IOI is a cope

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It makes me sad seeing users think that they’re getting IOIs, just because a girl is being kind or smiling at them.

They’ll let you know if they’re interested.

Getting approached for your socials, sitting on your lap etc. These are IOIs.

(Not saying that P in V is the only sign) but just because some slut asks you for a picture or compliments you doesn’t mean that she’s interested.

If this makes you depressed. I feel you, we’re in the same boat.
 
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not this crab mentality bs again

sure, most of the time men are imagining those, but how come i have a 100% success rate when acting on what i perceive as an ioi from a girl i find attractive? am i the best looking guy on earth or is the reality more nuanced than bbc porn addicts shitposting here are making it to be, and women altering their behavior when around you in a positive way actually means something?

what a pathetic butthurt-failed-normie infested forum, lmao
 
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of course. here comes the 50 iq ugh when the resident coper hears something he doesn't like
 
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Yes
 
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Agree
 
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It makes me sad seeing users think that they’re getting IOIs, just because a girl is being kind or smiling at them.

They’ll let you know if they’re interested.

Getting approached for your socials, sitting on your lap etc. These are IOIs.

(Not saying that P in V is the only sign) but just because some slut asks you for a picture or compliments you doesn’t mean that she’s interested.

If this makes you depressed. I feel you, we’re in the same boat.
Yeah you’re right buts that’s why it’s called ioi

“Indication” not “confirmation”

Ofc if you think that a girl making eye contact means she’s in love with you or smth that’s cope but you would be surprised at how non expressive some girls are.

I have 3 specific incidents of this happening where a girl acted completely normal towards me 0 IOIs then later I find out she liked me (told her friend I was handsome or that she had a crush on me then they told me)
 
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niggas need to recognise that different levels of IOIs exist

There are half IOIs: where there are signs that the girl sees you as better looking than the average guy but she doesn't WANT you, like u still need to put work in

Then there's full IOIs: where the girl is all over you or she's very interested and she WANTS you like u have to basically fumble/reject her to not pull her
 
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It makes me sad seeing users think that they’re getting IOIs, just because a girl is being kind or smiling at them.

They’ll let you know if they’re interested.

Getting approached for your socials, sitting on your lap etc. These are IOIs.

(Not saying that P in V is the only sign) but just because some slut asks you for a picture or compliments you doesn’t mean that she’s interested.

If this makes you depressed. I feel you, we’re in the same boat.
It depends. Guys often see what they want to see but there is some truth to it.

Getting smiles for no reason, looked up and down, prolonged eye contact even when you’re not trying to look at them are good signs.
 
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It depends. Guys often see what they want to see but there is some truth to it.

Getting smiles for no reason, looked up and down, prolonged eye contact even when you’re not trying to look at them are good signs.
People always smile at me when im working:feelswhy:
 
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not this crab mentality bs again

sure, most of the time men are imagining those, but how come i have a 100% success rate when acting on what i perceive as an ioi from a girl i find attractive? am i the best looking guy on earth or is the reality more nuanced than bbc porn addicts shitposting here are making it to be, and women altering their behavior when around you in a positive way actually means something?

what a pathetic butthurt-failed-normie infested forum, lmao
This. Facts. We need more of this.
 
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People always smile at me when im working:feelswhy:
Yeah, work, restaurants are probably places where you’d misinterpret signals though. People need to be agreeable in these settings to get on with each other
 
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You really think women will compliment you for no reason ? Women are fuckin greedy and ego filled whores they wont compliment you or smile at you if your ugly and not intresting like yeah ofc not every smile means they wanna do it raw but still
 
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Yeah, work, restaurants are probably places where you’d misinterpret signals though. People need to be agreeable in these settings to get on with each other
I have a feeling its due to country aswell. I swear nobody here stares/smiles at a stranger. Might just be delusional cope though. But I always see kids staring at me and I read somewhere thats a sign im handsome so imma keep coping:ogre:
 
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It's true. I realized this
 
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I have a feeling it’s due to country aswell. I swear nobody here stares/smiles at a stranger. Might just be delusional cope though. But I always see kids staring at me and I read somewhere thats a sign im handsome so imma keep coping:ogre:
We all fall victim to wishful thinking sometimes.

Sometimes someone stares at you because you’re staring at them in the first place.

And then you both wonder why you’re looking at each other lol
 
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niggas need to recognise that different levels of IOIs exist

There are half IOIs: where there are signs that the girl sees you as better looking than the average guy but she doesn't WANT you, like u still need to put work in

Then there's full IOIs: where the girl is all over you or she's very interested and she WANTS you like u have to basically fumble/reject her to not pull her

Exactly this. And depending on the logistics, some can be legit opportunities for sex, like if she’s ready to go home and not doing much for the rest of the day.
 
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Exactly this. And depending on the logistics, some can be legit opportunities for sex, like if she’s ready to go home and not doing much for the rest of the day.
Yeah if you’re chad🤣
 
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You really think women will compliment you for no reason ? Women are fuckin greedy and ego filled whores they wont compliment you or smile at you if your ugly and not intresting like yeah ofc not every smile means they wanna do it raw but still
if u are ugly they will straight up not even look , but the most that will happen is she will look at u for more than 2 seconds , no girl ever is gonna smile first or walk up to u asking to fuck , only whores do that in my experience.
 
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Exactly this. And depending on the logistics, some can be legit opportunities for sex, like if she’s ready to go home and not doing much for the rest of the day.
Yes definitely any IOIs with an approach and invitation to do something or when she asks you to take their number/socials is a full IOI, or any IOIs with touching

A half IOI would be like a girl smiling at you, a compliment, receptive body language etc
 
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Two girls threw themselves at me in the street but I dodged like a retard, Is this an IOI?
 
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You really think women will compliment you for no reason ? Women are fuckin greedy and ego filled whores they wont compliment you or smile at you if your ugly and not intresting like yeah ofc not every smile means they wanna do it raw but still
They will. Even Truecels get compliments.
 
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They will. Even Truecels get compliments.
jfl never been complimented by a girl in my life unironically except like once in elementary school :feelskek:
 
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Yeah you’re right buts that’s why it’s called ioi

“Indication” not “confirmation”

Ofc if you think that a girl making eye contact means she’s in love with you or smth that’s cope but you would be surprised at how non expressive some girls are.

I have 3 specific incidents of this happening where a girl acted completely normal towards me 0 IOIs then later I find out she liked me (told her friend I was handsome or that she had a crush on me then they told me)

only noticed this (very good) post now. exactly. it's not just that "iois" are not bullshit, a lot of women will "open up" to you and give you the green light the moment you actually show some balls and do the unimaginable - start a fucking conversation with them without exposing yourself as a creep right off the bat, despite them acting completely neutrally towards you beforehand

low iq and a bitch-ass character are the only explanations i can think of when i read those paradoxical doom posts of guys who never even considered doing that (initiating a conversation) with women, but are still 100% sure they only stand a chance with women if they, on their own, contrary to their basic fucking nature, start drooling over them like creepy thirsty curries.

the predominant psychological trait of people here who are crying 24/7 is them having the brain-wiring of a 13 yo girl. not even exaggerating with the description. fucking lol at being a male and acting fucking offended because you didn't win the genetic lottery and can't just attract women and succeed in life in general by mere existing. easily the most off-putting male trait for women, worse than being 5ft3 or having a micro.
 
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the west is fucked

im out by 2030
yeah if u dont get compliments in the us its over even the fatties get compliments. forget about europe they wont even look at you they are cold (unless we are talking about med)
 
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