IS ANYONE SLAYING ON DATING APPS?

Troglodyte452 said:
I've had like 700 likes and 300+ matches and I only tried setting up a date with two of the girls. First date the chick was too boring so after 2h we just hugged and we both kinda knew we aint meeting again and with the 2nd girl we fucked the first time we met and I started caring about her too much and quit Tinder lol :feelswhy:
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Why only 2
 
ascension124 said:
Why only 2
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Im high inhib still, but the 2nd girl defo helped me with how I move around girls, I'm planning on going back on Tinder in like January
 
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Troglodyte452 said:
Im high inhib still, but the 2nd girl defo helped me with how I move around girls, I'm planning on going back on Tinder in like January
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What’s your looks level
 
I think I have 2 dates this wk but the amount of swiping and messaging and jeatermaxxing it took is crazy
 
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I fuck about 10-30 girls a year off apps in NYC, mostly pretty hot girls, some ridiculously hot. It has gotten really, really, really bad lately. 2024 was my worst year yet, granted I had a situationship end and that bitch switched up on me for someone that she got set up with at a family event. She dropped me so fast it was crazy and wanted to be friends, but I denied her and now she's really upset. Blocked her stupid ass. Whatever, fuck her. Had to take back my power somehow.

My general strategy: I target mostly size queens and run huge dick game. So it's a given that most girls I target are sluttier than average. However, I don't always do this, and it's near irrelevant since most girls on apps are whores. I had one girl off Feeld about two months tell me that she thought I was "near the top of the pile" out of all the guys she saw on the app and its been a month and I haven't heard from her after fucking her and her telling me how impressed she was and wanted to see me again. I had another girl 3 weeks ago tell me I had the biggest dick she's ever seen, asked me "Have you always been this good in bed?", and I haven't heard from her since.

The reality is this: Unless you have elite status, you are interchangeable. You are just ONE match or DM from getting mogged. I think most girls know not to take app guys seriously, which is fine because I'm not taking them seriously, either. We are basically just dildos for them to use and dispose of as they see fit. They are mostly mentally ill with fucked hormonal profiles from birth control, awful diets, and the mental damage that comes with being pumped and dumped by guys who mog them. Yet somehow they still think they are entitled to Chad.

Guys for real I have no idea where all this shit is headed. Yes, on some level we are in an echo chamber, but you'd have to be legit retarded to read through this thread of all of us having the same experiences and walk away thinking this is some sort of mass psychosis episode. Many, many couples are meeting through online dating. COVID changed everything and normalized it.

I can say that if you're on OLD as a good-looking guy, you will be forced to settle or be fucked around/flaked on endlessly. Most of the easy no-brainer slays I have are with girls who I'm attracted to, but not enough to build a life with, so just kinda hot with one redeemable feature (big ass, tits, etc.) IRL with a social circle will likely yield better results. Women are generally more "controlled" by the fear of being called out for acting poorly to guys who their friends already know. OLD for women was a giga huge mistake.

My views on dating have never been more nihilistic.
 
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cvzvvc said:
I fuck about 10-30 girls a year off apps in NYC, mostly pretty hot girls, some ridiculously hot. It has gotten really, really, really bad lately. 2024 was my worst year yet, granted I had a situationship end and that bitch switched up on me for someone that she got set up with at a family event. She dropped me so fast it was crazy and wanted to be friends, but I denied her and now she's really upset. Blocked her stupid ass. Whatever, fuck her. Had to take back my power somehow.

My general strategy: I target mostly size queens and run huge dick game. So it's a given that most girls I target are sluttier than average. However, I don't always do this, and it's near irrelevant since most girls on apps are whores. I had one girl off Feeld about two months tell me that she thought I was "near the top of the pile" out of all the guys she saw on the app and its been a month and I haven't heard from her after fucking her and her telling me how impressed she was and wanted to see me again. I had another girl 3 weeks ago tell me I had the biggest dick she's ever seen, asked me "Have you always been this good in bed?", and I haven't heard from her since.

The reality is this: Unless you have elite status, you are interchangeable. You are just ONE match or DM from getting mogged. I think most girls know not to take app guys seriously, which is fine because I'm not taking them seriously, either. We are basically just dildos for them to use and dispose of as they see fit. They are mostly mentally ill with fucked hormonal profiles from birth control, awful diets, and the mental damage that comes with being pumped and dumped by guys who mog them. Yet somehow they still think they are entitled to Chad.

Guys for real I have no idea where all this shit is headed. Yes, on some level we are in an echo chamber, but you'd have to be legit retarded to read through this thread of all of us having the same experiences and walk away thinking this is some sort of mass psychosis episode. Many, many couples are meeting through online dating. COVID changed everything and normalized it.

I can say that if you're on OLD as a good-looking guy, you will be forced to settle or be fucked around/flaked on endlessly. Most of the easy no-brainer slays I have are with girls who I'm attracted to, but not enough to build a life with, so just kinda hot with one redeemable feature (big ass, tits, etc.) IRL with a social circle will likely yield better results. Women are generally more "controlled" by the fear of being called out for acting poorly to guys who their friends already know. OLD for women was a giga huge mistake.

My views on dating have never been more nihilistic.
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I dm'ed you
 
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BlackpilledPlatypus said:
That is brutal. My flake/ghost rate is definitely super high but I’d say once we set a time and place, it’s at least like 50/50 it will happen.
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I retract my statement. Very recently started using tinder again after a few months break.

In terms of matches, maybe hitting an all-time best, but that doesn’t mean shit. In one week: 4 flakes after actually setting time and place, 2 more whilst trying to set it up after agreeing to meet. 3 more where I can sense an impending flake. And of course many many more that go cold in the very early stages of messaging or as soon as meeting up is suggested.

Been using it less than 2 weeks so with this kind of turnover I can probably expect to get something every now and again but the time investment required is way too much.
 
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BlackpilledPlatypus said:
I retract my statement. Very recently started using tinder again after a few months break.

In terms of matches, maybe hitting an all-time best, but that doesn’t mean shit. In one week: 4 flakes after actually setting time and place, 2 more whilst trying to set it up after agreeing to meet. 3 more where I can sense an impending flake. And of course many many more that go cold in the very early stages of messaging or as soon as meeting up is suggested.

Been using it less than 2 weeks so with this kind of turnover I can probably expect to get something every now and again but the time investment required is way too much.
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What is the solution for us man?
 
ascension124 said:
I think I have 2 dates this wk but the amount of swiping and messaging and jeatermaxxing it took is crazy
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How tf do you have the energy for this? Do you have a job?
 
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BlackpilledPlatypus said:
Yeah, I have exactly the same experience.

Good to know I’m not just doing something horribly wrong.

Brutal for my dopamine receptors racking up hot matches that never lead to a date or slay.

Tbh I haven’t even tried Hinge yet and that seems way more popular amongst normies in the UK now.
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Hinge is alot better
 
ascension124 said:
Let’s talk OLD - who here is slaying from Hinge tinder etc?

@Amnesia @Foreverbrad @Heatmiser @6ft4
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I do terrible on them which is weird because I get lots of attention in real life from staceylites. I guess I just look better in person than photos. I use the free versions. I refuse to pay for that shit.
 
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SoundnVision said:
Hinge is alot better
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I do really need to try it at least. Just couldn’t be bothered with all the prompt bullshit + I assumed (perhaps wrongly) that Tinder would be better for slaying with hinge more for LTR.

I kinda wanted to slay for a bit even though LTR is the end goal. And even just using one app is so time consuming.

I imagine Hinge is still a flakefest but I would guess that maybe the girls are a little more serious on average as tinder is the first thing that comes to mind when they download a dating app on a whim just to get validation or whatever.

The amount of girls on there that say “I just downloaded this 5 minutes ago”, “I got this cos I was bored” or whatever.
 
Cronus said:
I do terrible on them which is weird because I get lots of attention in real life from staceylites. I guess I just look better in person than photos. I use the free versions. I refuse to pay for that shit.
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Sadly I think the paid stuff helps a lot. Tinder platinum made a big difference, as much as I hate giving money to such a shit company.

Although much more matches = much more time wasted tbh.

Tbh I at least match with hotter girls than I’d normally get in real life, but that’s no surprise when I’m below average height. I just don’t even list it. I think I have a decent set of pics too.
 
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@jabaduk and @Zeta are doing fine and making .org proud
 
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@thereallegend Are you getting dates or success from IRL? How is your dating life?
 
ascension124 said:
80% of girls on tinder didn’t respond my first message the Ones that reply and give a number many of them flake and the ones that want to meet up are usually MTBs
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Nigga girls will sound like they worship me off the first 3 messages and ghost me straight after. Its just a validation game. Ditch the apps and find warm approaches
 
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distance decay said:
Nigga girls will sound like they worship me off the first 3 messages and ghost me straight after. Its just a validation game. Ditch the apps and find warm approaches
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How is it that all these men in the thread live in different places and have different SMV and yet have such similar experiences with dating apps?

What you said is exactly what happens to me
 
distance decay said:
Nigga girls will sound like they worship me off the first 3 messages and ghost me straight after. Its just a validation game. Ditch the apps and find warm approaches
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Women do the same thing IRL too
 
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distance decay said:
Nigga girls will sound like they worship me off the first 3 messages and ghost me straight after. Its just a validation game. Ditch the apps and find warm approaches
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until they say "let me get your number"
and then the cycle continues :forcedsmile:
 
thereallegend said:
I’m low tier normie plus I rose my standards while decreasing my effort
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High standards are a death sentence same exact thing happened to me I became jaded and stopped putting in effort while increasing standards to strong MTB+
 
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ascension124 said:
High standards are a death sentence same exact thing happened to me I became jaded and stopped putting in effort while increasing standards to strong MTB+
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I want MTB+

No more LTB
 
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thereallegend said:
I want MTB+

No more LTB
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Same! But wanting MTB+ in 2024 means endless dry spells JFL it’s too much to ask for in the west. That’s why I will geomax. You don’t need much money to geomax btw just get a remote job paying 75k+ and that’s considered wealthy in LATAM you will live like a king there
 
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ascension124 said:
Same! But wanting MTB+ in 2024 means endless dry spells JFL it’s too much to ask for in the west. That’s why I will geomax. You don’t need much money to geomax btw just get a remote job paying 75k+ and that’s considered wealthy in LATAM you will live like a king there
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Easier said than done
 
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I get literally only bots on tinder for some reason but on other apps very good
 
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idk7777 said:
I get literally only bots on tinder for some reason
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I’m seeing a MASSIVE increase in bots on tinder in the last few months it’s always the same profiles too. Atleast half my daily matches are bots now it’s crazy
 
ascension124 said:
I’m seeing a MASSIVE increase in bots on tinder in the last few months it’s always the same profiles too. Atleast half my daily matches are bots now it’s crazy
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App has run its course tbh, wish I was old enough to use It back in 2016 or something looked like it worked decently.
 
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distance decay said:
App has run its course tbh, wish I was old enough to use It back in 2016 or something looked like it worked decently.
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We can still slay but it will be crumbs here and there in 2024 but rats have to eat somehow
 
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My 5'7 HTN friend with a lean physique slays on tinder
 
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