INTROVERT SUCCESS STORY - I'm getting to the point where being with people actually calms me down and gives me dopamine

[thegoat]

Essentially I was a loner with bad social anxiety for the past 3 years, after discovering incel sites and a bunch of other suifuel experiences, ive started to just stop giving a fuck about meaningless shit like fearing human interaction (I had bad social anxiety up until recently).

The idea that being around people, rather than being at home alone listening to some chill music, would bring me peace is so insane to me. But I seem to be transitioning towards this (the social anxiety is still present in small amounts). Great for socialmaxxing at university - now ive got some neurotransmitters actually on my side.

Extroverts experience this shit perma legit life on easy mode

 

[AlexAP]

Great stuff. Being a lone wolf is cope, life is all about socializing.

 

[thegoat]

Great stuff. Being a lone wolf is cope, life is all about socializing.

Yep. Trying to be satisfied with being lonely is cope, you cant fight what evolution has programmed into us social creatures

 

[Deleted member 5786]

 

[Ascendant]

Yep. Trying to be satisfied with being lonely is cope, you cant fight what evolution has programmed into us social creatures

Dont talk about evolution in reguards to this topic. Some mere 100 years ago vast majority of ppl were living in villages with 2 other houses around you, where men became fathers around 20 yo and ever since just took care of their family and helped their parents and so on.

The socialising was 90% with your family members and thats it.

Some mere 100 years ago you needed a bloody horse to travel distances longer than like 5 km. Or lets say for simplicity sake 150 years ago, so even before steam engine trains, which compared to the whole history of humanity is like nothing, its not even 0.01% of the time, not even 0.001% of the human existence.

The shit thats going on today, didnt exist some 100 years ago. So you cant speak about evolution.

Aside of that- men arent the social creatures, women are. If you cant survive on your own, without "socializing" then youre a weak beta simp. Lastly- what exactly happens during your "socialising" you just stay around other people and talk about generic ass normie shit, trash theyve recently watched on mainstream media or some other trivial crap that is trending on social media and what not. Im not saying you should isolate yourself but to be honest, if you cant survive by yourself at any given point, you cant be called a man to be frank.

 

[IdeserveJannnah]

Dont talk about evolution in reguards to this topic. Some mere 100 years ago vast majority of ppl were living in villages with 2 other houses around you, where men became fathers around 20 yo and ever since just took care of their family and helped their parents and so on.

The socialising was 90% with your family members and thats it.

Some mere 100 years ago you needed a bloody horse to travel distances longer than like 5 km. Or lets say for simplicity sake 150 years ago, so even before steam engine trains, which compared to the whole history of humanity is like nothing, its not even 0.01% of the time, not even 0.001% of the human existence.

The shit thats going on today, didnt exist some 100 years ago. So you cant speak about evolution.

Aside of that- men arent the social creatures, women are. If you cant survive on your own, without "socializing" then youre a weak beta simp. Lastly- what exactly happens during your "socialising" you just stay around other people and talk about generic ass normie shit, trash theyve recently watched on mainstream media or some other trivial crap that is trending on social media and what not. Im not saying you should isolate yourself but to be honest, if you cant survive by yourself at any given point, you cant be called a man to be frank.

Based comment put me in my place .
You shouldn't be phased or bothered to live alone

 

[Deleted member 18494]

Human nature craves security and belonging to someone/something and that’s basically what socializing is. You get into social circles in order to belong in a group where you feel secure and get your basic needs fulfilled, but that doesen’t mean that you need to be friends with every single human in the world.