IS ANYONE SLAYING ON DATING APPS?

[ascension124]

Because she's not interested in you! That's like saying, "Why can't I just fuck whoever I want regardless if she agrees to it?" Viking shit there.

When she's interested, or she's comfortable to begin the mating ritual, she'll show interest. If you know she's single and she ignores you, that's not playing hard to get in today's world. Perhaps, in the past, that shit worked. Today, she's not interested in fucking, dating, or anything that would distract her from whatever goal she's working towards.

So how do you reccomend approaching?

 

[BlackpilledPlatypus]

Havent tried in a while but its easy to get tons of matches but most women never respond to ur first message and the ones that do a lot wont respond further

of the ones that actually do u can traed snaps and over snap talk for a bit and she will show interest but when u come to actually scheduling a day or time to hangout they be like "im busy that day or day(s) and u never hear from them again

even girls that message first or say stuff like ZOMG UR SO HOT ARE U REAL dont end up responding after the initial message. Most girls using tinder are just passing time playing hot or not

80% of girls on tinder didn’t respond my first message the Ones that reply and give a number many of them flake and the ones that want to meet up are usually MTBs

Yeah, I have exactly the same experience.

Good to know I’m not just doing something horribly wrong.

Brutal for my dopamine receptors racking up hot matches that never lead to a date or slay.

Tbh I haven’t even tried Hinge yet and that seems way more popular amongst normies in the UK now.

 

[BigJimsWornOutTires]

So how do you reccomend approaching?

First thing, the most important thing, patience. But the main mindset you should have, "I do me." As to not approaching unless she's pouring interest signs.

But the eyes never lie. If her eyes are surveying you, she's interested. However, if her eyes are watching you like a hawk, she's suspicious and believes you're stealing her shit or about to smash and grab her purse.

 

[BlackpilledPlatypus]

Yeah, I have exactly the same experience.

Good to know I’m not just doing something horribly wrong.

Brutal for my dopamine receptors racking up hot matches that never lead to a date or slay.

Tbh I haven’t even tried Hinge yet and that seems way more popular amongst normies in the UK now.

Also I’d say the best girls I’ve got have actually been from DMing them on Instagram (after following ones with lots of mutuals and ideally a shared thing like attending the same uni).

But this still has a really low success rate.

 

[ascension124]

Also I’d say the best girls I’ve got have actually been from DMing them on Instagram (after following ones with lots of mutuals and ideally a shared thing like attending the same uni).

But this still has a really low success rate.

Hard to get volume with this method tbh

 

[Prettyboy]

Havent tried in a while but its easy to get tons of matches but most women never respond to ur first message and the ones that do a lot wont respond further

of the ones that actually do u can traed snaps and over snap talk for a bit and she will show interest but when u come to actually scheduling a day or time to hangout they be like "im busy that day or day(s) and u never hear from them again

even girls that message first or say stuff like ZOMG UR SO HOT ARE U REAL dont end up responding after the initial message. Most girls using tinder are just passing time playing hot or not

I have similar experience, which makes me question what are they even doing on that app, considering how low percentage of guys they are swiping right on and even with those few they act completely passive, save from a few. I’m starting to think women of our day legit think some kind of gigachad will magically appear in front of them if they just keep living their normal everyday life

 

[BlackpilledPlatypus]

Hard to get volume with this method tbh

Very true. If you’re trying to LTR though, a lot of them actually won’t be on dating apps so you’re facing less competition. I was so close to securing an LTR with a cute low bodycount girl this way that I had several good dates with.

Going back to tinder again was depressing.

 

[BlackpilledPlatypus]

I have similar experience, which makes me question what are they even doing on that app, considering how low percentage of guys they are swiping right on and even with those few they act completely passive, save from a few. I’m starting to think women of our day legit think some kind of gigachad will magically appear in front of them if they just keep living their normal everyday life

I suppose some of it’s been answered in this thread already:

So many of them are just wanting attention and validation, some are holding out for the best because HTNish is available on demand, birth control could be a factor, also SSRIs tbh; many are on them now and they destroy sexual desire.

 

[BlackpilledPlatypus]

Based on some people I know personally, I feel like the most efficient way to slay is to be incredibly social circle-maxxed then warm approach.

 

[ascension124]

I suppose some of it’s been answered in this thread already:

So many of them are just wanting attention and validation, some are holding out for the best because HTNish is available on demand, birth control could be a factor, also SSRIs tbh; many are on them now and they destroy sexual desire.

So many girls I met were on anti anxiety meds, anti depressants, all kinds of medications its actually fucking insane

 

[ascension124]

Based on some people I know personally, I feel like the most efficient way to slay is to be incredibly social circle-maxxed then warm approach.

Yeah but for those of us without social circle we are fucked when it comes to finding LTR

 

[ascension124]

I have similar experience, which makes me question what are they even doing on that app, considering how low percentage of guys they are swiping right on and even with those few they act completely passive, save from a few. I’m starting to think women of our day legit think some kind of gigachad will magically appear in front of them if they just keep living their normal everyday life

Crazy that high smv guys are also having this issue imagine the dating life for the average guy

 

[ascension124]

Based on some people I know personally, I feel like the most efficient way to slay is to be incredibly social circle-maxxed then warm approach.

Man its crazy how unhealthy most of these girls are and it translates to their mental health and behavior - Most of the ones I met on apps:

- Eat high carb high sugar shitty diets, eat out a lot
- Are on anti depressants, anti anxiety meds, birth control
- Binge drink every weekend and drink sugary cocktails
- Do other party drugs and smoke weed
- Sleep late
- Don't go to the gym
- Get pumped and dumped by HTN+

Its crazy how degenerate and unhealthy the avg western woman is. FORGET finding LTR just pump and dump them and live your life

@Amnesia
@Prettyboy
@Orc
@hypernormie

 

[betrayed by 5‘8]

i'll believe it when i see it

Have you not seen any dating experiment? Also my 6*5 htn facially friend had like 2-3 women a week .

 

[noodlelover]

Yeah absolutely. Just look at these foids who were down bad for "me" at first jfl this is a common occurrence.

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Been doing this shit for damn near a decade too so it's not just based on one Chadfish

If you've been doing this for a decade, would you say women are less likely to respond now, than when you started?

 

[ascension124]

Have you not seen any dating experiment? Also my 6*5 htn facially friend had like 2-3 women a week .

I was doing the same when running volume a few years ago. Keep coping tho you live in experiments real life isnt so black and white

 

[BigJimsWornOutTires]

"Hoes are just a number.
Don't approach them!
Let them approach you."

 

[autistic_tendencies]

most of the time they just want ltr or dont reply at all, the horny ones are usually older. i would say im above average

They’ve been fucked and ghosted by some player
Trust me this is mostly why they’re bitter

 

[ascension124]

Over

 

[New Poster]

Havent tried in a while but its easy to get tons of matches but most women never respond to ur first message and the ones that do a lot wont respond further

of the ones that actually do u can traed snaps and over snap talk for a bit and she will show interest but when u come to actually scheduling a day or time to hangout they be like "im busy that day or day(s) and u never hear from them again

even girls that message first or say stuff like ZOMG UR SO HOT ARE U REAL dont end up responding after the initial message. Most girls using tinder are just passing time playing hot or not

I'm glad everyone's come around to the reality of dating apps. They're basically flakefests for anyone sub-gigachad. I used tinder and bumble for a little over two months and only fucked two girls. It was a 90% flake rate with even the girls who agreed to meet up. Can't believe blackpillers continue to push dating apps like they're any reflection of actual dating smv. If you have to date online at least use something sensible like ig. Apps are fucking terrible.

 

[ascension124]

I'm glad everyone's come around to the reality of dating apps. They're basically flakefests for anyone sub-gigachad. I used tinder and bumble for a little over two months and only fucked two girls. It was a 90% flake rate with even the girls who agreed to meet up. Can't believe blackpillers continue to push dating apps like they're any reflection of actual dating smv. If you have to date online at least use something sensible like ig. Apps are fucking terrible.

100% right

 

[ascension124]

I'm glad everyone's come around to the reality of dating apps. They're basically flakefests for anyone sub-gigachad. I used tinder and bumble for a little over two months and only fucked two girls. It was a 90% flake rate with even the girls who agreed to meet up. Can't believe blackpillers continue to push dating apps like they're any reflection of actual dating smv. If you have to date online at least use something sensible like ig. Apps are fucking terrible.

Even the girls that agree to meet up flake or ghost! It’s crazy dude

 

[New Poster]

Even the girls that agree to meet up flake or ghost! It’s crazy dude

Yeah, the flake rate is unreal. I almost never have girls cancel if I meet them irl, but it was around 90% for girls on apps. It makes me fully understand incel rage. If my only way to meet girls was dating apps, I would be the most misogynistic incel on these boards. I'd be writing 10000 word essays like @disillusioned about how miserable life is and the sexual revolution must be right around the corner. It completely makes sense if all your only outlet is apps.

 

[Underdog9494]

Ask your mom.

 

[AstroSky]

Let’s talk OLD - who here is slaying from Hinge tinder etc?

@Amnesia @Foreverbrad @Heatmiser @6ft4

Let me put you on to a secret that's works for me

Facebook. Instagram.
Travel.

Dating apps is always almost full of women who sleep around. It's Saturated and the days of dating apps in its prime are over.

Another tip is if the women messages you first showing some kind of interest. You literally found a catch and that's how it should be. Women approach first if she genuinely likes you. Power dynamic and all that. Make yourself attractive enough to do that otherwise it's always going be you chasing someone's tail.

 

[ascension124]

Yeah, the flake rate is unreal. I almost never have girls cancel if I meet them irl, but it was around 90% for girls on apps. It makes me fully understand incel rage. If my only way to meet girls was dating apps, I would be the most misogynistic incel on these boards. I'd be writing 10000 word essays like @disillusioned about how miserable life is and the sexual revolution must be right around the corner. It completely makes sense if all your only outlet is apps.

How do you meet women? You do daygame right? How do you have time to daygame all day? Do you get rejected?

 

[New Poster]

How do you meet women? You do daygame right? How do you have time to daygame all day? Do you get rejected?

Yeah, I pretty much only meet girls during the day. I certainly don't do it, and I rarely ever go out with the express purpose of trying to fuck. It's just if I get a chance when I'm out and she's hot, I'll approach and try to get her back to my place. I get rejected sometimes. Most of the time I don't fuck, though, it's because of the logistics of the situation or the interaction just fizzles.

 

[ascension124]

Yeah, I pretty much only meet girls during the day. I certainly don't do it, and I rarely ever go out with the express purpose of trying to fuck. It's just if I get a chance when I'm out and she's hot, I'll approach and try to get her back to my place. I get rejected sometimes. Most of the time I don't fuck, though, it's because of the logistics of the situation or the interaction just fizzles.

But how can men get volume of dating options this way?

 

[mlbmogger252]

Yes until I deleted it because I want an LTR now not a pump and dump. It’s good for people 18-21 though

 

[AlbinoMaxxer]

This always happens
but get a foid once in a blue moon with high intrest who meets up right away , i dont get it man .

Not sure i have this problem might just be due to being oldcels?

 

[Willmogulater]

No I matched with a fucking tranny

 

[Yonee]

yes on kiss kiss

 

[New Poster]

But how can men get volume of dating options this way?

Live in a city or college town

 

[Ken]

Only if they are slaying landwhales. Ive planned around 50 dates in the past 6 months from dating apps. Only around 5 showed up and they were all landwhales. The attractive ones would always cancel or ghost last minute.

 

[ascension124]

Only if they are slaying landwhales. Ive planned around 50 dates in the past 6 months from dating apps. Only around 5 showed up and they were all landwhales. The attractive ones would always cancel or ghost last minute.

Bro so many of the girls even the HTBs that showed up looked worse in person. They were all using frauded pics. And yeah most of them flaked on me

 

[BlackpilledPlatypus]

Yeah, the flake rate is unreal. I almost never have girls cancel if I meet them irl, but it was around 90% for girls on apps. It makes me fully understand incel rage. If my only way to meet girls was dating apps, I would be the most misogynistic incel on these boards. I'd be writing 10000 word essays like @disillusioned about how miserable life is and the sexual revolution must be right around the corner. It completely makes sense if all your only outlet is apps.

My experience on dating apps has made me so jaded that it’s basically pushed me into psychopathy, lying about absolutely everything to maximise my odds of success. Often you answer one question in a way that shows you’re not the perfect man and it’s over.

It’s ironic because I would ideally like a healthy LTR with a loyal honest girl, but it feels like it’s more likely to happen if I get my foot in the door through misrepresentation and let their attachment build before coming clean about certain things (only if needed).

 

[Bipolar Vamp6ix]

irl
I dont do dating apps

 

[ascension124]

My experience on dating apps has made me so jaded that it’s basically pushed me into psychopathy, lying about absolutely everything to maximise my odds of success. Often you answer one question in a way that shows you’re not the perfect man and it’s over.

It’s ironic because I would ideally like a healthy LTR with a loyal honest girl, but it feels like it’s more likely to happen if I get my foot in the door through misrepresentation and let their attachment build before coming clean about certain things (only if needed).

Dude I legit had girls ghosting me for leavjng voicenotes. One even unmatched me because I forgot to reply for a day WTF IS THIS WORLD

 

[New Poster]

My experience on dating apps has made me so jaded that it’s basically pushed me into psychopathy, lying about absolutely everything to maximise my odds of success. Often you answer one question in a way that shows you’re not the perfect man and it’s over.

It’s ironic because I would ideally like a healthy LTR with a loyal honest girl, but it feels like it’s more likely to happen if I get my foot in the door through misrepresentation and let their attachment build before coming clean about certain things (only if needed).

You’re better off cold approaching than trying to manipulate people on apps

 

[ascension124]

My experience on dating apps has made me so jaded that it’s basically pushed me into psychopathy, lying about absolutely everything to maximise my odds of success. Often you answer one question in a way that shows you’re not the perfect man and it’s over.

It’s ironic because I would ideally like a healthy LTR with a loyal honest girl, but it feels like it’s more likely to happen if I get my foot in the door through misrepresentation and let their attachment build before coming clean about certain things (only if needed).

They fraud with makeup filters angles everything while expecting so much from men

 

[BlackpilledPlatypus]

Only if they are slaying landwhales. Ive planned around 50 dates in the past 6 months from dating apps. Only around 5 showed up and they were all landwhales. The attractive ones would always cancel or ghost last minute.

That is brutal. My flake/ghost rate is definitely super high but I’d say once we set a time and place, it’s at least like 50/50 it will happen.

 

[ascension124]

That is brutal. My flake/ghost rate is definitely super high but I’d say once we set a time and place, it’s at least like 50/50 it will happen.

Yeah for me once we agree on a time and place it’s usually ok but getting there is the problem like most ghost on the app or inritial texting

 

[BlackpilledPlatypus]

They fraud with makeup filters angles everything while expecting so much from men

The potential LTR that I fumbled recently actually looked 10x better in person, wasn’t on dating apps, seemed really into me in person.

That shit never happens, I felt that I’d struck gold so fumbling that was a brutal experience.

 

[autistic_tendencies]

Meeting up with them is pointless anyways you have to jump leaps and bounds for box

 

[BlackpilledPlatypus]

Meeting up with them is pointless anyways you have to jump leaps and bounds for box

So are you suggesting we just LDAR?

 

[autistic_tendencies]

So are you suggesting we just LDAR?

No always look your best regardless

 

[ascension124]

So are you suggesting we just LDAR?

I mean even when you meet up with them it becomes a clown show, you have to make them laugh and "feel valued' JFL its massive jesetermaxxing for some used up hole. Sometimes after slaying I would lay in bed wondering if it was all worth it even if the girl was HTB

 

[ascension124]

The potential LTR that I fumbled recently actually looked 10x better in person, wasn’t on dating apps, seemed really into me in person.

That shit never happens, I felt that I’d struck gold so fumbling that was a brutal experience.

We shouldnt be in such scarcity when it comes to finding non-obsese and decent women

 

[ascension124]

Even when I was slaying and going on many dates I felt very upset that 90% of the woman I meet are not virgins, have degen values and are EXTREMELY MASCULINE and career focused. It felt like being with a fucking man how they behave like street dogs with no honor

 

[Troglodyte452]

I've had like 700 likes and 300+ matches and I only tried setting up a date with two of the girls. First date the chick was too boring so after 2h we just hugged and we both kinda knew we aint meeting again and with the 2nd girl we fucked the first time we met and I started caring about her too much and quit Tinder lol