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This thread is targeted to those who visit the site because they think it’s full of loser incels. It’s also meant to be read by new users. Maybe it IS full of incels. But being an incel doesn’t make you a loser.
This thread goes over what the actual definition of an incel is and what makes you an incel.
So if incels aren’t just anybody I don’t like, what is an incel?
Nobody WANTS to be an incel. Anybody who says they do is larping and is not an incel.
An incel is an involuntary celibate, meaning they have not had sex/a relationship for a very long time. Essentially someone who craves love but can’t have it. This means you may even be an incel, and that’s not inherently a bad thing.
So, if Incels are just people who want to love women, how come the media and internet paints them in a bad light?
I truly don’t know the answer to that question. The fact of the matter is that the media portrays incels as an awful thing, when in reality many of us are. This is a huge reason for the amount of lonely men. Even .is says “there is nothing political about it.” when referring to being an incel.
I don’t believe you. I heard that incels hate women.
Since incels don’t share one common opinion on their thoughts towards women, that is ridiculous to say. However, .is, again (it’s a relatively credible source for this) says
“Do incels hate women?This thread is targeted to those who visit the site because they think it’s full of loser incels. It’s also meant to be read by new users. Maybe it IS full of incels. But being an incel doesn’t make you a loser.
This thread goes over what the actual definition of an incel is and what makes you an incel.
So if incels aren’t just anybody I don’t like, what is an incel?
Nobody WANTS to be an incel. Anybody who says they do is larping and is not an incel.
An incel is an involuntary celibate, meaning they have not had sex/a relationship for a very long time. Essentially someone who craves love but can’t have it. This means you may even be an incel, and that’s not inherently a bad thing.
So, if Incels are just people who want to love women, how come the media and internet paints them in a bad light?
I truly don’t know the answer to that question. The fact of the matter is that the media portrays incels as an awful thing, when in reality many of us are. This is a huge reason for the amount of lonely men. Even .is says “there is nothing political about it.” when referring to being an incel.
I don’t believe you. I heard that incels hate women.
Since incels don’t share one common opinion on their thoughts towards women, that is ridiculous to say. However, .is, again (it’s a relatively credible source for this) says
Incels again are not a homogeneous group. Most incels express that the thing they would love most would be a loving, caring, stable relationship with a woman who loves them back.”
Hopefully this thread was helpful to anybody who wanted clarification. Remember, being an incel does not make you bad, and I hope none of you ever are an incel and end up with the girl of your dreams.
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