(IRL) The amount of time I get ghosted

[LightSkinNoob]

fuck women lol masturbating > sex anyway

Slippery slope, I agree but this mindset gave me porn-induced ED/disinterest in most girls.

 

[Deleted member 16636]

You reek of insecurity and self-esteem issues, if it were truely something you’ve experienced, my anecdote wouldn’t have spiked your cortisol so hard you insulted me.

ur on an incel forum trying to larp which is a common theme with ur posts by the looks of it. My cortisol is not spiked that would mean I care.

@Shitfacegoodbod=mog, not sure if you remember, but first time we went out together that girl who approached me is the one I’m referring to in this thread, verify it happened for this pathetic user.

Lmao little dog needs his friend to come and back him up, look how hard ur trying to prove it. If ur such a slayer why would my words matter?

 

[Deleted member 23772]

U need to fuck them the first day. I even brought a girl from the club within 5 minutes of talking last year (yea she was drunk). Clubs and bars are terrible for exchanging contact unless u wanna sleep with them the first night.

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

So for the last month or so I have strictly been IRL meeting women and stuff, usually night club/bar.

The amount of times a girl approached me told me I am GL or gorgeous or whatever and gives me their number. Even make out or kiss and then the next day I text them and am ghosted never to hear from them again.

So
Many
Times


It really does eat at me if I am being honest. Like these aren't women I am approaching and begging for their number. It's girls that are approaching and making the first move with me.

Such a numbers game, but even still there's no reason for the ghost. Many times this is happening over text (not IG so there's no reason for a possible shitty IG to make them think no thanks.)


I even had a girl grab my arm pull me to the bathroom and have me fingerbang her and she said she hopes to continue this week, gives me her number hearts my text saying we will hangout soon. Text her two days later the text is green cause I am blocked lawl

This happens to me so many fucking times I have given up with women. But I’m shocked this happens to chad wtf. Yeah I had girls who have grabbed me let me do what I want then ghosted days later

 

[JovenCansao]

Men truly behave like women now

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

Men truly behave like women now

What choice do we have? We are starved of pussy and have to beg like abused dogs to get some. I never used to double text but now I do because I accept it’s over for me and every man that ain’t rich or high status. As a man your gonna have to beg women for pussy

 

[JovenCansao]

As a man your gonna have to beg women for pussy

Don't drag the rest of us with your defeated mentality nigga

 

[betrayed by 5‘8]

So for the last month or so I have strictly been IRL meeting women and stuff, usually night club/bar.

The amount of times a girl approached me told me I am GL or gorgeous or whatever and gives me their number. Even make out or kiss and then the next day I text them and am ghosted never to hear from them again.

So
Many
Times


It really does eat at me if I am being honest. Like these aren't women I am approaching and begging for their number. It's girls that are approaching and making the first move with me.

Such a numbers game, but even still there's no reason for the ghost. Many times this is happening over text (not IG so there's no reason for a possible shitty IG to make them think no thanks.)


I even had a girl grab my arm pull me to the bathroom and have me fingerbang her and she said she hopes to continue this week, gives me her number hearts my text saying we will hangout soon. Text her two days later the text is green cause I am blocked lawl

She violated you in this story you telling me a girl grabbed you to the bathroom used ur fingers for her sexual pleasure didn’t give you anything in return and than ghosted you ? Bro this is some border line raped that accrued here brutal

 

[Deleted member 25223]

So for the last month or so I have strictly been IRL meeting women and stuff, usually night club/bar.

The amount of times a girl approached me told me I am GL or gorgeous or whatever and gives me their number. Even make out or kiss and then the next day I text them and am ghosted never to hear from them again.

So
Many
Times


It really does eat at me if I am being honest. Like these aren't women I am approaching and begging for their number. It's girls that are approaching and making the first move with me.

Such a numbers game, but even still there's no reason for the ghost. Many times this is happening over text (not IG so there's no reason for a possible shitty IG to make them think no thanks.)


I even had a girl grab my arm pull me to the bathroom and have me fingerbang her and she said she hopes to continue this week, gives me her number hearts my text saying we will hangout soon. Text her two days later the text is green cause I am blocked lawl

5-10 minutes at most

5-10 minutes at most

Girls get bombarded with attention in clubs so 5 minutes is not going to be enough time for her to care about you and build investment from what I've heard you want it to be 10-15 minutes or more.
Have you been learning game?

 

[Deleted member 15854]

You reek of insecurity and self-esteem issues, if it were truely something you’ve experienced, my anecdote wouldn’t have spiked your cortisol so hard you insulted me.

@Shitfacegoodbod=mog, not sure if you remember, but first time we went out together that girl who approached me is the one I’m referring to in this thread, verify it happened for this pathetic user.

ye i remember lol, i was dancing awkwardly whilst u were making out with her. also brutal blackpill when u asked her friend to give me my first kiss

OP is ascended slayer, verified by MOUSE

 

[LightSkinNoob]

ur on an incel forum trying to larp which is a common theme with ur posts by the looks of it. My cortisol is not spiked that would mean I care.


Lmao little dog needs his friend to come and back him up, look how hard ur trying to prove it. If ur such a slayer why would my words matter?

Sometimes slayers get bored and get off on spiking the cortisol of insecure strangers on the internet

ye i remember lol, i was dancing awkwardly whilst u were making out with her. also brutal blackpill when u asked her friend to give me my first kiss

OP is ascended slayer, verified by MOUSE

 

[HighClassMaxing]

It's time you get 6" LL to 6'3

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

Don't drag the rest of us with your defeated mentality nigga

But it’s the truth. I ain’t even being defeatist, I still have ego and self esteem but I know that you just gotta constantly bell hoes and it’s a never ending game. But mayeb you’re bluepilled and don’t belong on this site if that’s the case

 

[spark]

i like that youre honest, the other forum "chads" that look worse than you, never get ghosted and always win fuckin larpers

its hard to get ghosted in your daydreams hence crisick's 100% success

 

[JovenCansao]

But it’s the truth. I ain’t even being defeatist, I still have ego and self esteem but I know that you just gotta constantly bell hoes and it’s a never ending game. But mayeb you’re bluepilled and don’t belong on this site if that’s the case

Caged
You think people here are blackpilled jfl

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

Caged
You think people here are blackpilled jfl

Yes. You are bluepilled if you think men don’t have to simp nowadays to get pussy. There’s a reason why there’s a simping epidemic now this shit don’t just appear out of the blue

 

[OldRooster]

Chad Problems.

Text her two days later the text is green cause I am blocked

Does this color change happen on all phones, or is it format specific?

 

[Deleted member 15468]

i think for most of them the reason is that they‘re intimidated by you, booze lowers inhibition and then they get more confident

next day they realize you didnt connect at all and youre just a good looking body

 

[JovenCansao]

Yes. You are bluepilled if you think men don’t have to simp nowadays to get pussy. There’s a reason why there’s a simping epidemic now this shit don’t just appear out of the blue

Are you Indian? Sounds like the train of thought an Indian would have tbh

 

[fukmylyf]

How did u go from posting on incels.is to this lifestyle

socialmaxxing and just gaining life experience

 

[saldagoat]

Which bars/clubs in Sacramento do you go to? This place is ass every time I go out

 

[Deleted member 23114]

i don't know. It actually makes me really angry if I am being honest.

I actually texted one of these girls who approached me told me I am handsome etc then ghosted me. I sent her like 4 texts in a row just asking for a reason for the ghost and she could be honest. She just said "I am shy and I don't know you" as to why she didnt want to meet for a drink. She isnt even that hot.

I dont know other than girls have a trillion options. And that social circle game is the MOST legit way to actually date hot girls. If a girl doesn't know you your odds are heavily skewed badly. Like if you are a completel stranger than no one in her social circle knows you it's bad. Being known in a social circle can be enough to date really hot girls

This. Spoken from a chad as well so Hindus can’t say it’s cope.

Social game is fucking law.

 

[romanstock]

because they don't know you. if you met her through friends that night, and then you meet again through friends, she'll consider dating you. you're part of her social network and not a stranger. but otherwise ur a stranger.. even if you've put ur dick inside her. yes women are that stupid. you have to have some form of social connection to be considered a human being by them. otherwise ur just a nothing and she won't consider u, except in the moment when ur both there and then, unless she's socially low value and is forced to take that route/the risk of having to put in the effort of meeting up with u.

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

Are you Indian? Sounds like the train of thought an Indian would have tbh

I am curry indeed Bhai @FailedNormieManlet @TRUE_CEL can vouch for my bhainess that being said eveything I said is correct and it it indeed over

 

[eyelidcel]

So for the last month or so I have strictly been IRL meeting women and stuff, usually night club/bar.

The amount of times a girl approached me told me I am GL or gorgeous or whatever and gives me their number. Even make out or kiss and then the next day I text them and am ghosted never to hear from them again.

So
Many
Times


It really does eat at me if I am being honest. Like these aren't women I am approaching and begging for their number. It's girls that are approaching and making the first move with me.

Such a numbers game, but even still there's no reason for the ghost. Many times this is happening over text (not IG so there's no reason for a possible shitty IG to make them think no thanks.)


I even had a girl grab my arm pull me to the bathroom and have me fingerbang her and she said she hopes to continue this week, gives me her number hearts my text saying we will hangout soon. Text her two days later the text is green cause I am blocked lawl

They must not think you're interesting/ a beta chad. women hate that, and i've heard you talk to corroborate that. I just don't think you got that masculine edge.. That'd be the only reason a bitch wont stay around.

Unless you're short.... Then you're a one time /short time thing unless you chop your balls off for a relationship.

 

[eyelidcel]

Girls do stupid things when they’re drunk and regret it after

Women know why they do stuff WAY more than some of you think. they're wired to test men at a primal level

 

[eyelidcel]

This happens to me so many fucking times I have given up with women. But I’m shocked this happens to chad wtf. Yeah I had girls who have grabbed me let me do what I want then ghosted days later

bro, these bitches be having boyfriends and you're not worth it to continue to see you. You have to leave an impact for a bitch to want to continue to sneak around. You gotta be agressive, stoic, dominating and persuasive ON TOP of your looks to leave that impact.

 

[eyelidcel]

This. Spoken from a chad as well so Hindus can’t say it’s cope.

Social game is fucking law.

being a qualifying chad (not short) requires MORE than regular social game it requires extremism to match your extreme looks. You Have to match your looks in personality. You can't be emotional , You can't give a fuck about these bitches, you need to be arrogant, you need to be agressive when pressed, etc. That will make a bitch wet.
But maybe i'm saying too much...

 

[Gengar]

I am curry indeed Bhai @FailedNormieManlet @TRUE_CEL can vouch for my bhainess that being said eveything I said is correct and it it indeed over

You are everything you want to be. I believe in you.

 

[chadison]

This is actually way more common for gl guys than people realise. The thing is this: When you are meeting women they are in a place, drinking alchohol and stuff and are horny. They see a gl dude (you in this case) and because at that time they feel they wanna do something sexual they make a move on you. After two days or a week or whatever, their logical mind kicks in and then they decide for on reason or another the gl dude they met (you in this case) isn't the right one for them etc.. also then they might not be horny anymore. Women think with their feelings way more that men. To avoid this the gl dude has to have a strong enough EMOTIONAL impact on them. That is mostly done by good sex.
We as people always remember the best feelings we have experienced. Women are the same ofc. Women always remember the best sex they got.

Exactly.

 

[190cm90kg]

reminder op is 5’8

 

[chadison]

Amnesia bro, this same thing happens to me all the fucking time in nightlife. The answer is pretty much what @GreenHat500 said. You and I think rationally, most women do not. As a result, it drives us insane not knowing why women ghost when everything seemed to go well. It feels like a computer program producing the wrong output even though the code is correct. I get it, I still get frustrated now and then as well, especially when it was a girl I enjoyed talking to. You just have to remember that at this point our society is fucked and it legitimately is better to go home and just jerk off in most cases. It’s disappointing, yes, but it’s true. That isn’t to say you should give up hope, but be wary. I agree that social circle game is far superior. I’ve learned to not take girls seriously in nightlife, especially when DJing. They’ll often try to use you to their advantage, even if you’re good looking. Most people are asses nowadays, it’s just life.

 

[infini]

Best thing to do is to just enjoy the validation/attention from them and never hit them up afterwards.
Better to ghost them or give them a fake number, than for them to do that to you.

Ideal life is being chad and rejecting women but enjoying the validation.

yes dude that really beats fucking them and networking if you're both into each other lmao.

validation that's empty gets tired quick when it's just a hi and bye

What you're implying is another degree of confidence however, case in point the @averagejoe classic:

How to make women jealous

Went out last night to a bar with a female friend. Got there, started greeting the people I know (I know the bar owners and some important people that go to that bar to drink some whiskey). At about this moment you already see girls checking me out so I start to mingle. Started talking to a...

looksmax.org

Also Joe, sorry if I've accidentally annoyed you at this point by how much I've brought you up, just in case.

That isn’t to say you should give up hope, but be wary. I agree that social circle game is far superior. I’ve learned to not take girls seriously in nightlife, especially when DJing. They’ll often try to use you to their advantage, even if you’re good looking. Most people are asses nowadays, it’s just life.

Socialmaxxing is what the entirety of good users on this forum have fucking approved of since day one. Most of here are living with the majority of their lifetime at a minus with the amount of it spent not practicing social.

 

[badamj]

Didn’t realize this could happen to chads too. Interesting.

 

[Deleted member 26197]

Now I've just realized that social circles are one of the most important things to date hot girls.

Being a stranger to her completely melts your chances.

 

[Deleted member 24940]

Meanwhile @pneumocystosis has girls at the club begging him to go back to their place, even when he rejects them they keep stalking his social media.

Your probably too oldcel and pas your prime Amnesia. Sorry boyo only young prime studs like pneumo can slay in 2023.

 

[datboijj]

these are obv drunken women i always said they dont count

 

[Chadethnic101]

Slippery slope, I agree but this mindset gave me porn-induced ED/disinterest in most girls.

How long of nofap streak fixed your pied?
I cum within a minute now when I fuck ffs jfl

 

[AscensionMan98]

Yeah, this. Had this happen to me so many times.

With drunk girls it is mostly either fucking them on the day you meet them, or they‘ll just flake on you, due to some stupid reason they make up when they are sober again - like not wanting to be a random slay number of club-playboy, deep down wanting a LTR instead of just sex, or they just remember their oofy-doofy boyfriend they forgot about that night.

Women care a lot more about validation then actually getting fucked. Banging a chad tho is a tool of validation, but being able to tell their girlfriends they rejected a chad is also a massive ego boost.

 

[LightSkinNoob]

How long of nofap streak fixed your pied?
I cum within a minute now when I fuck ffs jfl

Hasn’t fixed completely but I’m 2 months in and only seeing real girls, relying less and less on Cialis

 

[Chadethnic101]

Hasn’t fixed completely but I’m 2 months in and only seeing real girls, relying less and less on Cialis

I have same issue I always take viagra to not get embarrassed
Ocassionally don't need it though
But it's not great hopefully we recover
Got a ltr and she doesn't mind that i busy real fast either lol
But I wanna get to the point where I can get it up without anything and anytime its needed

Trying out an app called mojo too for mental Ed issues

 

[blackpilledforlife]

Imagine fingering a girl in a toilet what was you thinking? You should’ve took her to the toilet and made her choke on your cock and done nothing for her in return or bent her over and fucked her raw. As soon as she realised you was down to finger her, she realised she didn’t need to do anything for you. It’s over. And now you have made her fucking delusional and thinks that she should have chads pleasing her for nothing in return, so good job nigga.

Chad fingers and pleases Becky for nothing in return, when it should be Becky chokes on chads cock and then gets kicked out.

It’s over in 2023 for chads

Nigga you have 150 IQ

 

[gaymidget]

Girls distinguish between fuckboys and LTR material. Based on your looks, they are horny and want to enjoy your alpha cock but the next day, they sober up and they knew that u just want to have sex with them. Unless you fuck up socially by being weird, writing them weird or behaving weird during the club, its very likely that they dont want you because they think you wont be faithful.
Girls oftentime fuck a chad one time cause they get horny and cant resist but regret it afterwards. So be happy that u are considered an alpha by girls and maybe try to do more comfort game to make them stick around/hope you will be faithful.

 

[mogorgetmogged]

So for the last month or so I have strictly been IRL meeting women and stuff, usually night club/bar.

The amount of times a girl approached me told me I am GL or gorgeous or whatever and gives me their number. Even make out or kiss and then the next day I text them and am ghosted never to hear from them again.

So
Many
Times


It really does eat at me if I am being honest. Like these aren't women I am approaching and begging for their number. It's girls that are approaching and making the first move with me.

Such a numbers game, but even still there's no reason for the ghost. Many times this is happening over text (not IG so there's no reason for a possible shitty IG to make them think no thanks.)


I even had a girl grab my arm pull me to the bathroom and have me fingerbang her and she said she hopes to continue this week, gives me her number hearts my text saying we will hangout soon. Text her two days later the text is green cause I am blocked lawl

Do you know any other model friends or super good looking guys who actively use OLD. How high is their ghosting or flake rate?

 

[mogorgetmogged]

Do you know any other model friends or super good looking guys who actively use OLD. How high is their ghosting or flake rate?

@Amnesia

 

[heedandfail]

I am curry indeed Bhai @FailedNormieManlet @TRUE_CEL can vouch for my bhainess that being said eveything I said is correct and it it indeed over

You gotta be joking lmao pleas say you’re joking

 

[treasyy]

nearly same thing happened to me too. we talked etc and she gave me her number. we texted like 3 days and she always told me how good looking iam and how much she loves me. after 3 days she topped texting and ignored everything. after that i got blocked.

 

[bwrauycnee]

Amnesia bro, this same thing happens to me all the fucking time in nightlife. The answer is pretty much what @GreenHat500 said. You and I think rationally, most women do not. As a result, it drives us insane not knowing why women ghost when everything seemed to go well. It feels like a computer program producing the wrong output even though the code is correct. I get it, I still get frustrated now and then as well, especially when it was a girl I enjoyed talking to. You just have to remember that at this point our society is fucked and it legitimately is better to go home and just jerk off in most cases. It’s disappointing, yes, but it’s true. That isn’t to say you should give up hope, but be wary. I agree that social circle game is far superior. I’ve learned to not take girls seriously in nightlife, especially when DJing. They’ll often try to use you to their advantage, even if you’re good looking. Most people are asses nowadays, it’s just life.

Makes me wonder if women are just manipulative by default. Even if they indicate high initial attraction, there have been many cases where it turned out all they wanted was money, dinner, vacations or support for their business. At least most of them aren't good at hiding this fact and overplay their hand too early. You'd think being good looking to them and treating them nicely would illicit at least some reciprocal decency and respect, but most of them are just vicious.