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You don't need to be more muscular, with the physique you have now, you should be good enough, getting bigger wouldn't turn you into a Chad, it would help, but it wouldn't fix all your problems.I already have all my noobie gains. Been lifting for 3 years and started off at 170 lbs and now am 215 lbs. Problem is that I need to be like 250 lbs to have Dolph Lundgren's physique and also very lean which is impossible natty.
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If you struggle with online dating, it's either because you don't show off your muscles, or you do it in a douchey way.
Don't take selfies, don't take pictures in a bathroom, and try to make your pictures interesting by standing out from the rest.
Having female friends in your pictures helps a lot, or just having some male friends is ok too and definitely way better than being alone in every picture.
Of course, for some guys, no matter how good their pictures are, they will still struggle with women, but in your case, you should be getting a lot of success, if you're not, it's because your pictures suck. In my case, just fixing my pictures has given me a lot of matches but not a lot of responses in messages because like a moron, I followed a template that I found online instead of trying to be genuine, and I didn't try it for a long enough period of time.
Also, if you really struggle to take good pictures or you don't have any friends, then you should go out to a bar or a club in the real world and try your luck there by talking to women. If you're tall and you're muscular, you will mog most of the guys there, as long as you show off your muscles by wearing clothes that fit you well and as long as you actually approach women and talk to them.
If I'm not mistaken, you once told me that you tried approaching girls during the day and they saw you as a creep, but that is because day game doesn't really work most of the time, unless the woman shows that she is already interested. If you go out often at night to bars and clubs, you will have way more opportunities than if you just try to talk to women during the day.
The reason why I don't do it myself is because I live very far from the bars and the clubs and it would be very difficult for me to find parking in the middle of the city, so I would need to take public transportation, from somewhere and leave my car there for a long time. In total, I would need around 1 hour just to get to the city, and from there I would have to find the right bar and my other problem is that I don't have much money to spend like that, so I need to wait until I find a job.
The more that I think about it, the more I am starting to realize that even if I was looksmaxxed, I might still struggle with online dating while right now, I could have some success if I went out to a bar in the city. So that is what I am going to attempt before the end of 2021, before the government tries to create another quarantine.