
MoggerGaston
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Without accepting the past. Which I can't.
How the fuck do you accept the past?
How the fuck do you accept the past?
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In his case he means forgetting.What do you mean accept?
Well, thats obviously impossibleIn his case he means forgetting.
Example: Humans treated me like utter shit when I was young. Such as my abusive parents, or my peers because I was 3PSL fat truecel.What do you mean accept?
because when you have kids you kinda no longer give a fuck about yourself anymore and you are only focused on your kids' well being.
Yeah this. My parents abused me because they hated their own lives. Fucking brutal.False actually. Many people take past baggage of their lives out on their kids. Such as my own parents![]()
that's never gonna leave you because it literally shaped you.Example: Humans treated me like utter shit when I was young. Such as my abusive parents, or my peers because I was 3PSL fat truecel.
In the present I still feel this pain every day and I can't forget/accept it. It makes me avoid people and think very negatively about people and the world around me.
Even though I already removed my family from my life ages ago, and I am no longer that ugly that people openly treat me with disgust because of it like they used to. I already fixed the problem, but the mental pain remains.
Brutal. Is there any hope for god forsaken wretches like us, or are bound to suffer forever?False actually. Many people take past baggage of their lives out on their kids. Such as my own parents![]()
Fucking brutal.Impossible. Doesn't matter how many times self help scammers online talk about accepting past or "being in the moment", I've never met someone who completely got over their past. Once those pathways have been established in the brain, it's pretty much done. You may be stable for some period of time but the moment something negative happens to you, all of the trauma and rotten brain pathways will start firing up again. That's why going ER on scum who bullied you in the past is completely legitimate, since they literally handicapped you for life.
Although having Stacy worship me would certainly help, or having kids, because when you have kids you kinda no longer give a fuck about yourself anymore and you are only focused on your kids' well being.
Brutal. Is there any hope for god forsaken wretches like us, or are bound to suffer forever?
You logically know that you shouldn't care abou the past, that it is not current reality, that there are many more years to have a good life, but human brain is deeply flawed that it can not let go. When something traumatic happens to you, brain chemistry goes completely haywire and the brain will form new pathways to "protect" you from similar situations in the future, and you are left with malfunctioning and abnormal brain chemistry.Fucking brutal.
It's insane how you can ascend in life from being a bullied, abused, worthless, ugly, poor, piece of shit. But then your brain is damaged and rotten to the point where you never escape this past anyways.
Human biology is demonic.
Exactly this. If therapy, seeking help, actually worked. Then men would do it more often instead of killing themselves.You logically know that you shouldn't care abou the past, that it is not current reality, that there are many more years to have a good life, but human brain is deeply flawed that it can not let go. When something traumatic happens to you, brain chemistry goes completely haywire and the brain will form new pathways to "protect" you from similar situations in the future, and you are left with malfunctioning and abnormal brain chemistry.
Even the scam science psychiatry doesn't have legitimate solutions for this. I would rather give all my money to fix my brain than to improve my looks if there was such a thing but there isn't, so I only see looksmaxing as a worthwhile investment in life at the moment.