In another life

[kfcenthusiast]

Could you imagine being the guy that gets most (or all) of the girls? Maybe he‘s from your School or in your friend group and it just seems like his close to perfect life was given to him while you‘re most likely an autistic chud that will never experience love.

But why was this almost perfect life just handed to him while yours was determined to be hell on earth? What did he do different to be deserving of all the traits that make one physically attractive, which led to him also developing a great personality? Why couldn‘t it have been you, or me, or any other person? Is this life just a diceroll and your fait is determined as soon as your fathers sperm breeds your mothers egg? Why are some people destined to be unattractive neurodivergent manlets while someone that didn‘t do anything different will be a memorable popular Chad?

Who decided this and if it was a God, is it even possible to call that God all loving?

 

[tension]

This is such a horrible mindset to have bro

 

[kfcenthusiast]

This is such a horrible mindset to have bro

how so?

 

[tension]

how so?

You’re gonna feel worthless and like a failure

A much better mindset is to just treat life like a video game

You got a random character + spawn point, and now your objective is to max out your character’s stats

 

[marnin]

Could you imagine being the guy that gets most (or all) of the girls? Maybe he‘s from your School or in your friend group and it just seems like his close to perfect life was given to him while you‘re most likely an autistic chud that will never experience love.

But why was this almost perfect life just handed to him while yours was determined to be hell on earth? What did he do different to be deserving of all the traits that make one physically attractive, which led to him also developing a great personality? Why couldn‘t it have been you, or me, or any other person? Is this life just a diceroll and your fait is determined as soon as your fathers sperm breeds your mothers egg? Why are some people destined to be unattractive neurodivergent manlets while someone that didn‘t do anything different will be a memorable popular Chad?

Who decided this and if it was a God, is it even possible to call that God all loving?

Unfair fr

 

[kfcenthusiast]

You’re gonna feel worthless and like a failure

A much better mindset is to just treat life like a video game

You got a random character + spawn point, and now your objective is to max out your character’s stats

well my post was there to help visualize how unfair this life is (i was also very drunk while i wrote it so idk what exactly i said). you can still try ro „max out your stats“ but for some humans, this won‘t get them far, while others don‘t need to „max out“ shit and will be more succesful than some that are maxxed out. if you get what i mean

 

[tension]

well my post was there to help visualize how unfair this life is (i was also very drunk while i wrote it so idk what exactly i said). you can still try ro „max out your stats“ but for some humans, this won‘t get them far, while others don‘t need to „max out“ shit and will be more succesful than some that are maxxed out. if you get what i mean

yeah i get that

i'm not denying that life is unfair and other people have it easier than others

i just think that if you're someone who isn't as fortunate, you should be focusing on improvement instead of "what if" or "why me"

a victim mindset or thinking of others being better than you will only lead to a miserable life

 

[kfcenthusiast]

yeah i get that

i'm not denying that life is unfair and other people have it easier than others

i just think that if you're someone who isn't as fortunate, you should be focusing on improvement instead of "what if" or "why me"

a victim mindset or thinking of others being better than you will only lead to a miserable life

at some point, improvement becomes irrelevant. I can‘t do anything to look better right now and I have to watch my friends getting girls while I dance next to them, watching them in envy. Wether my mindset is terrible and I compare myself to others, or if I try to look better (which I can‘t even do), I‘ll always be the guy standing next to the good looking people that pull girls left and right

 

[tension]

at some point, improvement becomes irrelevant. I can‘t do anything to look better right now and I have to watch my friends getting girls while I dance next to them, watching them in envy. Wether my mindset is terrible and I compare myself to others, or if I try to look better (which I can‘t even do), I‘ll always be the guy standing next to the good looking people that pull girls left and right

You can literally always look better

This is the defeatist mindset I’m talking abt