Impossible to escalate. Any good guides?

[Ken]

Now that my acne cleared up I started going on dates again. Its the same thing every time we just have a boring conversation and I tell them I need to leave. Females want to keep going on dates until I attempt to escalate. Once I make an attempt they lose all interest. I have attempted to escalate on 4 girls and every time it ruined things. Also not escalating after too many dates has ruined me.

I have a genuine fear of escalating. I get nervous and rush things. I could have had a gf by now if I knew how to escalate.

@New Poster
I need your Chadvice Ep. 3 video,

 

[Deleted member 20370]

you should escalate on the third date at the latest.

Females want to keep going on dates until I attempt to escalate. Once I make an attempt they lose all interest.

this is strange, would love to see your face tbh

 

[robtical]

There is no trick to escalation. Its matter of girl's obedience to your advances. Grope her, kiss her/ask her for it. If she doesn't comply, move on.

 

[Ken]

you should escalate on the third date at the latest.

Is it different if you are going for LTR vs STR/ONS?

 

[Deleted member 20370]

Is it different if you are going for LTR vs STR/ONS?

no

 

[Deleted member 20370]

I have attempted to escalate on 4 girls and every time it ruined things.

elab? did you try on the first date? dud they ghost you? i need context

 

[Deleted member 33826]

Why dont u invite them back to ur place and escalate there. Why tf would u escalate in public. U have ur convos, and if she seem interested, invite her to ur crib. If she seems neutral, u can still invite her to ur place. I mean whats the worst outcome? She prob just gonna say she is busy or she cant and thats it. But if she can, she will join u. Then when u get back to ur crib, u can drink some alcohol and continue talking or for example turn on a movie from netflix, get closer to each other in bed and try kissing her when ur close. IF she resist, act like it never happened and try again after 20 min. Eventually, she will kiss u cuz maybe she was just testing u at the start. Anyway, once u kiss, start putting ur hands and arms around her body, booty and her tits. If she reciprocate, u continue until u guys are undressed and thats when u know ur getting laid.

 

[Ken]

elab? did you try on the first date? dud they ghost you? i need context

1. 20 year old. I attempted to kiss her at the end of the 2nd date but she turned her head. She kept texting me and we went on a few more dates but I never tried to escalate again. I stopped asking her out and she removed me off social media.

2. 18 year old. I attempted to kiss on the first date. She got mad and said not on the first date. She told me afterwards she just wanted to be friends and ghosted me.

3. 19 year old. My semi-oneitis, she had just told me she liked me. I gave her a hug and was about to leave but I decided to attempt a kiss. She turned her head. I went on a few more dates but I could tell she didnt like me anymore. She slowly ghosted me.

4. 23 year old. I attempted to kiss at the end of the 2nd date. She kept calling me weird for not attempting to escalate. I actually got a peck on the lips and she texted me after saying she had a good time. I never asked her out again she was a giga-slut.

 

[Ken]

Why dont u invite them back to ur place and escalate there. Why tf would u escalate in public. U have ur convos, and if she seem interested, invite her to ur crib. If she seems neutral, u can still invite her to ur place. I mean whats the worst outcome? She prob just gonna say she is busy or she cant and thats it. But if she can, she will join u. Then when u get back to ur crib, u can drink some alcohol and continue talking or for example turn on a movie from netflix, get closer to each other in bed and try kissing her when ur close. IF she resist, act like it never happened and try again after 20 min. Eventually, she will kiss u cuz maybe she was just testing u at the start. Anyway, once u kiss, start putting ur hands and arms around her body, booty and her tits. If she reciprocate, u continue until u guys are undressed and thats when u know ur getting laid.

I dont have my own place. Its too expensive. Having my own place would definitely make it a lot easier.

 

[Deleted member 33826]

I dont have my own place. Its too expensive. Having my own place would definitely make it a lot easier.

then get a hotel room? Another possible solution is to ask her if u guys could watch a movie at her place, she will take the hint and if she really wants u, she would invite u even if her parents may be at home, though it varies

 

[Ken]

then get a hotel room? Another possible solution is to ask her if u guys could watch a movie at her place, she will take the hint and if she really wants u, she would invite u even if her parents may be at home, though it varies

Yeah I actually had a female invite me over once but I got scared and left. Its hard to find those. If I ever get another opportunity like that I wont ruin it.

Had chance to lose my virginity but couldnt. EMBARRASSING! Officialy a mentalcel

I woke up and noticed an HQNP girl I had messaged on social media had left me on read. I felt extremely depressed and tired of all the rejection, so I decided to message a slutty black girl I had matched with on OLD. I asked her out to go get some fast food. I planned to just have a conversation...

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[Deleted member 20370]

1. 20 year old. I attempted to kiss her at the end of the 2nd date but she turned her head. She kept texting me and we went on a few more dates but I never tried to escalate again. I stopped asking her out and she removed me off social media.

2. 18 year old. I attempted to kiss on the first date. She got mad and said not on the first date. She told me afterwards she just wanted to be friends and ghosted me.

3. 19 year old. My semi-oneitis, she had just told me she liked me. I gave her a hug and was about to leave but I decided to attempt a kiss. She turned her head. I went on a few more dates but I could tell she didnt like me anymore. She slowly ghosted me.

4. 23 year old. I attempted to kiss at the end of the 2nd date. She kept calling me weird for not attempting to escalate. I actually got a peck on the lips and she texted me after saying she had a good time. I never asked her out again she was a giga-slut.

so you basically rejected the only girl that wanted you? classic

 

[robtical]

1. 20 year old. I attempted to kiss her at the end of the 2nd date but she turned her head. She kept texting me and we went on a few more dates but I never tried to escalate again. I stopped asking her out and she removed me off social media.

2. 18 year old. I attempted to kiss on the first date. She got mad and said not on the first date. She told me afterwards she just wanted to be friends and ghosted me.

3. 19 year old. My semi-oneitis, she had just told me she liked me. I gave her a hug and was about to leave but I decided to attempt a kiss. She turned her head. I went on a few more dates but I could tell she didnt like me anymore. She slowly ghosted me.

4. 23 year old. I attempted to kiss at the end of the 2nd date. She kept calling me weird for not attempting to escalate. I actually got a peck on the lips and she texted me after saying she had a good time. I never asked her out again she was a giga-slut.

If she gets mad for "not on first date", she is not attracted to you. She is grooming you to be betabux and jestermax.

 

[Deleted member 20370]

nigga how tf are you still struggling with this so hard jfl

 

[Deleted member 28117]

nigga how tf are you still struggling with this so hard jfl

because of the most important things in life : face and height

 

[JohnDoe]

Chad doesn't take no for an answer. Over if not chad

 

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[youth]

1. 20 year old. I attempted to kiss her at the end of the 2nd date but she turned her head. She kept texting me and we went on a few more dates but I never tried to escalate again. I stopped asking her out and she removed me off social media.

2. 18 year old. I attempted to kiss on the first date. She got mad and said not on the first date. She told me afterwards she just wanted to be friends and ghosted me.

3. 19 year old. My semi-oneitis, she had just told me she liked me. I gave her a hug and was about to leave but I decided to attempt a kiss. She turned her head. I went on a few more dates but I could tell she didnt like me anymore. She slowly ghosted me.

4. 23 year old. I attempted to kiss at the end of the 2nd date. She kept calling me weird for not attempting to escalate. I actually got a peck on the lips and she texted me after saying she had a good time. I never asked her out again she was a giga-slut.

Do you notice any patterns after every attempt? Where are you? What was the conversation before the attempt? It seems like you are just trying to give them a kiss out of nowhere, that shit is a big ick for them and they could possibly just ghost you after (it happened).

Looking at number 2, it seems like the dates themselves aren't going too well. She already decided that she doesn't want you DURING the date. It's obvious that her saying 'not the first date' was just an excuse to stop you from escalating even further. You already fucked up and she was frustrated not knowing how to leave ASAP without being rude. Might be a stretch, but her instantly friend zoning + ghosting you make this very believable.

You said it yourself, every date is just a 'boring conversation'. Take her somewhere fun, somewhere romantic, don't be late, etc. Build the bond from the start of the date. First impressions are EVERYTHING. It's very obvious when a girl wants you to kiss her. For example, her lingering in the car before you drop her off is a tell-tale sign. Escalate from there. You gotta put in more effort brother.

 

[traveler]

are u escalating in public or in a private 1 on 1 setting?

what i found works is kissing their neck to make them horny and grabbing their ass cheeks

 

[rand anon]

weren’t u semi successful awhile back? What worked then?

 

[Ken]

weren’t u semi successful awhile back? What worked then?

I was succesful in getting dates, never in escalating.

 

[Ken]

are u escalating in public or in a private 1 on 1 setting?

what i found works is kissing their neck to make them horny and grabbing their ass cheeks

In public but usually always isolated from other people. 2 were in a park at night, 1 was in a parking lot at night, the other was in my car (the one that didnt reject me).

 

[Ken]

Do you notice any patterns after every attempt? Where are you? What was the conversation before the attempt? It seems like you are just trying to give them a kiss out of nowhere, that shit is a big ick for them and they could possibly just ghost you after (it happened).

Looking at number 2, it seems like the dates themselves aren't going too well. She already decided that she doesn't want you DURING the date. It's obvious that her saying 'not the first date' was just an excuse to stop you from escalating even further. You already fucked up and she was frustrated not knowing how to leave ASAP without being rude. Might be a stretch, but her instantly friend zoning + ghosting you make this very believable.

You said it yourself, every date is just a 'boring conversation'. Take her somewhere fun, somewhere romantic, don't be late, etc. Build the bond from the start of the date. First impressions are EVERYTHING. It's very obvious when a girl wants you to kiss her. For example, her lingering in the car before you drop her off is a tell-tale sign. Escalate from there. You gotta put in more effort brother.

Yeah I would try randomly. We would be talking about random stuff.

For example, her lingering in the car before you drop her off is a tell-tale sign. Escalate from there. You gotta put in more effort brother.

The last girl I went out with did that but I was too scared to try. She is still texting me.

 

[ItsOver999]

Females want to keep going on dates until I attempt to escalate.

i dont get it, so they just want u to pay for their dinner and they have no interest in u? U r probably ugly then

 

[Deleted member 31931]

Now that my acne cleared up I started going on dates again. Its the same thing every time we just have a boring conversation and I tell them I need to leave. Females want to keep going on dates until I attempt to escalate. Once I make an attempt they lose all interest. I have attempted to escalate on 4 girls and every time it ruined things. Also not escalating after too many dates has ruined me.

I have a genuine fear of escalating. I get nervous and rush things. I could have had a gf by now if I knew how to escalate.

@New Poster
I need your Chadvice Ep. 3 video,

we need to know how you do so maybe its too forward and aggressive

 

[Deleted member 31562]

you have to work your way up this is not the movies where you kiss her at the end and all is good

when you greet her give her a hug right away you so you break the ice

as your date goes on you advance little by little (make excuses to touch her like comparing hands)

you can touch her thighs here and there as well as her shoulder but work your way up slowly and then kiss when it feels natural

after the kiss go for a make out and grab her ass/tits while your kissing and try to fuck

you probably come across as a cuck which is why they don’t even kiss you

 

[SEPRAY]

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[Ken]

Just got back from a date with an 18 year old landwhale. She suggested we go to a secluded park. We were sitting on the bench and she was just staring at me but I did nothing. ITS OVER!

 

[New Poster]

You should be escalating at least by the end of a date. If you're getting ghosted after that, there's not much you can do. You may be acting weird in some way irl, but there's no way of knowing unless I could see you interact with women.