die geen familie wilt starten? Ze trouwen juist zodat ze kinderen kunnen krijgen.

 

[Gengar]

I thought u left i missed you my ghost type Pokémon

Thanks bhaijaan, no I didn’t leave. Just some days I don’t log into the forum.

 

[Gengar]

Desiring what you don't have causes suffering.

I agree. Without desires, there’s no suffering. Now I feel a loooooooooot less bad about my situation than when I had a oneitis I was longing for.

Savoring what you do have is the only way to fulfillment. + healthmaxing + moneymaxing

Agreed, but I have no way to do moneymaxxing either, nor am I interested.

 

[Gengar]

Nah but in all seriousness, forget about this and just focus on yourself and your potential advancement 100%. It's all you can do, grieving is something that is painful and barely has any return if any, and you can't just focus on other people unless you use it as a motivation for the goal mentioned above, which is focusing on yourself.

It's like people who touch the ceiling at MTN or High LTN or whatever it might be. Man, stop grieving and just focus on accepting and mantaining what you have achieved, the rest is all a waste of time and all you are doing is hurting yourself.

Keeping it real like always.

 

[Gengar]

Its never too late bhai. Ur still young

Thanks bhai. Yes, technically I’m still young (objectively speaking), but I have pretty much lost my motivation and drive. Should have gotten my shit together sooner, tbh.

 

[Gengar]

Leaving this forum won't magically fix ur life

Precisely. I have left this forum for months in the past and it didn’t do anything.

 

[Gengar]

Cant u just pretend to be infertile?

Pretty sure I’m very virile. The downsides of being a Pak BVLL.

 

[Deleted member 113182]

Heads up G never too late <3

 

[Gengar]

Well come to the dirty thirtys fella !
Life only got better for me in my 30s

That’s awesome, man. I’m glad it got better for you. What kind of changed did you make in your 30s, if you don’t mind telling? Feel free to PM if you don’t like it being public.