Is being a sensitive guy a failo?

[Xangsane]

not when you're secretly sensitive

My dick feels so good when it's getting erect under my boxers

 

[ifyouwannabemylover]

My dick feels so good when it's getting erect under my boxers

you jerked it to the person in your avi before?

 

[Deleted member 16371]

My dick feels so good when it's getting erect under my boxers

Sehri when?

 

[Xangsane]

It just seems like your partners could think you're too attached to them. So they'll start being too comfortable and slack a lot when it comes to you. Won't treat you with respect, will take your kindness for granted etc. You need to get them to reciprocrate, to let them know you're not a pushover

I've noticed that girls would try and get you to commit at first, then slack off later.
Maybe I should try and act cool first so they don't use me as some emotional tampon, and take advantage of me because of my nature?

Be honest, do I look the sensitive type from my pics?

 

[Xangsane]

Sehri when?

Not quite yet, and I was kidding.

 

[Xangsane]

I want to hug you and pat your head, OP. I wish the best for you.

Thank you.
Honestly do I look sensitive?

 

[LooksOrDeath]

I've noticed that girls would try and get you to commit at first, then slack off later.
Maybe I should try and act cool first so they don't use me as some emotional tampon, and take advantage of me because of my nature?

You don't act cool at first, you need to do it the whole way to secure commitment

Be honest, do I look the sensitive type from my pics?

With the glasses yes. You also look young for 24 which i imagine makes you look more "sensitive"

 

[Xangsane]

It’s a failio in dating but major hell when it comes to making friends and going up a social hierarchy, I’m similar to you but I hide my feelings a lot.

What you have to do is learn to optimise your game. I tease and flirt with girls, but my “sweet side” i show it sometimes. You basically need to play hot and cold with these girls and not feel bad about it.

I recommend reading the genealogy of morality by Nietzsche, it’s deffo made me less sensitive and has made me a lot more stoic now that I understand why I feel that way about things

I often am the one people turn to for any intellectual convos or advice when it comes to dealing with problems one is facing. I'm not good at giving advice when it comes to other people, but I try my best to put myself in their shoes and think about what I would do in that situation.

I can appear stoic from the outside, and surprisingly I don't show a lot of emotions on my face. I just let them out to the people I'm closest to, like my family, or my girlfriend (if I had one).

Thank you for the recommendation bhai

 

[Xangsane]

sensitive people are viewed as weak from my experiences ngl

Even when they look stoic from the outside?

 

[Xangsane]

You are a good guy @Xangsane

Thank you.
What do you think makes me a good guy?

Being unphased/calm is masculine.

I appear like that most of the time. I don't show emotions on my face at all, just to the ones I'm extremely close to. Never friends, just family and if I had one, a girlfriend.

 

[Xangsane]

you jerked it to the person in your avi before?

No

 

[Deleted member 15674]

I often am the one people turn to for any intellectual convos or advice when it comes to dealing with problems one is facing. I'm not good at giving advice when it comes to other people, but I try my best to put myself in their shoes and think about what I would do in that situation.

I can appear stoic from the outside, and surprisingly I don't show a lot of emotions on my face. I just let them out to the people I'm closest to, like my family, or my girlfriend (if I had one).

Thank you for the recommendation bhai

That’s okay bro, but inside you there is weakness. I’m like you too, people come to me for advice about all sorts because I’m good at thinking from their perspective.

But you’re fake outside stoic face isn’t good, you need to kill emotions like guilt inside you. Please do read genealogy of morality, you’ll realise why your morals and views are like that and how cucked we’ve become

 

[Xangsane]

You don't act cool at first, you need to do it the whole way to secure commitment

With the glasses yes. You also look young for 24 which i imagine makes you look more "sensitive"

Thanks for the advice!

Without the glasses do I still appear "soft"?

How old do I look? Does my pheno (masc vs prettyboy vs maesthetic) affect this?

 

[Xangsane]

That’s okay bro, but inside you there is weakness. I’m like you too, people come to me for advice about all sorts because I’m good at thinking from their perspective.

But you’re fake outside stoic face isn’t good, you need to kill emotions like guilt inside you. Please do read genealogy of morality, you’ll realise why your morals and views are like that and how cucked we’ve become

Everyone has weaknesses, but I know I have a lot more than the average person, and I'm finding ways to work on them.

At least we're similar!

Could people tell there's a softie from that stoic shell, as opposed to a real cold guy?

 

[Korea]

No, it's not bro.

 

[Xangsane]

No, it's not bro.

Thanks.
Why isn't it a failo?

 

[Korea]

Thanks.
Why isn't it a failo?

Because it's basic human emotion, whereas being completely non chalant will just make people see you as shit to be around etc.

 

[Xangsane]

Because it's basic human emotion, whereas being completely non chalant will just make people see you as shit to be around etc.

That's what I thought but I heard on here and elsewhere that women don't like sensitive men?

I wonder if it's because Chads are less likely to be like that, hm?

 

[ifyouwannabemylover]

No

bitch ass liar

 

[Korea]

That's what I thought but I heard on here and elsewhere that women don't like sensitive men?

I wonder if it's because Chads are less likely to be like that, hm?

Nah, they’re saying that because they fell for “Be the bad boy bro” meme.

It’s fine to be emotional.

 

[Deleted member 15674]

Everyone has weaknesses, but I know I have a lot more than the average person, and I'm finding ways to work on them.

At least we're similar!

Could people tell there's a softie from that stoic shell, as opposed to a real cold guy?

Yes people can tell, you probably use phrases like "I understand how you feel" and "how do you feel about this?" etc, these things are big indicators you are soft

 

[closedplatecel]

I understand your predicament. I’m a good guy at heart. I genuinely want others to live good and be happy. I wish I could just be myself.

Unfortunately, I learned the world is a cold reality.
For some reason , woman Want to be disrespected, took from, and made to feel lesser. They get a pleasure from it biologically. They want a man who will take and be selfish with resources at the expense of innocent others. It is very sad but we have to play that game. Damn it.

 

[Deleted member 17791]

Depends on the women. It's like dark triad, it will ascend you for certain women and will decend you for the rest.

You'll do better with long life history strategists.

 

[randomuser2407]

1) Myers Briggs test is bullshit.

2) Being emotional about a movie or a tv show is fine, it just means you are human and not a psychopath.

3) As long as you are able to control your emotions when someone says something you don't like or when you see something you don't like, then you aren't too sensitive.

Being overly sensitive can be a failo if it means that women can easily manipulate you or if it leads you to lose control through bad impulsive actions.

 

[Stopping@Nothing19]

Even when they look stoic from the outside?

after they get to know you prolly

 

[Xangsane]

after they get to know you prolly

Worse if one's subhuman?

 

[unwhippedcream]

Dont change for a girl it never works make girls chane for you

 

[Xangsane]

Dont change for a girl it never works make girls chane for you

I never thought they'd change for a replaceable man. Aren't they "strong independent women" who want to be accepted for who they are?

 

[Stopping@Nothing19]

Worse if one's subhuman?

for sure, normies attack sensitive incels like whitebloods attacking infection

 

[unwhippedcream]

I never thought they'd change for a replaceable man. Aren't they "strong independent women" who want to be accepted for who they are?

Girls are whoring thinking they are supperessed but the real suppression ended long before,
They want to be accepted for who they are and also deserve a giga chad because why not

 

[unwhippedcream]

for sure, normies attack sensitive incels like whitebloods attacking infection

High iq comment

 

[onnysk]

Low T is

 

[Stopping@Nothing19]

High iq comment

why the soy emoji grey?

 

[unwhippedcream]

why the soy emoji grey?

Idk i just like using them

 

[Stopping@Nothing19]

Idk i just like using them

based

 

[Deleted member 15748]

High iq comment

well yeah and who can blame them.

being 'sensitive' in and of itself isn't necessarily bad.

HOWEVER, mental weakness is a disgustingly ugly trait.
Often when people talk about 'sensitivity' they are just talking about mental weakness.

a guy that needs constant affirmation, cares what others think of him, has low self esteem and reacts poorly to confrontation is just weak, pathetic and unattractive. I wouldn't blame women for finding this trait unattractive. when one of your guy friends is like this its just pathetic and you don't want them as a friend.

That doesn't mean you have to be some cookie cutter alpha guy, be artistic, be emotional, be whatever the fuck you want. just be sure of who you are and your place in the world and don't be weak, and you are fine.

 

[Prettyboy]

Thank you.
What do you think makes me a good guy?

Based on your content you seem like a genuinely good man, with a strong family background and a moral compass. I notice this because I am the opposite, I was neglected and as a consequence I became a rogue dark triad person. You seem like the opposite of me, which is admirable. The world would be a much better place if it had less people like me and more like you

 

[Harold O'brien]

cute!