Is anyone here decent at conversations and willing to teach me?

[Nims]

I'm a complete mentalcel and due to the fact I have SAD I talk to maybe 2-3 people a week so my social skills are the same as basically an undeveloped child.

• Are there any threads/books any of you would recommend for improving your social skills/conversational skills?

Should I try using like Omegle, or smth?

Help me slay boyos.

 

[Nims]

Inb4, "No conversations for your face" I'm a low HTN maybe 5psl (Atleast that's what most users say idk) so my face is not an issue.

 

[Deleted member 17595]

just talk bro

 

[Nims]

Do I just ask them questions about their profile?

 

[Nims]

And try to relate to them?

 

[Lawton88]

Maybe ask the people here that use that stuff a lot.

 

[Deleted member 19152]

do not fake it, develop yourself and be more self aware. Just talk to ppl and dont give a fuck.
Also read books

 

[maxeverything]

Have a few things that make you seem cool that you can fall back on. Hobbies, future plans, etc. You can exaggerate but try not to outright lie. Other than that focus most of the conversation on her, or something going on around you

 

[subhuman to mtn]

Listen bro you are 18, same age as me and you finished sixth form. Your on holiday so try get a job in a customer facing role like costa coffe or at a supermarket where you will interact with customers on the till. Do not even go near omeagle it will not help, keep things IRL. Just try and talk to people who you have any reason to talk to. As you are white you can do this and it will be normal, last time when I tried to make conversation with a elderly man on the train he got scared and told me he didn't want trouble cause I'm ethnic

 

[them streets b cold]

muh social skillz, i only talk if i can get what i want then i tell people to get out of my sight

 

[Nims]

Listen bro you are 18, same age as me

Bro im 21, who told you im 18??

same age as me and you finished sixth form.

Boyo im in my 2nd year at uni.

Your on holiday so try get a job in a customer facing role like costa coffe or at a supermarket where you will interact with customers on the till. Do not even go near omeagle it will not help, keep things IRL. Just try and talk to people who you have any reason to talk to.

I do work in a supermarket , I'm assuming you're a fellow ukcel as you said sixform, so you might know which one its orange and ends in burys.

As you are white you can do this and it will be normal, last time when I tried to make conversation with a elderly man on the train he got scared and told me he didn't want trouble cause I'm ethnic

Thats a rip for ethniccels tbh.

 

[vaninskybird]

Do I just ask them questions about their profile?

And try to relate to them?

if the girl doesn't try to carry the convo it's already over

 

[subhuman to mtn]

Bro im 21, who told you im 18??


Boyo im in my 2nd year at uni.


I do work in a supermarket , I'm assuming you're a fellow ukcel as you said sixform, so you might know which one its orange and ends in burys.


Thats a rip for ethniccels tbh.

My bad I thought you were 18. But my point stands keep making convo with the customers, from my experience many of them will wanna talk and having multiple people going in and out of your sainsburys que will give you a good opportunity to talk to different people. Don't just give them robot prescripted responses make a effort. Same thing for uni approach dudes or girls if your confident and just try make convo

 

[Seth Walsh]

Should I try using like Omegle, or smth?

Omegle is unironically better than Tinder. Private instagram with a vsco link with femgazemaxxed photos mogs dating apps too.

 

[Nims]

Omegle is unironically better than Tinder. Private instagram with a vsco link with femgazemaxxed photos mogs dating apps too.

I might spend some time on Omegle as then I can kinda just say random shit and see peoples reactions.

 

[Mongrelcel]

honestly you need to get a group (just a few will suffice or maybe even one) social buddies and hit the clubs or events every week

only way to learn is IRL and from more charismatic people
over time you will copy the way they act, what they say etc

 

[Mongrelcel]

I might spend some time on Omegle as then I can kinda just say random shit and see peoples reactions.

omegle has nothing to do with a normal conversation

but it might be good to train cold approach skills

 

[Seth Walsh]

I might spend some time on Omegle as then I can kinda just say random shit and see peoples reactions.

drunkmaxx on omegle and make some vids, post them here!

 

[hebbewem]

Writing on tinder is not the same as talking in real life just look up tinder advice

 

[Nims]

Is this shit good for openers?

Saying hi, then asking them a question about themselves and relating to the question?

INb4 "Chad JuSt SaYs DtF" kys.

 

[Nims]

Someone tell me if my texts above are nt.

 

[Deleted member 19152]

Have a few things that make you seem cool that you can fall back on. Hobbies, future plans, etc. You can exaggerate but try not to outright lie. Other than that focus most of the conversation on her, or something going on around you

@Nims
this is fucking bullshit op dont listen

 

[Deleted member 19152]

Is this shit good for openers?

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Saying hi, then asking them a question about themselves and relating to the question?
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INb4 "Chad JuSt SaYs DtF" kys.

bro wtf dont become nt, those texts are fucking cringe.
ur going to die soon stop wasting life w females, just develop yourself and when talking to people learn lesons about life,
read "how to win friends and influence ppl" book.

 

[Deleted member 19152]

theres no theory my nigga, its all about not giving a fuck and being yourself

 

[Nims]

bro wtf dont become nt, those texts are fucking cringe.
ur going to die soon stop wasting life w females, just develop yourself and when talking to people learn lesons about life,
read "how to win friends and influence ppl" book.

I just gotta fraud being NT at least in texts. Do they not come across as NT texts?

I'll read that book this evening I'll find the pdf online or smth.

 

[maxeverything]

@Nims
this is fucking bullshit op dont listen

Lol why is it bs?

 

[Deleted member 19152]

I just gotta fraud being NT at least in texts. Do they not come across as NT texts?

I'll read that book this evening I'll find the pdf online or smth.

prob find it on z lib or genesis.
frauding nt is retarded my guy, again be yourself and say whatever you will learn, woman are just experiences to learn from.
faking it will lead to nothing.

 

[Deleted member 19152]

Lol why is it bs?

Have a few things that make you seem cool that you can fall back on. Hobbies, future plans, etc. You can exaggerate but try not to outright lie. Other than that focus most of the conversation on her, or something going on around you

"Have a few things that make you seem cool that you can fall back on"
cage at this level of cuck having to literally do stuff in life to tell other people about. do whatever u want even if its not cool. also relating to woman they do not care about this 99% is literally looks. even for op retard nt 70iq talk works.

also focus conversation on her? my nigga you dont have to be nice to girls thats also cuck shit, talk about what comes, everything is about developing yourself

 

[Seth Walsh]

Just be yourself. You need NT environments to become more NT.

Becoming more NT just through theory/frauding doesn't help at all

 

[Nims]

even for op retard nt 70iq talk works.

Is it really that bad?

 

[Nims]

What about this is this any better.

 

[GreenRay88]

I'm a complete mentalcel and due to the fact I have SAD I talk to maybe 2-3 people a week so my social skills are the same as basically an undeveloped child.

• Are there any threads/books any of you would recommend for improving your social skills/conversational skills?

Should I try using like Omegle, or smth?

Help me slay boyos.

What is your exact issue when talking to others like you don’t know what to say or what?

 

[GreenRay88]

What about this is this any better.
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This is painful

 

[Nims]

What is your exact issue when talking to others like you don’t know what to say or what?

Yep basically

 

[Deleted member 19152]

Is it really that bad?

it literally hurts my brain but its ok my nigga just stop that shit

 

[Nims]

And do what instead.

 

[Deleted member 18840]

Inb4, "No conversations for your face" I'm a low HTN maybe 5psl (Atleast that's what most users say idk) so my face is not an issue.

You are 4 psl brocel. Face is the issue too. If we keep it real. Rating is inflated here these days

 

[Deleted member 19152]

What about this is this any better.
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fuck, stop texting to anyone you need fuckboy texting course

 

[Deleted member 19152]

You are 4 psl brocel. Face is the issue too. If we keep it real. Rating is inflated here these days

@Nims send face in pms

 

[Nims]

Just look at my previous threads my face is public.

@Nims send face in pms

 

[Nims]

@Nims send face in pms

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[GreenRay88]

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Bro your good looking how tall?

 

[Deleted member 19152]

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you need to talk low inhib and stop giving a fuck, id say 4.5 psl

 

[Nims]

Bro your good looking how tall?

5ft 6 , but height is cope on tinder tbh. I don't have it in my bio and they still match. Im currently chatting up some foid whos 5ft 11. Shes going to be massive in comparison to me.

 

[GreenRay88]

5ft 6 , but height is cope on tinder tbh. I don't have it in my bio and they still match. Im currently chatting up some foid whos 5ft 11. Shes going to be massive in comparison to me.

Dw abt it my dads 5,5 and when I was 5,8 I got w a girl who was 5,10 and played football LOL but honestly just talk to them like you have better things to do risk it for the biscuit

 

[Nims]

Dw abt it my dads 5,5 and when I was 5,8 I got w a girl who was 5,10 and played football LOL but honestly just talk to them like you have better things to do risk it for the biscuit

What would you rate me psl wise?

 

[GreenRay88]

What would you rate me psl wise?

Wtf is psl

 

[Nims]

Wtf is psl

Oh dw, what would you rate me out of 10.

 

[GreenRay88]

Oh dw, what would you rate me out of 10.

Rates are kinda cringe ngl but if I was a women yea I’d smash but you don’t know how much of it relys on your attitude

 

[Deleted member 19152]

caging at this whole post