Impossible to live in the present.

[MoggerGaston]

Without accepting the past. Which I can't.

How the fuck do you accept the past?

 

[Deleted member 14693]

What do you mean accept?

 

[Deleted member 29710]

That's the fun part : you never do. You live with the regret until you get lowered into the coffin

 

[khvirgin]

What do you mean accept?

In his case he means forgetting.

 

[Deleted member 14693]

In his case he means forgetting.

Well, thats obviously impossible

 

[MoggerGaston]

What do you mean accept?

Example: Humans treated me like utter shit when I was young. Such as my abusive parents, or my peers because I was 3PSL fat truecel.

In the present I still feel this pain every day and I can't forget/accept it. It makes me avoid people and think very negatively about people and the world around me.

Even though I already removed my family from my life ages ago, and I am no longer that ugly that people openly treat me with disgust because of it like they used to. I already fixed the problem, but the mental pain remains.

 

[Clown Show]

Impossible. Doesn't matter how many times self help scammers online talk about accepting past or "being in the moment", I've never met someone who completely got over their past. Once those pathways have been established in the brain, it's pretty much done. You may be stable for some period of time but the moment something negative happens to you, all of the trauma and rotten brain pathways will start firing up again. That's why going ER on scum who bullied you in the past is completely legitimate, since they literally handicapped you for life.

Although having Stacy worship me would certainly help, or having kids, because when you have kids you kinda no longer give a fuck about yourself anymore and you are only focused on your kids' well being.

 

[Deleted member 29710]

because when you have kids you kinda no longer give a fuck about yourself anymore and you are only focused on your kids' well being.

False actually. Many people take past baggage of their lives out on their kids. Such as my own parents

 

[MoggerGaston]

False actually. Many people take past baggage of their lives out on their kids. Such as my own parents

Yeah this. My parents abused me because they hated their own lives. Fucking brutal.

Seems like going ER is the only viable option.

 

[khvirgin]

Example: Humans treated me like utter shit when I was young. Such as my abusive parents, or my peers because I was 3PSL fat truecel.

In the present I still feel this pain every day and I can't forget/accept it. It makes me avoid people and think very negatively about people and the world around me.

Even though I already removed my family from my life ages ago, and I am no longer that ugly that people openly treat me with disgust because of it like they used to. I already fixed the problem, but the mental pain remains.

that's never gonna leave you because it literally shaped you.

 

[Clown Show]

False actually. Many people take past baggage of their lives out on their kids. Such as my own parents

Brutal. Is there any hope for god forsaken wretches like us, or are bound to suffer forever?

 

[MoggerGaston]

Impossible. Doesn't matter how many times self help scammers online talk about accepting past or "being in the moment", I've never met someone who completely got over their past. Once those pathways have been established in the brain, it's pretty much done. You may be stable for some period of time but the moment something negative happens to you, all of the trauma and rotten brain pathways will start firing up again. That's why going ER on scum who bullied you in the past is completely legitimate, since they literally handicapped you for life.

Although having Stacy worship me would certainly help, or having kids, because when you have kids you kinda no longer give a fuck about yourself anymore and you are only focused on your kids' well being.

Fucking brutal.

It's insane how you can ascend in life from being a bullied, abused, worthless, ugly, poor, piece of shit. But then your brain is damaged and rotten to the point where you never escape this past anyways.

Human biology is demonic.

 

[Deleted member 29710]

Brutal. Is there any hope for god forsaken wretches like us, or are bound to suffer forever?

Pray to die and hope there isn't an entity or God waiting to torture you on the other end.

 

[Clown Show]

Fucking brutal.

It's insane how you can ascend in life from being a bullied, abused, worthless, ugly, poor, piece of shit. But then your brain is damaged and rotten to the point where you never escape this past anyways.

Human biology is demonic.

You logically know that you shouldn't care abou the past, that it is not current reality, that there are many more years to have a good life, but human brain is deeply flawed that it can not let go. When something traumatic happens to you, brain chemistry goes completely haywire and the brain will form new pathways to "protect" you from similar situations in the future, and you are left with malfunctioning and abnormal brain chemistry.

Even the scam science psychiatry doesn't have legitimate solutions for this. I would rather give all my money to fix my brain than to improve my looks if there was such a thing but there isn't, so I only see looksmaxing as a worthwhile investment in life at the moment.

 

[MoggerGaston]

You logically know that you shouldn't care abou the past, that it is not current reality, that there are many more years to have a good life, but human brain is deeply flawed that it can not let go. When something traumatic happens to you, brain chemistry goes completely haywire and the brain will form new pathways to "protect" you from similar situations in the future, and you are left with malfunctioning and abnormal brain chemistry.

Even the scam science psychiatry doesn't have legitimate solutions for this. I would rather give all my money to fix my brain than to improve my looks if there was such a thing but there isn't, so I only see looksmaxing as a worthwhile investment in life at the moment.

Exactly this. If therapy, seeking help, actually worked. Then men would do it more often instead of killing themselves.
I've tried it many times and it's just utter shit.

Life is just coping with trauma at this point for me. And life quality is how well I cope with my trauma.

Dreams, ideals, passions; it's all irrelevant. Only relevant to privileged people that don't have trauma to deal with.

 

[Zer0/∞]

I live in the past my reaction speed is slow like that

 

[incel194012940]

therapy sometimes works but you have to do it for 30+ years until you are an old man